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Old 3rd Sep 2011, 07:23 PM   #1
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Default Height difference

Does anyone else think they would rather be in a relationship with someone taller or shorter than them.


Personally I want to find someone taller than me. (not that I would turn down someone based on height). But I just find it incredibly attractive.


(I didn't know if the previous height thread was about this but I skimmed and it didn't seem it)
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Old 3rd Sep 2011, 07:27 PM   #2
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Well, I'm conscious about my height, so I'd rather have someone similar height as me, if hes similar age, but if he's older, then taller.
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Old 3rd Sep 2011, 07:27 PM   #3
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i go for taller, too
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Old 3rd Sep 2011, 07:29 PM   #4
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Default Re: Height difference

I honestly don't care how tall they are.
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Old 3rd Sep 2011, 07:30 PM   #5
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I'm pretty much average for a girl (around 5'4 or 5'5), and I don't really have a preference. Mostly I've liked girls who've been pretty close to my height, but it's not a factor for me.
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Old 3rd Sep 2011, 07:31 PM   #6
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Because of my height, I kind of have to get rid of any height preferences. XD
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Old 3rd Sep 2011, 07:32 PM   #7
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I thought I preferred taller men, but my last 4 or 5 crushes were 5'11" or shorter, so I really don't care anymore. So long as he loves me.
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Old 3rd Sep 2011, 08:59 PM   #8
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I can't imagine dating someone who is less than 6', because anything less than that is short, IMO.
That being said, at just over 5', I think I'm the definition of short...
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Old 3rd Sep 2011, 09:07 PM   #9
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I'd probably like to date a little shorter than me

I'm about 6' right now
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Well I'm only about 5'7". I'd prefer someone taller.
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Old 3rd Sep 2011, 09:10 PM   #11
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Default Re: Height difference

I mean as a shorter guy (5 7-8) I just find myself fantasizing about. Thanks for your input guys!
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I don't care about height

- me; 4'11"
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Old 3rd Sep 2011, 09:50 PM   #13
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Default Re: Height difference

I'm average. About 5'6"
I don't care much if she's shorter or taller or the same. It really wouldn't change anything for me, if she's awesome and I'm attracted to her otherwise. BUT that being said, I have looked at many of the girls I go gaga over and they all happen to be slightly shorter than me.
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Old 3rd Sep 2011, 09:58 PM   #14
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I mean as a shorter guy (5 7-8) I just find myself fantasizing about. Thanks for your input guys!
That's not short; that's average.
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I would prefer someone who is a little bit taller (I'm 5'10")
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Old 3rd Sep 2011, 10:14 PM   #16
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I'm near an average height of about 5' 10". I don't have a preference when it comes to guys or girls. I just go for whoever I fall for. ^_^
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Old 4th Sep 2011, 01:15 AM   #17
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I really don't care, but I think I would prefer someone smaller than I am. For girls then. If it were a guy (which is not likely), I would like him to be taller than me.
But a smaller girl is just... well, I'm tall myself (about 5'10''/5'11''), so there are more smaller girls than taller girls anyway, but it also... I don't know, I just like someone smaller than me.
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I would love to be someone at least as tall as me. I'm 6'7". FML. :P
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Default Re: Height difference

I don't often find people shorter than me. My only real preference is that our heights have to be similar enough that it's not too hard to kiss when we're both standing. Things get uncomfortable with large height differences.
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Default Re: Height difference

I'm about 5'10", and my preference is definitely for taller guys
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