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Old 11th Sep 2011, 12:32 PM   #1
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Default Who has more fun Gay guys or Lesbians?

So how has more fun gay guys or lesbians also side tracking which couples are cuter(not sexualy), Gay or lisbian couples?
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Old 11th Sep 2011, 12:34 PM   #2
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I'm biased so I'll say gays for both ^.^
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Old 11th Sep 2011, 12:40 PM   #3
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not gonna lie, i'm bi but i find gay(male) couples cuter in general. but mainly because i haven't seen a wide variety of lesbian couples that aren't just stereotypical.
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Old 11th Sep 2011, 01:40 PM   #4
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Can we try and keep it unbiased please.
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Old 11th Sep 2011, 01:40 PM   #5
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I think Lesbians make cuter couples
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Blondes.
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Old 11th Sep 2011, 01:57 PM   #7
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So how has more fun gay guys or lesbians also side tracking which couples are cuter(not sexualy), Gay or lisbian couples?
Depends vastly on your definition of fun. And I think all couples are equally cute.
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Old 11th Sep 2011, 02:17 PM   #8
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Can we try and keep it unbiased please.
This whole thread is about biases, so...no, we can't.

I don't find either instrinsically cuter than the other.
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Can we try and keep it unbiased please.
How can't you though? If I'm attracted to men then I'll find gays cuter than lesbians.
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Old 11th Sep 2011, 07:36 PM   #11
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Hmm, I don't know about the fun part. I'm inclined to say I find gay guys more "hot," because that's where my mind automatically goes...

Cuteness, however, goes to the lesbians.
I mean, really, just look at the evidence:



Willow and Tara in one of the best Buffy moments...
By far the cutest couple ever!
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Old 11th Sep 2011, 07:45 PM   #12
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Obvs, I'm completely biased so given the choice between the two I would pick lesbian couples for both.

BUT can I just say that I (for reasons I have never quite been able to explain) always think that queer couples are 100% of the time cuter than straight couples.

Maybe it's just because I'm like "hell yeah queerawesomeness and you are showing it and I love you for that!" I have no idea
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Old 11th Sep 2011, 07:57 PM   #13
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Hmm, I don't know about the fun part. I'm inclined to say I find gay guys more "hot," because that's where my mind automatically goes...

Cuteness, however, goes to the lesbians.
I mean, really, just look at the evidence:
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Willow and Tara in one of the best Buffy moments...
By far the cutest couple ever!
Awwww i LOVE willow and tara....too bad tara had to die that was probably the saddest episode of buffy
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Old 11th Sep 2011, 08:44 PM   #14
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/\/\ I agree with everything said above. I have to say lesbians are the cuter couples! And OMG, I STILL cry when Tara dies. I always keep hoping that episode will end differently, but that's just the hopeless romantic in me I guess...

I will say that Willow & Kennedy didn't make a bad couple tho, they were a bit cute together too! Especially with how nervous Kennedy always made Willow when she was telling her she was interested in her!
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Gay guys, cause we got dicks and there's just all sorts of fun stuff you can do with dicks.
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Depends on the couple. But on t.v. I usually like the lesbian couples more. But I think that people are going to answer based on who they are attracted to. I don't know that many gay/lesbian couples so I can't really answer this other than couples on t.v.
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Old 11th Sep 2011, 09:52 PM   #17
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Cute couples are cute as long as the people are cute together
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I'd say Lesbian couples are cuter. They are stereotypically always way more romantic and stuff...thus defining it as cute? In my books anyway.

For example, Mel and Lyns from Queer as Folk were probobly one of the relationships I enjoyed more for romantic cuteness (when they weren't being total bitches)...right behind Bryan and Justin.

Also I'm less jealous of lesbian relationships then I am gay ones. Haha!
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Hmm, I don't know about the fun part. I'm inclined to say I find gay guys more "hot," because that's where my mind automatically goes...

Cuteness, however, goes to the lesbians.
I mean, really, just look at the evidence:
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By far the cutest couple ever!
Awwww i LOVE willow and tara....too bad tara had to die that was probably the saddest episode of buffy
Not to throw the thread off on a tangent, but I think "The Body" was the saddest episode of Buffy. *lip quiver*
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Old 14th Sep 2011, 03:15 PM   #20
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i think gay couples look cuter obviously. and since i seen girls hug and be touchy with themselves when they are straight. however when do you get to see 2 straight guys hug? i havent. and its nice to see that they can be pretty emotional too. lol
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