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Old 17th Sep 2011, 09:07 PM   #1
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I know its quite common that straight guys find lesbians kissing sexy, I have also found out that many girls find gay guys kissing disgusting.... why do you think this is?
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Old 17th Sep 2011, 09:14 PM   #2
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Default Re: lesbians and straight guys...

It differs based on the individual. That is all.
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Old 17th Sep 2011, 10:38 PM   #3
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Default Re: lesbians and straight guys...

It's mainly because of the straight guy mentality that the more women on your dick, the more successful you are. Not to mention a guy's GF will "approve" of a 3rd woman.

However, if a women a 2-guy 1-girl threesome, the guy would probably beat the woman and break up with her. Not to mention the mentality that the more guys a girl "has", the more of a slut she is.

It is more complex than that, but anyway. Not all women think gay guys kissing is disgusting, but more so than straight guys.
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Old 18th Sep 2011, 04:24 AM   #4
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Default Re: lesbians and straight guys...

It really does depend on the individual. I have a friend who's a girl who doesn't like the idea of gay guys kissing and there will probably be a few girls who don't appreciate the idea, but the chances are there are some guys who don't even like girls kissing (though I'm unaware of any).
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Old 18th Sep 2011, 04:40 AM   #5
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Default Re: lesbians and straight guys...

Like the others have said, I think it totally depends on the individuals themselves. I know quite a few girls who are lesbians or bisexual and they like the idea of guys kissing and such (although they might get that from reading anime, or rather, yaoi). It all just depends on the individual person.
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It really does depend on the individual. I have a friend who's a girl who doesn't like the idea of gay guys kissing and there will probably be a few girls who don't appreciate the idea, but the chances are there are some guys who don't even like girls kissing (though I'm unaware of any).
No, there isn't. If you like girls, you wanna see two of them kissing, period.


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It's mainly because of the straight guy mentality that the more women on your dick, the more successful you are. Not to mention a guy's GF will "approve" of a 3rd woman.

However, if a women a 2-guy 1-girl threesome, the guy would probably beat the woman and break up with her. Not to mention the mentality that the more guys a girl "has", the more of a slut she is.

It is more complex than that, but anyway. Not all women think gay guys kissing is disgusting, but more so than straight guys.
Yes, a lot of guys think like that, and I think it's stupid, actually. My dream is finding a girl with lots of "experience", and willing to teach me everything she knows =D
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I have also found out that many girls find gay guys kissing disgusting.... why do you think this is?
There's apparently a ton of straight girls out there who find gay guys kissing to be pretty hot. Yaoi - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

Written by and for straight girls.

Let it never be said that women aren't just as big of voyeuristic horndogs as men.
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There's apparently a ton of straight girls out there who find gay guys kissing to be pretty hot. Yaoi - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

Written by and for straight girls.

Let it never be said that women aren't just as big of voyeuristic horndogs as men.
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Well, there's always "slash" for the western equivalent.
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Oh i know loads of guys who find girls kissing gross and vice versa. it's too complex to attempt to group everything. it really depends on each individual
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Yes, a lot of guys think like that, and I think it's stupid, actually. My dream is finding a girl with lots of "experience", and willing to teach me everything she knows =D
I'd approve of both 2 guys 1 girl and 2 girls 1 guy.
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Default Re: lesbians and straight guys...

There's something reeeeeally hot about the idea of a girl (especially girlfriend) getting turned on by me making out or fucking other guys.

Maybe this is how all those "fake lesbians" feel.
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Default Re: lesbians and straight guys...

Most girls I know either have no opinion on gay guys kissing or they think it's adorable.
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