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Old 6th Sep 2011, 07:53 PM   #1
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Default What's sexy?

So, I was just thinking about my straight crush, and my mind wandered to some of the things I find sexy in women. For example:

- confidence
- athleticism
- endearing awkwardness
- thick-rimmed black glasses



What about you guys?
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Old 6th Sep 2011, 08:25 PM   #2
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A guy in sports clothes, like football. That's a total turn on for me. And also confidence and good lips.
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Everything about my girlfriend
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The way she dragged me into an alleyway and spontaneously made out with me. That was hot.
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Me ;D

Noo, I dunno, more so as long as they are decently attractive, and have a fun personality
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Redheads are my weakness.
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Blonde guys are hot, i think. Not all of them, but most of them
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Old 7th Sep 2011, 08:52 AM   #10
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Our tastes are very similar. I find all of the qualities you mentioned sexy in lesbians of every stripe, regardless of how masculine or feminine they are.

But here are some of the things I particularly like:
- Ballsyness. Like, shave-your-head, cliff-diving, snow-boarding ballsyness. Do-the-Dew type shenanigans.
- Intelligence. I looooooooove people who are smart. It is such a turn-on to me.
- People who are really stylish and fashionable, who know how to dress well (genderqueer dress is a plus)
- Artistic/literary ability.
- Sweet, but a smartass, or otherwise with a dry sense of humor.


I think the geek look that is so chic right now is superhot:

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Old 7th Sep 2011, 08:57 AM   #11
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It depends on my mood, really.

But the ultimate sexiness is when someone is totally crazy about me and crazy in love with me. I've yet to encounter the ultimate sexiness.
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Count me in for the thick-rimmed glasses! I also really, really like redheads.
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Default Re: What's sexy?

I like the short, spunky hair.
Intelligence.
Witty-ness.
Confidence.
I also like the glasses.

Recently I've found the soft butchy style pretty sexy! But then I find my girlfriend beyond sexy, and she's completely femme.
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Old 7th Sep 2011, 01:07 PM   #14
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Hmm..

I'm attracted to boys who aren't afraid to be the center of attention and shake things up a little bit. I think that's sexy. Plus, I think boys with darker features are more attractive. Guys with darker skin, black hair, and deep brown eyes are always sexy, in my opinion. I love it when guys are smart, but not when they're smarter than me. Piercings, tattoos, and torn denim...I love it.
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I'm into taller, sensitive guys.
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Default Re: What's sexy?

Right now I'm thinking about how immature a lot of guys in my class are and how I'd probably be more attracted to someone who can be both sensitive and funny at the right times. What's sexy and attractive for me is a guy who can reflect on his actions once in a while and doesn't make snide remarks. I don't like too much confidence either or exhibiting too much confidence. I still find being a little shy cute.

As for physical attributes, I'd go for lighter skinned guys and hair color doesn't matter to me. I'm also attracted to those who are quite tall as well. And I happen to always take notice of the hair and enjoy looking at the little spiky stuff

Apparently there seems to be quite a number of people here who are attracted to people who wear thick-rimmed glasses. It's not really a surprise since I know people who like the smart look. It doesn't do anything for me though possibly since I'm not really turned on by smart intelligent people but I can be impressed.
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Maturity, confidence, and spontaneity are all great.

Physically, I like broad shoulders and some meat on the bones. Not too much, not too little.
Unfortunately, tallness is also something I'm attracted to. And as I am short, it is a hard thing to come by--a taller guy into a shorter one.

Ah, well. A guy can dream.
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I like dark hair, dark eyes. Thick eyebrows. Nice smile. That's sexy.
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A masculine guy who's confident, but humble.
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This may seem weird put side by side, but...goth guys and nerds :P
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