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Danny19 · 31st Aug 2011, 07:23 PM

um hey guys. idk if its weird to ask or what. but do you guys thing that nose piercings is gay or girly? i was just wondering because i seen guys with them and to me they do look a little gay. but idk. what do you guys think?

maverick · 31st Aug 2011, 08:02 PM

Piercings make everybody look a little more gay.

Hemera · 31st Aug 2011, 08:05 PM

I think that nose piercings do look a little gay, but really it depends to me on the person.
I think more people get them to really rebel against something, but it doesn't mean they are gay or anything. Never discriminate by looks someone may do something that may be discriminated towards someone who is "gay" but it doesn't mean they are. It's all in just how it looks

Danny19 · 31st Aug 2011, 08:14 PM

oh yea. well i just met some guy who is really cute and he had a nose piercing and he seemed sorta gay to me. but idk lol

Hemera · 31st Aug 2011, 08:49 PM

Well remember the saying "Looks can be deceiving"
I wouldn't come straight out and ask, not a lot of people are completely comfortable with who they are. If you want him to know that you are gay that's cool. But I also wouldn't tell him because you JUST met him. Figure out the type of guy he is and what not then maybe at some point in the future you can figure everything out.
Best of luck

query · 31st Aug 2011, 09:46 PM

i think nose peircing LOOK gay on guys, but i dont actually they ARE gay, know what i mean? and ear peircings are by no means gay on any gender.

Danny19 · 31st Aug 2011, 09:55 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Hemera

Well remember the saying "Looks can be deceiving"
I wouldn't come straight out and ask, not a lot of people are completely comfortable with who they are. If you want him to know that you are gay that's cool. But I also wouldn't tell him because you JUST met him. Figure out the type of guy he is and what not then maybe at some point in the future you can figure everything out.
Best of luck

oh yea i know. i definitely wasnt planning on just going up to him and ask. i was just curious to know and maybe see if i can at least try something. but slowly. lol

so i see most of you think they are pretty um gay lol

Shmoe · 1st Sep 2011, 02:33 PM

When I see some one with a piercing, I think in my head "Damn, That must've hurt". I don't really associate any piercing with gender or sexuality. Well, Save ear piercings, Just on the lobe.

**Lexington** · 1st Sep 2011, 02:42 PM

I don't consider them gay or girly. I'm personally not much of a fan, but y'know, it's their body - whatever they want.

Lex

Ghostly · 1st Sep 2011, 03:06 PM

I don't know, I've only seen girls with nose piercings so maybe that's why it looks a bit girly.

British Lad · 1st Sep 2011, 03:23 PM

A nose piercing on a guy, depends what kind but I think any piercing look "gay" on a guy, but it depends on the piercing and were it is.

**Gerry** · 1st Sep 2011, 03:25 PM

I'm not a fan of facial piercings but I don't think they look gay. Everyone is free to do as they wish.

Veronica · 1st Sep 2011, 04:42 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by query

i think nose peircing LOOK gay on guys, but i dont actually they ARE gay, know what i mean? and ear peircings are by no means gay on any gender.

Well, I have both my ears pierced, and people did ask me if I was gay from time to time (I don't usually wear anything in my ears these days). Also once a girl insisted that it meant I was bisexual. But she was blonde and very drunk so ...

Noahroxursox · 1st Sep 2011, 05:04 PM

To me, it all depends on the person. For example, one of the members of heyhihello has a nose ring, and it doesn't make him look 'gay', but on someone else, it might.

Ghostly · 1st Sep 2011, 06:00 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Noahroxursox

To me, it all depends on the person. For example, one of the members of heyhihello has a nose ring, and it doesn't make him look 'gay', but on someone else, it might.

lol yes that's true, my stepdad has like alot piercings in both ears and he does not at all look gay lol.

31st Aug 2011, 07:23 PM	#1
Danny19 Lets see what happens Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: i love boys!!! Out Status: Some people Location: Los Angeles Age: 19 Posts: 722 Join Date: Jul 2010	weird question. um hey guys. idk if its weird to ask or what. but do you guys thing that nose piercings is gay or girly? i was just wondering because i seen guys with them and to me they do look a little gay. but idk. what do you guys think? __________________ “Whats meant to be, will always find its way"

31st Aug 2011, 08:02 PM	#2
maverick let watchers become warriors Full Member Gender: You tell me. Orientation: Hey good lookin'. wink Out Status: It's pretty obvious. Location: Alabama cue banjos Age: 26 Posts: 2,118 Join Date: Nov 2010	Re: weird question. Piercings make everybody look a little more gay. __________________ Shelter me oh genius words, just give me strength / to pen these things, and give me peace to well her wings / and oh, oh carry on, all you minstrels of the world, we will catch our lady's ear, we will win for us the girl.

