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| Picking up the pieces Regular Member ![]() Gender: guy Orientation: unfortunate Out Status: Never in a million years Posts: 406 Join Date: Jul 2011 | Cuddling is so great, but why? Whats your favortie thing about it, postions, places, type of perrson, aspects? Personaly i just love being held from behing, or using people as pilllows. |
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| Well Known Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Brazil Age: 19 Posts: 191 Join Date: Jul 2011 | I've never done it, as I have never been in a relationship, but that's one of the things I'd like to do the most. I don't know why, however. Maybe it's because that's the closest you can get to physically expressing love without getting sexual. |
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| Cleverly disguised as a responsible adult EC Admin Gender: Agendered dude Orientation: Panromantic androsexual Out Status: Everyone and their mother Location: Massachusetts, USA Age: 21 Posts: 2,872 Join Date: Jul 2007 | All of my cuddling experiences have been with a guy who liked it when I would lie on top of him (it helps that he's well over 300 pounds, possibly around 350, so he could handle me), and the feeling of being on top of him, my head dangling down by his shoulder, was wonderful. He was a lot more comfortable than the bed, and lying like that required fewer thoughts about the logistics of our cuddling than cuddling side-by-side did (in other words, it was simpler). Of course, we did cuddle side-by-side, too, and my favorite part of that was running our hands along each other's backs. Well, that and when we'd accidentally look in each other's eyes and both simultaneously think, "I guess that means it's time to make out for a bit." ![]()
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| Yuri is my anti-drug Full Member ![]() Gender: Female Orientation: Lesbian Out Status: Family, friends, and most of the people at school Location: Missouri Age: 17 Posts: 327 Join Date: May 2011 | My girlfriend and I cuddle all the time. My favorite thing is when we cuddle while we're watching a movie and she falls asleep with her head resting on my chest. It makes me really happy to see her so peaceful like that.
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| EC Addict Full Member ![]() Gender: Female Orientation: Lesbian Out Status: A few people Posts: 1,412 Join Date: Jul 2011 | nevver got to have that yet . but when i do it wont be sexually long story but cant wait for the beauty of her warmth and kissess when i find her thats when ill be on cloud nine
__________________ Some times the ones you least expect too whal in to your life and change it for the better |
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| Have you any wool?! Full Member ![]() Gender: Female Orientation: Bisexual Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Tampa Age: 24 Posts: 226 Join Date: Jul 2011 | My favorite part about cuddling is the feeling of security I get, I feel completely safe being held by him, makes me feel like nothing bad can happen to me. Also, sometimes we cuddle facing eachother and we will just stare into eachothers eyes until we fall asleep together, sometimes I like to watch him when he sleeps and think about how much I love him... I am pretty sure he does the same too sometimes ![]()
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| KierstenChromium, Mistress Of Metal Full Member ![]() Gender: Transgender - MtF Orientation: Lesbian Out Status: Out to 127 people & my parents & 1 cousin so far Location: Sarnia, ON Posts: 1,331 Join Date: Jun 2011 | Cuddling is the best part of any relationship for me! I've always liked holding her in my arms & just looking down & seeing her so peacefully resting and how wonderful it makes me knowing she feels safe & warm. On the rare occaisions where any of my exes have cuddled with me, I LOVE having her warm, soft arms around me, it just makes me feels so cared for & loved. It is honestly the best part of any relationship for me because the initimacy you can get from cuddling is amazing, and it feels like we're both sharing our feelings of how we feel about each other in such an unspoken but totally mutual way.
__________________ Penny: What's Sheldon's deal? Leonard: What do you mean "deal"? Penny : You know, like, what's his deal? Is it girls? Guys? Sock puppets? Leonard: Honestly, we've been operating under the assumption that he has no deal. |
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| Ketchup Addict Full Member ![]() Gender: Female Orientation: Lesbian Out Status: My Immediate Family, 4 friends, 1 stranger Location: NY Age: 15 Posts: 585 Join Date: Jun 2011 | ahh...im so envious. never had a relationship, never got to cuddle- but i really want to
__________________ "A question that sometimes drives me hazy: am I or the others crazy?" - Albert Einstein |
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| Newbie Regular Member ![]() Gender: Male Orientation: Bisexual Out Status: All but family Location: holly springs, NC Age: 18 Posts: 8 Join Date: Aug 2011 | Well, cuddling is so appealing to me because it is another wwigh of showing how you feel. Along with being a calming and comfortable position, it helps connect you in a way, know the other persons body better. My idea place is on my bed or couch or in a peaceful private place with my boyfriend. If gives us a comfortable way to curl up and relax.
