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BlueFoxfireS8 · 13th Jun 2011, 07:10 AM

Hope I'm posting this in the right section...

Here goes. A lot of people tell me how I look so much like a child and I have to admit, I do look like a prepubescent male. Short and all that.

Anyway, I look(well, stare really

) at guys a lot when I'm out of the house. Especially at restaurants. I've had them look back at me but no dirty looks or anything. My question is, if someone like me(physically) was staring at you, what would be the first thing going through your mind?

Thanks in advance for any input.

Almost forgot, I do act like a child even in public. (If that's relevant in any way.)

Nazo · 13th Jun 2011, 08:01 AM

If you do honestly look like a child I would probably just think you were acting like a stereotypical child. Staring at people all the time and whatnot.
But then again I get stared at by kids a lot because of my height so others might not have the same experience as me.

Z3ni · 13th Jun 2011, 08:01 AM

I'd be like.. "Oh shit.. is there something wrong with me!?"

BlueFoxfireS8 · 13th Jun 2011, 08:08 AM

In some light, I guess I do look like a kid. The youngest I've been thought of was 12 but usually 13-16.

Revan · 13th Jun 2011, 08:42 AM

I don't know what you actually look like so it's hard to say, but if you look like a child...I'd probably just be like "why is that kid looking at me?"

Robert · 13th Jun 2011, 11:45 AM

Not to be a creep or anything but I'm pretty sure that we need a picture to be able to answer this accurately.

If you dont want to put up a picture of yourself then perhaps theres someone who looks like you?

Pseudojim · 13th Jun 2011, 12:20 PM

you mightn't look exactly the way you think you look.

Having said that, i probably wouldn't think anything.

ilayis · 13th Jun 2011, 02:07 PM

If I was to look at someone and they looked back and I was too afraid to even wonder if they were gay I would just use it to make myself feel good.(Thinking I must be hot if they are looking back!!!!!)

haelmarie · 13th Jun 2011, 03:21 PM

"I've got some candy in the back of my van..."

BlueFoxfireS8 · 14th Jun 2011, 01:33 AM

I put a picture in my profile. It's definitely not my best. X3

13th Jun 2011, 07:10 AM	#1
BlueFoxfireS8 Unstable Regular Member Gender: Male Orientation: I took a wrong turn somewhere. Location: Manila, PH Age: 19 Posts: 46 Join Date: Jun 2011	A Mind To Read Hope I'm posting this in the right section... Here goes. A lot of people tell me how I look so much like a child and I have to admit, I do look like a prepubescent male. Short and all that. Anyway, I look(well, stare really ) at guys a lot when I'm out of the house. Especially at restaurants. I've had them look back at me but no dirty looks or anything. My question is, if someone like me(physically) was staring at you, what would be the first thing going through your mind? Thanks in advance for any input. Almost forgot, I do act like a child even in public. (If that's relevant in any way.) Last edited by BlueFoxfireS8; 13th Jun 2011 at 07:15 AM..

13th Jun 2011, 08:01 AM	#2
Nazo Janis Ian's Lesbian Crush Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Facebook, not hiding at college Location: Michigan Age: 19 Posts: 2,070 Join Date: Dec 2010	Re: A Mind To Read If you do honestly look like a child I would probably just think you were acting like a stereotypical child. Staring at people all the time and whatnot. But then again I get stared at by kids a lot because of my height so others might not have the same experience as me. __________________ are you feeling like a prisoner are you living life the way you want giving time to ones you love are you giving time to who you are

13th Jun 2011, 08:01 AM	#3
Z3ni Ec's ADD Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gayish Out Status: My Twin Location: England, Manchester Posts: 3,080 Join Date: Oct 2008	Re: A Mind To Read I'd be like.. "Oh shit.. is there something wrong with me!?" __________________ Through pain, lies success.

13th Jun 2011, 08:08 AM	#4
BlueFoxfireS8 Unstable Regular Member Gender: Male Orientation: I took a wrong turn somewhere. Location: Manila, PH Age: 19 Posts: 46 Join Date: Jun 2011	Re: A Mind To Read In some light, I guess I do look like a kid. The youngest I've been thought of was 12 but usually 13-16.

13th Jun 2011, 08:42 AM	#5
Revan EC Addict Full Member Gender: M for MEEP! Orientation: Mutant and Proud Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Windsor, Ontario Age: 24 Posts: 6,564 Join Date: Jun 2005	Re: A Mind To Read I don't know what you actually look like so it's hard to say, but if you look like a child...I'd probably just be like "why is that kid looking at me?" __________________ "Is there some reason my coffee isn't here? Has she died or something?" - Miranda Priestly. Strength is not defined by physical capacity, but by indomitable will. ~ Mahatma Gandhi Procrastination is like masturbation, in the end you just wind up screwing yourself.

13th Jun 2011, 11:45 AM	#6
Robert EC Addict Full Member Gender: Male ♂ Orientation: Gay Out Status: Some people Location: World Posts: 971 Join Date: Jun 2011	Re: A Mind To Read Not to be a creep or anything but I'm pretty sure that we need a picture to be able to answer this accurately. If you dont want to put up a picture of yourself then perhaps theres someone who looks like you? __________________ "I am like a mirror that dares not be what nature made it, but feels obligated, always, to reflect what surrounds it." - Frederick II of Prussia. "England is a Prison" - Gerrard Winstanley

13th Jun 2011, 12:20 PM	#7
Pseudojim Part robot Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Bi - Kinsey 2ish Out Status: All but family Location: Australia Age: 27 Posts: 2,154 Join Date: Sep 2009	Re: A Mind To Read you mightn't look exactly the way you think you look. Having said that, i probably wouldn't think anything.

13th Jun 2011, 02:07 PM	#8
ilayis Social Loner Regular Member Gender: Male Orientation: Bisexual Out Status: Some people Location: Racine,Wisconsin Age: 25 Posts: 95 Join Date: Oct 2008	Re: A Mind To Read If I was to look at someone and they looked back and I was too afraid to even wonder if they were gay I would just use it to make myself feel good.(Thinking I must be hot if they are looking back!!!!!)

13th Jun 2011, 03:21 PM	#9
haelmarie it's ok to be afraid Full Member Gender: No. Orientation: No. Age: 18 Posts: 767 Join Date: Oct 2009	Re: A Mind To Read "I've got some candy in the back of my van..."

14th Jun 2011, 01:33 AM	#10
BlueFoxfireS8 Unstable Regular Member Gender: Male Orientation: I took a wrong turn somewhere. Location: Manila, PH Age: 19 Posts: 46 Join Date: Jun 2011	Re: A Mind To Read I put a picture in my profile. It's definitely not my best. X3

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