31st Aug 2011, 08:05 PM	#3
Hemera you have her eyes Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Pansexual Out Status: Enough for me as of right now Location: Massachusetts Age: 19 Posts: 537 Join Date: May 2011	Re: weird question. I think that nose piercings do look a little gay, but really it depends to me on the person. I think more people get them to really rebel against something, but it doesn't mean they are gay or anything. Never discriminate by looks someone may do something that may be discriminated towards someone who is "gay" but it doesn't mean they are. It's all in just how it looks __________________ just like b r o k e n* glass to me*

31st Aug 2011, 08:14 PM	#4
Danny19 Lets see what happens Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: i love boys!!! Out Status: Some people Location: Los Angeles Age: 19 Posts: 722 Join Date: Jul 2010	Re: weird question. oh yea. well i just met some guy who is really cute and he had a nose piercing and he seemed sorta gay to me. but idk lol __________________ “Whats meant to be, will always find its way"

31st Aug 2011, 08:49 PM	#5
Hemera you have her eyes Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Pansexual Out Status: Enough for me as of right now Location: Massachusetts Age: 19 Posts: 537 Join Date: May 2011	Re: weird question. Well remember the saying "Looks can be deceiving" I wouldn't come straight out and ask, not a lot of people are completely comfortable with who they are. If you want him to know that you are gay that's cool. But I also wouldn't tell him because you JUST met him. Figure out the type of guy he is and what not then maybe at some point in the future you can figure everything out. Best of luck __________________ just like b r o k e n* glass to me*

31st Aug 2011, 09:46 PM	#6
query Member Regular Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Posts: 56 Join Date: Aug 2011	Re: weird question. i think nose peircing LOOK gay on guys, but i dont actually they ARE gay, know what i mean? and ear peircings are by no means gay on any gender.

1st Sep 2011, 02:33 PM	#8
Shmoe Well Known Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Asexual, Romantic Out Status: Some people Age: 17 Posts: 229 Join Date: Jul 2011	Re: weird question. When I see some one with a piercing, I think in my head "Damn, That must've hurt". I don't really associate any piercing with gender or sexuality. Well, Save ear piercings, Just on the lobe. __________________ "This is not how it should be Man ought to be free That man should be me" - Ted Bundy

1st Sep 2011, 02:42 PM	#9
Lexington The gay gargoyle EC Advisor Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Colorado Age: 42 Posts: 12,372 Join Date: Dec 2007	Re: weird question. I don't consider them gay or girly. I'm personally not much of a fan, but y'know, it's their body - whatever they want. Lex

1st Sep 2011, 03:06 PM	#10
Ghostly привет Full Member Gender: Un Garçon Orientation: I'm committed to this one guy Out Status: people that care for me Location: Canada Age: 17 Posts: 1,305 Join Date: Jan 2008	Re: weird question. I don't know, I've only seen girls with nose piercings so maybe that's why it looks a bit girly.

1st Sep 2011, 03:23 PM	#11
British Lad EC Biggest Tarantino fan Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: As bent as a roundabout Out Status: What Closet Location: West Midlands Posts: 1,275 Join Date: Apr 2010	Re: weird question. A nose piercing on a guy, depends what kind but I think any piercing look "gay" on a guy, but it depends on the piercing and were it is. __________________ Who ever sayed "Ignorance is bliss" was a moron.

1st Sep 2011, 03:25 PM	#12
Gerry We're all a little mad! EC Moderator Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Some people Location: Las Vegas Age: 24 Posts: 5,551 Join Date: Jan 2008	Re: weird question. I'm not a fan of facial piercings but I don't think they look gay. Everyone is free to do as they wish. __________________ "Everybody's journey is individual. If you fall in love with a boy, you fall in love with a boy. The fact that many Americans consider it a disease says more about them than it does about homosexuality".-James Baldwin

1st Sep 2011, 05:04 PM	#14
Noahroxursox EC Addict Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: I can haz teh guys? Out Status: All but my extended family and the odd walrus Location: Maryland Age: 15 Posts: 338 Join Date: Jun 2011	Re: weird question. To me, it all depends on the person. For example, one of the members of heyhihello has a nose ring, and it doesn't make him look 'gay', but on someone else, it might. __________________ RAINBOWS

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