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| View Poll Results: Does it matter? | |||
| Yes, it does matter. 100%. | | 15 | 34.88% |
| 90% | | 2 | 4.65% |
| 80% | | 5 | 11.63% |
| 70% | | 1 | 2.33% |
| 60% | | 1 | 2.33% |
| 50% | | 1 | 2.33% |
| 40% | | 0 | 0% |
| 30% | | 1 | 2.33% |
| 20% | | 2 | 4.65% |
| 10% | | 1 | 2.33% |
| No, it doesnt matter. 0% | | 9 | 20.93% |
| Undecided | | 5 | 11.63% |
| Voters: 43. You may not vote on this poll | |||
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| EC Addict Full Member ![]() Gender: Male ♂ Orientation: Gay Out Status: Some people Location: World Posts: 971 Join Date: Jun 2011 | Me and my straight friend, Rosenrot, were talking about blowjobs and I said that it didnt matter which gender gave you a blowjob as the mouth of a female isnt THAT much difference to the mouth of a male. He disagreed. What do you guys think? How much does it matter to you?
__________________ "I am like a mirror that dares not be what nature made it, but feels obligated, always, to reflect what surrounds it." - Frederick II of Prussia. "England is a Prison" - Gerrard Winstanley |
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| Enigma Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: England, United Kingdom Age: 21 Posts: 535 Join Date: Jan 2011 | well seeing as how I've ever had a blow job from guys, I couldn't possibly give an educated answer. |
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| EC Addict Full Member ![]() Gender: Male Orientation: Bisexual Out Status: My sisters and close friends. Location: Connecticut Age: 26 Posts: 357 Join Date: Feb 2011 | For me I dont think there is much of a difference between a male or a male when it comes to giving a blow job. Really I think its just the skill of the person rather then the sex. |
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| Member Regular Member ![]() Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to 1 Friend Posts: 20 Join Date: Jun 2011 | I could no longer receive one from a female, the interest wouldn't be there...I think it does matter 100% because my sexual attraction is limited to males only. |
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| EC Addict Full Member ![]() Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Everybody Location: Cambridgeshire, England Age: 18 Posts: 278 Join Date: Jun 2010 | To me it does matter, as the emotional connection has to be there for me to really enjoy it.
__________________ "I'm not even on drugs, I'm just weird." -Alex Gaskarth |
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| EC Addict Full Member ![]() Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Mostly out. Location: New Brunswick, Canada Age: 17 Posts: 1,294 Join Date: Feb 2010 | You and your friend are both right. The mouths aren't any different, but it does matter to people who's doing it.
__________________ "Yet if hope has flown away / In a night, or in a day, In a vision, or in none, / Is it therefore the less gone?" - Poe |
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| Fear of the Market Place Full Member ![]() Gender: Male Orientation: absent Location: Melbourne, Australia Age: 22 Posts: 760 Join Date: Sep 2008 | Honestly if it was like a blindfold test I don't think you would notice much difference. Does it matter though? hmm to me it would I would only have sex with someone I loved or was at least attracted to, otherwise would feel to much like using someone. But I do think sex can just be sex, just pure pleasure where gender wouldn't matter. but you would have to be the type of person who could do it. |
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| Mister Funny Man Full Member ![]() Gender: Male Location: Binghampton, NY Posts: 1,537 Join Date: Oct 2010 | Is an ass an ass?
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| Newbie Regular Member Gender: Male Orientation: Bisexual Out Status: A few people Location: Boston, MA Age: 37 Posts: 7 Join Date: Jun 2011 | Quote:
It also depends on the subjective views and comfort level of the blowee. No doubt the majority of straight-identified men would be simply turned off at the notion of knowingly receiving oral from another guy. That's not to say that if they were to somehow receive that blow job without knowing the sex of the blower that they wouldn't physically enjoy it. If someone offering oral sex were first to tell you they have severe gum disease, you may be seriously turned off and not interested at all. If that same person were to offer and not first tell you that delicious fact, then you might accept the offer and actually enjoy it. *shudder* You get the point. And no, I'm not trying to draw a comparison between gays and gum disease! I'm sure plenty of gay-identified men would not be interested in blow jobs from women, though I'm happy to hear other's thoughts on that one. | |
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| Part robot Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Bi - Kinsey 2ish Out Status: All but family Location: Australia Age: 27 Posts: 2,154 Join Date: Sep 2009 | is there a WTF option? Can there be? |
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| Member Regular Member Gender: Male Orientation: Bisexual Posts: 50 Join Date: Jul 2011 | It makes a difference, though I wouldn't be able to say how. It's psychological. I mean, the 'a hole is a hole' logic is flawed, since it eliminates all sexual preference. There's not much difference between anuses either. Vaginas are the only unique hole. |
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| Ec's ADD Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gayish Out Status: My Twin Location: England, Manchester Posts: 3,083 Join Date: Oct 2008 | I read gay guy were better than girls, coz they know how they want it ![]()
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| Well Known Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: New York Age: 20 Posts: 119 Join Date: May 2011 | I've only had a couple of bj's from girls, and I'm hoping that it's because I'm gay, because I just didn't enjoy them. I didn't get very hard, and it felt awkward and unattractive. hopefully I will find out that bj's from guys are much better haha. |
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| Beautiful World Regular Member ![]() Gender: Male Orientation: I guess I'm bisexual... Out Status: close friends Location: Taipei Age: 17 Posts: 16 Join Date: Jul 2011 | i think the mouths are not different. it depends on skill of the person who gives blowjob |
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| Mad and dead as nails EC Advisor ![]() Gender: Male Orientation: Kinsey 5 or 6. It varies Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Alaska Age: 22 Posts: 2,024 Join Date: Mar 2010 | I suppose it wouldn't make much difference, except that I don't want to just receive a blowjob. I want a full-out clothes-off naked ball of touching. Just having my cock out and getting sucked isn't all that appealing if hands aren't running all over our bodies, stroking, etc. And for that, I really want a guy.
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| Member Regular Member ![]() Gender: Male Orientation: Questioning Out Status: Some people Location: MELBOURNEEE Posts: 64 Join Date: Apr 2011 | Quote:
__________________ Hey Angel, Why so duh SEXY? | |
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| ^_^ Full Member ![]() Gender: Girl. Orientation: Girls. Out Status: whoever asks Location: Why are there eggs scrambling in the street? Age: 18 Posts: 238 Join Date: Mar 2011 | My thoughts when I opened the thread.
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