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jostle100 · 28th Aug 2011, 04:23 PM

What was your first gay experience like?

Zontar · 28th Aug 2011, 04:31 PM

Genitals or no genitals involved?

The first unabashedly "gay" thing I ever did was make out with a guy. 'Twas nice, I knew from that day on that I was at least a little bent.

jostle100 · 28th Aug 2011, 04:34 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Zontar

Genitals or no genitals involved?

The first unabashedly "gay" thing I ever did was make out with a guy. 'Twas nice, I knew from that day on that I was at least a little bent.

doesn't matter, put both if possible

GoinStag · 28th Aug 2011, 04:36 PM

Well this is awkward. Um, me and my mom's (ex) boyfriend's son showed our dicks to each other. That's about it hahahaha I was like 9 he was about 8.

ICTOAUN · 28th Aug 2011, 05:00 PM

Alright well the first time I had sex w a girl I was 15. We were at an abandoned clubhouse. We were actually both crying because we had just been caught fooling around on the beach by two guys. And it just kind of scared us because we were both in the closet and still tring to figure out our sexualities. Anyway I was crying and kicking a fence. My girl laid a blanket out on the grass and pulled me over there to calm me down. She was jusst kinda hugging me and stuff and idk one thing led to another? Haha it was awesome though.

**Owen** · 28th Aug 2011, 06:20 PM

When it happened, the guy and I had been dating for about a month or two (I'm not sure on the exact number) and I was 20 (I think he was 19). It started with us going to bed in separate beds in the same room (my dorm room; my roommate was out). We conversed for at least an hour after we had turned off the lights and lay down to sleep, and several personal discussions were had. The last topic we talked about was how little experience I had with guys (to wit: none) and how far I'd be comfortable going knowing that we weren't in a committed relationship. I told him I'd be willing to try things out, and that's when he asked, "Can I come over there?"

I said, and we kissed. We ended up doing more than kissing that night, because I had gotten impatient waiting for my "first time" with a guy and was ready to go relatively far (for reference, our previous date had ended with a hug). He was really mindful of my level of comfort with the whole thing, as well as how much I was enjoying it, and we both cared about each other, so it was a really wonderful experience.

maverick · 28th Aug 2011, 06:35 PM

Fooling around with a female friend during a threesome (with a guy) in college.

Even though it was for exhibitionist purposes, I enjoyed it a little too much.

Danny19 · 29th Aug 2011, 12:03 AM

i blew my cousin.. ahh weird moment. makes me feel awkward and weird

heatqueen · 29th Aug 2011, 01:38 AM

I kissed my friend at a bar, in a game of gay chicken. Good times.

(Though to be honest, it's more a matter of who HASN'T kissed said friend!! haha)

**Lexington** · 29th Aug 2011, 07:53 AM

I made out with a guy in college at a LGBSU dance to Chic's "I Want Your Love". Let's just say that removed any doubts I had about my sexuality.

I had sex with a guy for the first time with a hitchhiker. On the side of the highway. On a blanket I had in the back seat. What was it like? Like two buses continually ramming into each other. And it was hot as hell.

Lex

**Rosina** · 29th Aug 2011, 11:11 AM

The only possible gay experience I've had, which I don't think can really be counted as such, is gay-chicken with a friend who thought I wouldn't. Her face was priceless xD

thevedman · 29th Aug 2011, 11:13 AM

I kissed a bi mate at a new years eve party. It was great, so great in fact it totally confirmed that I much prefered guys to girls!

thedreamwatch · 29th Aug 2011, 11:15 AM

I didn't realize I was even into girls really until I made out with one of my best girl friends in middle school. I don't recall consciously ever thinking "I want to kiss her" but then BAM, it happened and it just felt right, I guess.

She was also the first girl I ever had sex with, but that was later in high school. That memory is tainted with heartbreak because I loved her much more than she loved me. But at the time, it was just...right, I guess. I don't know how else to explain it.

Revan · 29th Aug 2011, 12:39 PM

First kiss was in Grade 12 with my first boyfriend. As for sexual experience...a friend who sitll claims to be straight and actually f**ked me finally last year (2010 before meeting the bf) sucked me when I was in Grade 9. My first giving was in my high school with a guy who claimed to be straight. I loved having him in my mouth in high school with the chance of being caught

Just Passing · 29th Aug 2011, 01:06 PM

Mine is really slutty. I told a friend of mine I wanted to see him in private and I took him to a hidden location and made out with him several times with him confused and somewhat scared. Luckily we're still friends, but it's pretty embarrassing these days and I was only twelve.

ok455 · 31st Aug 2011, 09:08 PM

When i was 13 a friend of mines and went to the bathroom in school and went in the bathroom and we made out. It was shocking and depressing at the same time funny enough i lost my virginity to him and we still have sex to this day. And were 23

cityofangels · 1st Sep 2011, 04:46 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by maverick

Fooling around with a female friend during a threesome (with a guy) in college.

