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| EC Addict Full Member ![]() Gender: Male Orientation: Bisexual Out Status: My sisters and close friends. Location: Connecticut Age: 26 Posts: 357 Join Date: Feb 2011 | Ok I know this is mainly for those in the U.S. but I am curious to hear what you think of today's holiday. Today is the day to celebrate the freedoms fought for on the founding of our country. However it saddens me that many people throughout the U.S. do not enjoy the full rights that are granted to most of the rest of the population. Simply because of loving someone of the same sex. It burns that I spent 6 years in service of my country and yet should I choose to live and spend my life with another guy I will face more fight in that then I did in 6 years of military service. The only thing that I can hold to is that there are people like me that view the oath they took to the founding principles of liberty seriously. That there are those that fight for what this country was founded on. I know that it might be hard to take some times but know that there are those in which the light of liberty still burns strong and that they fight for ALL men and women to hold the rights that they are born to. So today for me this is the celebration of a fight for human liberty that has been fought since the drafting to the Deceleration of Independence. What does this day mean to you? What do you think of where we stand on liberty and where we have to go? |
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| Liebe ist für alle da! Full Member ![]() Gender: Female Orientation: La la la ladies Out Status: I don't care who knows Location: California Age: 27 Posts: 1,692 Join Date: Feb 2011 | Means nothing to me. It's just another day. I do like the fireworks, but they represent nothing; we're not as free as we think we are.
__________________ No government has the right to tell its citizens when or whom to love. The only queer people are those who don't love anybody Rita Mae Brown |
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| EC Addict Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Almost there Location: West Midlands Age: 20 Posts: 513 Join Date: May 2011 | Since I'm not American, the 4th July doesn't hold much meaning to me, so it's just another day. ![]()
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| EC Addict Full Member ![]() Gender: Male Orientation: Bisexual Out Status: My sisters and close friends. Location: Connecticut Age: 26 Posts: 357 Join Date: Feb 2011 | Quote:
I dont mean to come off as confrontational but I dont get it when people say things like we are not as free as we think we are. Sure there are laws I dont like and things I think need to change but I know of no where else I would be more free or have more of a chance to make the changes I would like to see. ---------- Post added 4th Jul 2011 at 03:25 PM ---------- Sorry for the double post but I missed this the first time. I can dig that thought our forth is similar to the signing of the Magna Carta for those of you over in Briton. So gotta ask and sorry for my lack of knowledge on the matter but do you guys have anything like our forth for that? | |
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| Mister Funny Man Full Member ![]() Gender: Male Location: Binghampton, NY Posts: 1,537 Join Date: Oct 2010 | Hotdogs, fireworks, and warm nights.
__________________ Get up and open your eyes...Don't ever let yourself ever fall down... Get through it and learn how to fly...I know you'll find a way...today. -Days of the New, "Dirty Road" |
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| EC Addict Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Almost there Location: West Midlands Age: 20 Posts: 513 Join Date: May 2011 | Quote:
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| This space for lease. Full Member ![]() Gender: Male Orientation: I like guys Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Hippie Town, Alberta of the US Age: 31 Posts: 2,108 Join Date: Nov 2008 | Independence day used to be quite an important day to me. As it was a very important event in our history and changed the lives of a lot of people. 6 years ago my mother lost her battle with cancer on July 4th. It hasen't been the same since. I kind of ignore the holiday because it brings back lots of painful memories.
__________________ All the problems of the world could be settled easily if men were only willing to think. The trouble is that men very often resort to all sorts of devices in order not to think, because thinking is such hard work. --Thomas J. Watson |
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| Maximum Ridiculosity Full Member ![]() Gender: Female Orientation: Kinsey 5. So, pretty gay. Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Wisconsin Age: 22 Posts: 1,274 Join Date: Jan 2011 | Truth. I use it as an excuse to get together with people I love, enjoy the weather, eat good food and kick back. Which I guess is kind of an exercise in freedom. As much as I don't like the fact that my life liberty and pursuit of happiness are a bit squashed because I'm gay in America and there are lots of other things wrong with our country, I can't imagine living anywhere else. This is my home. I love my country. Which just means that if I don't agree with the way things are, I need to work to change them, instead of just being grumpy about it. *Not saying anyone specifically is just being grumpy, this is just how I feel about myself. ---------- Post added 5th Jul 2011 at 12:12 AM ---------- Quote:
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__________________ "I came out laughing, I came out screaming, I came out dancing..." - T&S | |
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| Flananderpus! Regular Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay but curious Out Status: Some people Location: USA Age: 22 Posts: 165 Join Date: Jul 2009 | It's pretty important to me. It's nice to reflect back on the circumstances that ultimately lead to where we are today. Yeah, our country has a lot to learn, and for that reason alone it's important not to be lost in blind patriotism and nationalism but, at the same time, I feel as though it is important to have pride for where you are(your country) and all those who have helped the nation survive and thrive, not to mention the infinite number of personal reasons. There will always be dark times, there always have been and, in a way, they are necessary; Without them we would never grow. There are good people and bad people, good means and bad means; today is a day to remember the good. Happy Fourth!
