Me and my straight friend, Rosenrot, were talking about blowjobs and I said that it didnt matter which gender gave you a blowjob as the mouth of a female isnt THAT much difference to the mouth of a male. He disagreed. What do you guys think? How much does it matter to you?
For me I dont think there is much of a difference between a male or a male when it comes to giving a blow job. Really I think its just the skill of the person rather then the sex.
I could no longer receive one from a female, the interest wouldn't be there...I think it does matter 100% because my sexual attraction is limited to males only.
You and your friend are both right. The mouths aren't any different, but it does matter to people who's doing it.
Honestly if it was like a blindfold test I don't think you would notice much difference. Does it matter though? hmm to me it would I would only have sex with someone I loved or was at least attracted to, otherwise would feel to much like using someone. But I do think sex can just be sex, just pure pleasure where gender wouldn't matter. but you would have to be the type of person who could do it.
+1 It also depends on the subjective views and comfort level of the blowee. No doubt the majority of straight-identified men would be simply turned off at the notion of knowingly receiving oral from another guy. That's not to say that if they were to somehow receive that blow job without knowing the sex of the blower that they wouldn't physically enjoy it. If someone offering oral sex were first to tell you they have severe gum disease, you may be seriously turned off and not interested at all. If that same person were to offer and not first tell you that delicious fact, then you might accept the offer and actually enjoy it. *shudder* You get the point. And no, I'm not trying to draw a comparison between gays and gum disease! I'm sure plenty of gay-identified men would not be interested in blow jobs from women, though I'm happy to hear other's thoughts on that one.
It makes a difference, though I wouldn't be able to say how. It's psychological. I mean, the 'a hole is a hole' logic is flawed, since it eliminates all sexual preference. There's not much difference between anuses either. Vaginas are the only unique hole.
I've only had a couple of bj's from girls, and I'm hoping that it's because I'm gay, because I just didn't enjoy them. I didn't get very hard, and it felt awkward and unattractive. hopefully I will find out that bj's from guys are much better haha.
I suppose it wouldn't make much difference, except that I don't want to just receive a blowjob. I want a full-out clothes-off naked ball of touching. Just having my cock out and getting sucked isn't all that appealing if hands aren't running all over our bodies, stroking, etc. And for that, I really want a guy.