Even though it was for exhibitionist purposes, I enjoyed it a little too much.

Same here. I had a threesome with a female friend and a guy. That was my one and only experience with having a threesome. LOL.

8008l3SS · 2nd Sep 2011, 01:32 AM

I was in eight grade when my friend stabbed me his pole on the back while we were playing on the field during recess. I turned to him he said something but we never talked about it again...

malachite · 2nd Sep 2011, 11:09 AM

first time I kissed a guy, it was like electrical fireworks were going off in my body.

first time I gave a JB, I liked it more then I thought I would and was more arroused by doing it then I also thought I'd be

28th Aug 2011, 04:23 PM	#1
jostle100 Member Regular Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Posts: 91 Join Date: Aug 2011	What was your first gay experience like? What was your first gay experience like?

28th Aug 2011, 04:31 PM	#2
Zontar Mister Funny Man Full Member Gender: Male Location: Binghampton, NY Posts: 1,538 Join Date: Oct 2010	Re: What was your first gay experience like? Genitals or no genitals involved? The first unabashedly "gay" thing I ever did was make out with a guy. 'Twas nice, I knew from that day on that I was at least a little bent. __________________ Get up and open your eyes...Don't ever let yourself ever fall down... Get through it and learn how to fly...I know you'll find a way...today. -Days of the New, "Dirty Road"

28th Aug 2011, 04:36 PM	#4
GoinStag I'm straight now............sikeeee Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Guy fetish Out Status: Parents, siblings, and therapist Location: Metro Detroit, Michigan Age: 18 Posts: 1,485 Join Date: May 2010	Re: What was your first gay experience like? Well this is awkward. Um, me and my mom's (ex) boyfriend's son showed our dicks to each other. That's about it hahahaha I was like 9 he was about 8. __________________ *I've been thinking 'bout this all day long, Never felt a feeling quite this strong...I can't believe how much it turns me on, Just to be your man...*

28th Aug 2011, 05:00 PM	#5
ICTOAUN Well Known Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Lesbian Out Status: 8 friends Age: 18 Posts: 233 Join Date: Jun 2011	Re: What was your first gay experience like? Alright well the first time I had sex w a girl I was 15. We were at an abandoned clubhouse. We were actually both crying because we had just been caught fooling around on the beach by two guys. And it just kind of scared us because we were both in the closet and still tring to figure out our sexualities. Anyway I was crying and kicking a fence. My girl laid a blanket out on the grass and pulled me over there to calm me down. She was jusst kinda hugging me and stuff and idk one thing led to another? Haha it was awesome though.

28th Aug 2011, 06:20 PM	#6
Owen Cleverly disguised as a responsible adult EC Admin Gender: Agendered dude Orientation: Panromantic androsexual Out Status: Everyone and their mother Location: Massachusetts, USA Age: 21 Posts: 2,873 Join Date: Jul 2007	Re: What was your first gay experience like? When it happened, the guy and I had been dating for about a month or two (I'm not sure on the exact number) and I was 20 (I think he was 19). It started with us going to bed in separate beds in the same room (my dorm room; my roommate was out). We conversed for at least an hour after we had turned off the lights and lay down to sleep, and several personal discussions were had. The last topic we talked about was how little experience I had with guys (to wit: none) and how far I'd be comfortable going knowing that we weren't in a committed relationship. I told him I'd be willing to try things out, and that's when he asked, "Can I come over there?" I said, and we kissed. We ended up doing more than kissing that night, because I had gotten impatient waiting for my "first time" with a guy and was ready to go relatively far (for reference, our previous date had ended with a hug). He was really mindful of my level of comfort with the whole thing, as well as how much I was enjoying it, and we both cared about each other, so it was a really wonderful experience. __________________ "Stand firm for what you believe in, until and unless logic and experience prove you wrong. Remember, when the emperor looks naked, the emperor is naked. The truth and a lie are not sort of the same thing. And there is no aspect, no facet, no moment of life that can't be improved with pizza." -Daria Morgendorffer

28th Aug 2011, 06:35 PM	#7
maverick let watchers become warriors Full Member Gender: You tell me. Orientation: Hey good lookin'. wink Out Status: It's pretty obvious. Location: Alabama cue banjos Age: 26 Posts: 2,118 Join Date: Nov 2010	Re: What was your first gay experience like? Fooling around with a female friend during a threesome (with a guy) in college. Even though it was for exhibitionist purposes, I enjoyed it a little too much. __________________ Shelter me oh genius words, just give me strength / to pen these things, and give me peace to well her wings / and oh, oh carry on, all you minstrels of the world, we will catch our lady's ear, we will win for us the girl.

