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Old 13th Sep 2011, 02:04 AM   #1
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Default A High School Survival Guide for the Modern Teen

Found this article and it seems pretty no-nonsense and practical. I figured there might be at least a couple of useful tidbits for some of our high-school aged members
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Argh, high school is bullshit and I can't wait to leave.
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lol just study hard, keep out of trouble, do your work, turn it in on time, and make friends. no one said you had to go through hell alone.
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Gonna be a senior starting tomorrow. Only nine more months until sweet freedom
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I actually love high school, so far at least
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Argh, high school is bullshit and I can't wait to leave.
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Argh, high school is bullshit and I can't wait to leave.
Worse. It's like a freaking prison.
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I enjoyed my time there. ._.
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i enjoy highschool most times, but some days, just wanna gtfo ...
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I liked high school my first two years. Then in my junior and senior years, it turned into a joke.
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College is so much better.
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High school has more or less being a story of rise and crash. Everything seems perfect for a while, then something comes along and decides to take a dump on my life. I can't say I'll be sad to see it go, but I won't be happy about moving on either.

But last year (Year 10) was a trainwreck, period. I don't think anything went right that year. At least some things are going right this year.
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My high school was great before they tore it apart for renovation. Emotionally though, my freshman year I sorta ok and then totally crashed my sophomore and junior year. Luckily I kept my grades though. My senior year was awesome though.
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Articles like this make me feel bad about myself. The whole "you should be having fun" message makes me feel like the odd one out, because by no stretch of the imagination am I having fun, and there's no easy way to fix any of the problems I have there.
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So glad that I left highschool after sophmore year to do college. No more highschool bs for me.
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I'm too much of a grumpy guy to enjoy High School.
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I hated high school. The moment I left and went to college, everything improved.

Though if you want more detail, this is what I put in another thread the other day:

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Though as someone who is British and was always at British schools, I hated my entire high school experience (I left after the GCSEs, because I knew anything was better than that). The majority of the people were douchebags, some of the teachers were really awful at their job, some of the lessons sucked and I didn't feel comfortable there at all. The best time I had was with the GCSEs and that's sad thinking about it. At least I'm pleased to know that karma hit them hard and they failed elements of their OFSTED report.

Thankfully, I chose to leave as soon as I could, passed my GCSEs and went to college, been there for three years, approaching four (thus beating my high school years by one year ) and then hopefully do a top-up degree at university (although my current course is university level).
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