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Old 28th Jul 2011, 10:49 AM   #1
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What do u love most about boys? Their body, the way they act, etc, etc...

I'm a lesbian so I can't answer this question from a sexual standpoint. But I can ADMIRE their muscles and V shaped backs
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Old 28th Jul 2011, 10:55 AM   #2
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i'm a lesbian as well, so i don't see much to admire, but i DO like how shaggy their hair can look at times- the longer, the better
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Old 28th Jul 2011, 11:22 AM   #3
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What I admire most about men has to be their height, body shape, and fashion.
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Old 28th Jul 2011, 12:03 PM   #4
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something about a big adams apple is pretty sexy.
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Old 28th Jul 2011, 12:26 PM   #5
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Voice, pecs, back, thighs, face. Not necessarily in that order, though. And those are just physical attributes. ;P
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Old 28th Jul 2011, 12:39 PM   #6
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They're so sturdy and firm. And I love a messy head of hair. Tousled. Ooh and stubble or facial hair. It just exudes masculinity. Mmmmm it makes me so happy!
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Old 28th Jul 2011, 12:59 PM   #7
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Gay girl here, but I'd say that a nice set of pec muscle is still aesthetically pleasing...
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Old 28th Jul 2011, 01:23 PM   #8
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strong legs, long hair, and some facial hair
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Old 28th Jul 2011, 01:50 PM   #9
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Pecs, Eyes, butt, geekiness, my kind of weird, good hair
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smile, humor, height, and booty.
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Old 28th Jul 2011, 02:16 PM   #11
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I love big bellies. And chubby thighs and arms. And love handles. And big hands, but I'm not sure why. I think all that big stuff helps me feel protected. But it's also cute for me to be the big spoon and have him be such a big guy, but all little and protected by me.
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There's so much to admire. I just love anything that's masculine in general. Short hair, strong jaw, stubble/scruff, definitely muscles, and I don't mind body hair at all. I like average to bulky proportions.

As far as personality, I like when he's humble even though he knows there's a lot to be proud of. I like ambition and good work-ethic combined with affection for loved ones and compassion for people in general.
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Old 28th Jul 2011, 02:58 PM   #13
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I love when a guy is skinny with good abs. I tend to like more femme type guys with light eyes and dark hair.
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adorable personality usually, that and a good smile.
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apperence proximity to neil patrick harris if he was a gymrat and loved crappy movies to laugh at and ridicule.
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As far as bodies go, in ascending order or importance, long hair, a full beard, and a round belly are what I like (just about any belly works for me, but round bellies are the best). I suppose since this thread asked what we like most about guys, I'll go with a belly, since bigger guys are the only guys I find sexually attractive. Much as I like beards, there's nothing quite like cuddling with a big guy, and there are fewer thrills bigger than the one I get when a guy's shirt rides up in front and I catch a glimpse of the bottom of his belly.

Personality-wise, I like my men nerdy; a little bit of social awkwardness makes a guy much more appealing to me. I think it's because it makes me want to comfort them, to ease the anxiety they may be feeling and put them at ease. I've actually specifically felt the desire to do just that on several occasions, even when I didn't find the person attractive, so I'm sure that factors into why I fancy socially awkward guys. I myself used to be very nerdy and pretty socially awkward (now I'm only mildly socially awkward when I first meet someone, and my nerdiness is less evident), so relating to such guys comes easily to me.
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Old 28th Jul 2011, 03:31 PM   #17
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As far as bodies go, in ascending order or importance, long hair, a full beard, and a round belly are what I like (just about any belly works for me, but round bellies are the best). I suppose since this thread asked what we like most about guys, I'll go with a belly, since bigger guys are the only guys I find sexually attractive. Much as I like beards, there's nothing quite like cuddling with a big guy, and there are fewer thrills bigger than the one I get when a guy's shirt rides up in front and I catch a glimpse of the bottom of his belly.

Personality-wise, I like my men nerdy; a little bit of social awkwardness makes a guy much more appealing to me. I think it's because it makes me want to comfort them, to ease the anxiety they may be feeling and put them at ease. I've actually specifically felt the desire to do just that on several occasions, even when I didn't find the person attractive, so I'm sure that factors into why I fancy socially awkward guys. I myself used to be very nerdy and pretty socially awkward (now I'm only mildly socially awkward when I first meet someone, and my nerdiness is less evident), so relating to such guys comes easily to me.
This. (almost) Exactly, except the beard part.

haha i always poke my best friend's belly going "it's so squishyy" then he get annoyed xD
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Old 28th Jul 2011, 03:46 PM   #19
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I don't know why but I find modesty hugely attractive, even a hint of arrogance and I feel like I just got turned off forever D:
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Old 28th Jul 2011, 03:56 PM   #20
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Sometimes, it's just simply their personality that gets me... also love guys with dark features (dark hair, eyes, skin, etc.). Tall, dark and handsome!
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