29th Aug 2011, 12:03 AM	#8
Danny19 Lets see what happens Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: i love boys!!! Out Status: Some people Location: Los Angeles Age: 19 Posts: 722 Join Date: Jul 2010	Re: What was your first gay experience like? i blew my cousin.. ahh weird moment. makes me feel awkward and weird __________________ “Whats meant to be, will always find its way"

29th Aug 2011, 01:38 AM	#9
heatqueen Official #1 fan of Celine Dion Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Pansexual/Homoromantic bisexual Out Status: Generally whoever asks Location: I travel a lot Age: 20 Posts: 5,707 Join Date: Jan 2008	Re: What was your first gay experience like? I kissed my friend at a bar, in a game of gay chicken. Good times. (Though to be honest, it's more a matter of who HASN'T kissed said friend!! haha) __________________ Don't drink and drive. You might hit a bump and spill your drink. Co-founder of the 'Sailor Moon Made Me Gay' club...and the lesbians.

29th Aug 2011, 07:53 AM	#10
Lexington The gay gargoyle EC Advisor Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Colorado Age: 42 Posts: 12,372 Join Date: Dec 2007	Re: What was your first gay experience like? I made out with a guy in college at a LGBSU dance to Chic's "I Want Your Love". Let's just say that removed any doubts I had about my sexuality. I had sex with a guy for the first time with a hitchhiker. On the side of the highway. On a blanket I had in the back seat. What was it like? Like two buses continually ramming into each other. And it was hot as hell. Lex

29th Aug 2011, 11:11 AM	#11
Rosina An Abnormal Default EC Moderator Gender: Female Orientation: Straight Out Status: As out as the next straight kid Location: Surrey, UK Age: 19 Posts: 4,103 Join Date: Sep 2008	Re: What was your first gay experience like? The only possible gay experience I've had, which I don't think can really be counted as such, is gay-chicken with a friend who thought I wouldn't. Her face was priceless xD __________________ Hang in there, because things have always and will always change - It Gets Better Rebecca Drysdale

29th Aug 2011, 11:13 AM	#12
thevedman Well Known Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Guys Out Status: More people these days :-) Location: UK Posts: 131 Join Date: Jul 2011	Re: What was your first gay experience like? I kissed a bi mate at a new years eve party. It was great, so great in fact it totally confirmed that I much prefered guys to girls! __________________ And the wind keeps rollin' And the sky keeps turning grey And the sun is setting The sun will rise another day

29th Aug 2011, 11:15 AM	#13
thedreamwatch Maximum Ridiculosity Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Kinsey 5. So, pretty gay. Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Wisconsin Age: 22 Posts: 1,274 Join Date: Jan 2011	Re: What was your first gay experience like? I didn't realize I was even into girls really until I made out with one of my best girl friends in middle school. I don't recall consciously ever thinking "I want to kiss her" but then BAM, it happened and it just felt right, I guess. She was also the first girl I ever had sex with, but that was later in high school. That memory is tainted with heartbreak because I loved her much more than she loved me. But at the time, it was just...right, I guess. I don't know how else to explain it. __________________ "I came out laughing, I came out screaming, I came out dancing..." - T&S

29th Aug 2011, 12:39 PM	#14
Revan EC Addict Full Member Gender: M for MEEP! Orientation: Mutant and Proud Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Windsor, Ontario Age: 24 Posts: 6,564 Join Date: Jun 2005	Re: What was your first gay experience like? First kiss was in Grade 12 with my first boyfriend. As for sexual experience...a friend who sitll claims to be straight and actually fked me finally last year (2010 before meeting the bf) sucked me when I was in Grade 9. My first giving was in my high school with a guy who claimed to be straight. I loved having him in my mouth in high school with the chance of being caught __________________ "Is there some reason my coffee isn't here? Has she died or something?" - Miranda Priestly. Strength is not defined by physical capacity, but by indomitable will. ~ Mahatma Gandhi** Procrastination is like masturbation, in the end you just wind up screwing yourself.

29th Aug 2011, 01:06 PM	#15
Just Passing EC Addict Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Almost there Location: West Midlands Age: 20 Posts: 513 Join Date: May 2011	Re: What was your first gay experience like? Mine is really slutty. I told a friend of mine I wanted to see him in private and I took him to a hidden location and made out with him several times with him confused and somewhat scared. Luckily we're still friends, but it's pretty embarrassing these days and I was only twelve. __________________ Meh.

31st Aug 2011, 09:08 PM	#16
ok455 EC Addict Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Some people Location: Can't tell L!O!L Age: 24 Posts: 437 Join Date: May 2005	Re: What was your first gay experience like? When i was 13 a friend of mines and went to the bathroom in school and went in the bathroom and we made out. It was shocking and depressing at the same time funny enough i lost my virginity to him and we still have sex to this day. And were 23 __________________ http://209.50.252.116/smile.gif

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malachite EC's realist Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Orlando Posts: 6,480 Join Date: Apr 2009	Re: What was your first gay experience like? first time I kissed a guy, it was like electrical fireworks were going off in my body. first time I gave a JB, I liked it more then I thought I would and was more arroused by doing it then I also thought I'd be __________________ It's the 21st century, your bigotry is outdated. Either upgrade or go away.