__________________ "Everyone carries a shadow, and the less it is embodied in the individuals conscious life, the blacker and denser it is. If an inferiority is conscious, one always has a chance to correct it. Furthermore, it is constantly in contact with other interests, so that is is continually subjected to modifications. But if it is repressed and isolated from consciousness, it never gets corrected." |
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| Part robot Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Bi - Kinsey 2ish Out Status: All but family Location: Australia Age: 27 Posts: 2,154 Join Date: Sep 2009 | It's a reminder of patriotism for me. I don't like patriotism. It splits humanity into a series of boys' clubs. In the words of socrates (i think): I am neither an Athenian nor a Greek, i am a citizen of the world. nope, it was Diogenes of Sinope who said "I am not an Athenian or a Corinthian, but a citizen of the world." same message anyway |
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| Newbie Regular Member ![]() Gender: Male Orientation: Bisexual Out Status: A few people Location: California Posts: 1 Join Date: Jul 2011 | The holiday means fireworks and that's all it's mean to me lately. I don't celebrate holidays as much as I used to. I've even gotten to forget what many of them are for. |
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| You'll love me! Full Member ![]() Gender: ♂ Orientation: ♂ ♥ ♂ Out Status: Out Location: N.W. Ohio Age: 21 Posts: 1,430 Join Date: Mar 2010 | It means a lot to me because it means the summer vacation is halfway over, including my unwilling stint working at a paper factory, first and foremost. It's an excuse to see family and friends. It brings people together and that's what I care about. As far as American values and stuff is concerned, I understand why we celebrate it and stuff but honestly, it rings very hollow with me. This country and its people aren't really free. I sometimes think that I would have been much happier had I been born in the Netherlands or Denmark or something.
__________________ I feel a hunger. Take my picture by the pool, because I'm the next big thing. Fingers crossed, my time is coming now... |
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| EC Addict Full Member ![]() Gender: Male ♂ Orientation: Gay Out Status: Some people Location: World Posts: 971 Join Date: Jun 2011 | About 4 fireworks were let off in a nearby park last night.
__________________ "I am like a mirror that dares not be what nature made it, but feels obligated, always, to reflect what surrounds it." - Frederick II of Prussia. "England is a Prison" - Gerrard Winstanley |
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| The fluctuator Regular Member Gender: Male Orientation: Mutant and proud Out Status: All except work and extended family. Location: I fly as much as Superman Age: 24 Posts: 619 Join Date: Apr 2011 | Independence. Celebrating my heroes, the founding fathers. Not America as it is today to some people. But, the ideal it was created to become. And the America it will hopefully be again. |
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| ducks all up! All up, I say! Regular Member ![]() Gender: Girlish? Orientation: Licks boys Out Status: Anyone that asks Location: CA Age: 23 Posts: 1,709 Join Date: Jun 2011 | I used to like the Fourth, but I don't really care anymore. These days, the Fourth of July just means people setting off firecrackers until past midnight for about a week. Annoying. I can, if I think aout it, work up a little patriotism, though. For instance, even though this country has problems, I am glad I at least live in a country where I won't get thrown in jail or executed just for being gay. |
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| EC Addict Full Member ![]() Gender: Male Orientation: Pansexual. Or bi. Same thing. Out Status: Yes. Location: Toronto, Canada Age: 30 Posts: 797 Join Date: Nov 2009 | It's that day when you're back at work after the long Canada Day weekend and nobody is posting anything online 'cause they're all in the States. ![]()
__________________ --Brendan A coming out is never late, Frodo Baggins. Nor is it early. You come out precisely when you mean to. -not Gandalf |
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| Member Regular Member ![]() Gender: Male Orientation: I'm a Kinsey Scale 6 type Gay Out Status: Two and a half people. Location: CT Age: 14 Posts: 45 Join Date: Apr 2011 | Quote:
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| lieks Mudkipz Full Member ![]() Gender: physically female Orientation: homoromantic asexual Out Status: one friend Location: Michigan Age: 16 Posts: 541 Join Date: Mar 2011 | Absolutely nothing but an annual party at my aunt's house and people calling the sheriff on that guy who shoots off illegal fireworks every day of the week before the 4th. I see not nearly as much independence or freedom here as we should have. Oh, and hotdogs. ![]()
__________________ "Special doesn't have many kids, so the class is very close. The family feeling is greater here than anywhere else. They call us "weirdos" and "trash", but that doesn't mean anything. Don't struggle to keep up a facade for rankings or fitting in. Just live your life to the fullest!" -T. A. |
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| Well Known Regular Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay, probably Posts: 109 Join Date: Jan 2011 | The country's not doing so hot on LGBT rights. And in some ways that's the least of its problems. Ultimately, I've never really felt the government here has represented my interests so its hard to care for it. But I'll light a few fire crackers, I'm as fond of seeing stuff blow up as the next guy. ((Love the land though, I don't give a rat's ass about "America" but the land itself is beautiful))
__________________ They called me mad, I called them mad, and damn them they outvoted me! -- Nathaniel Lee upon being commited to Bedlam |
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| EC's Biggest LNJF and SNL fan!! Full Member ![]() Gender: Let's say Pangender! Orientation: Let's say gay!! Out Status: Out to parents, campus, and 75 friends on facebook Location: Central and Northern Ohio Age: 19 Posts: 2,503 Join Date: Jun 2011 | I usually go and watch some fireworks and think about the military members both past and present. I also spend the day with my family.
__________________ So many years have passed, since I proclaimed my independence, my mission, my aim, and my vision, so secure, content to live each day like it's my last, it's wonderful to know, that I could be, something more than what I dreamed, far beyond what I could see -Dream Theater |
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