Wasn't sure where to put this really, put I wanted to pool some ideas on how to slowly, perhaps subtley, get the idea to the people around you of what you...prefer. Currently all I can think of is wall posters of rock stars/band members, but my fam will just think they're on my bedroom wall for the love of the music. Any awesome ideas EC?
Your posters idea is actually a really really good one! Here is a website I found after a quick search: http://www.gayposters.com Im sure that if you looked a bit more you could find better and cheaper ones. You might also want to start wearing a rainbow bracelet or something.
I made a rainbow anklet I wear around everywhere because an arm band or bracelet is kinda obvious and not very subtle because everyone looks at people's hands but not their feet. You could try that too.
I set my phone's homescreen to a picture of this really androgynous emo boy. One of my friends asked me who the girl on my homescreen was.
Posters, pictures, rainbow gear, etc...yes. That all works. Also, saying "so-and-so celebrity is really hot/cute" will drop the hint square on their heads.