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| Liebe ist für alle da! Full Member ![]() Gender: Female Orientation: La la la ladies Out Status: I don't care who knows Location: California Age: 27 Posts: 1,692 Join Date: Feb 2011 | I've never cuddled with anyone...
__________________ No government has the right to tell its citizens when or whom to love. The only queer people are those who don't love anybody Rita Mae Brown |
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| Hit the Lights Full Member ![]() Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Any one who wants to know Location: California Age: 15 Posts: 1,210 Join Date: Jan 2010 | This^^
__________________ "It's always been about me, myself, and I. I thought relationships were nothing but a waste of time. I never wanted to be anybody's other half. I was happy saying I know love, it wouldn't last." <3 |
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| KierstenChromium, Mistress Of Metal Full Member ![]() Gender: Transgender - MtF Orientation: Lesbian Out Status: Out to 127 people & my parents & 1 cousin so far Location: Sarnia, ON Posts: 1,331 Join Date: Jun 2011 | That settles it! I'm coming out there & giving you a good cuddle!
__________________ Penny: What's Sheldon's deal? Leonard: What do you mean "deal"? Penny : You know, like, what's his deal? Is it girls? Guys? Sock puppets? Leonard: Honestly, we've been operating under the assumption that he has no deal. |
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| 7-7-7 Full Member ![]() Gender: Male (男性) Orientation: Gay (ゲイ) Out Status: Facebook, everyone but extended family Location: AR Age: 17 Posts: 237 Join Date: Nov 2010 | I've only cuddled with my friends, but it's still pretty awesome. You just feel close to the person/people. It's relaxing and a good way of showing someone you care. Also, the affection from other people is nice. The other night, after a party, 6 of my friends (3 guys, 3 girls) went back to my friends' house and we all cuddled on his king-size bed. First, we grabbed some junk food. Then, we all laid there in the dark and talked. It was a really meaningful conversation. We learned a lot of things about the people we've shared our lives with. Nothing sexual about it, really. Just real platonic love with one another. It was one of the best moments of my life. That whole night was perfect. |
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| Well Known Full Member ![]() Gender: girl Orientation: girls <3 Out Status: out & about Age: 31 Posts: 188 Join Date: Jul 2011 | i love to cuddle . . . just feeling safe and cared-for is the best thing ever |
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| Lets see what happens Full Member ![]() Gender: Male Orientation: i love boys!!! Out Status: Some people Location: Los Angeles Age: 19 Posts: 722 Join Date: Jul 2010 | ive never cuddled . but i feel like i would like to feel the warmth of the other person. i would want to be on my side with them behind me holding hands. this just sounds so awesome right now
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| trapped Regular Member Gender: a lady trapped in a male body and life Orientation: Questioning Out Status: only to the cd boutique and now you Location: detroit Age: 34 Posts: 21 Join Date: Jul 2011 | GROUP CUDDLE!!!! Im in ![]() <3 Stephany |
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| Bow ties are cool. Full Member ![]() Gender: Female Orientation: Pansexual lesbian in a heterosexual relationship Out Status: Most people Location: Scotland Age: 22 Posts: 343 Join Date: Apr 2011 | Quote:
Cuddles<3
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| EC Addict Full Member ![]() Gender: Female Orientation: Lesbian Out Status: A few people Posts: 1,412 Join Date: Jul 2011 | My vbest friend whom i cuddle with is A dog shes tiny and beautifull . She gives me kissess and k ikiss her ckeek weird i know but i just love her . Cant wait for my first woman cuddle
__________________ Some times the ones you least expect too whal in to your life and change it for the better |
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| i carry your heart Full Member ![]() Gender: trans/FtM/genderqueer Orientation: pansexual Out Status: A few people Location: Middle of nowhere Australia Age: 22 Posts: 242 Join Date: Jul 2011 | Cuddles are the best. Just the feelings of warmth and comfort and safety. It just feels good to have that closeness with people.
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| Is mise Daibhidh Full Member ![]() Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Almost out to everyone Location: Scotland Age: 25 Posts: 434 Join Date: Sep 2007 | I love cuddling my bf. I think its a way to show how protective I am of him, I like to wrap my arms around him, so that he knows he's secure and protected. He likes that too. If I'm feeling down he'll cuddle me too, and its wonderful. |
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