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Old 17th Sep 2011, 09:32 PM   #1
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What did you guys do? I can either go get plastered at a bar or go to an expensive club in Pittsburgh for a triple cover band show. If I go to the club I think less friends would come. Did you do anything different or exciting?
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Old 18th Sep 2011, 04:30 AM   #2
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I'm not twenty-one until 2013, but I was considering having a good gathering of family and friends at a venue. Not too exciting, but simple enough.

What about a holiday? I don't know, I'm not the best person to suggest anything for this kind of thing, but these are just ideas.
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Old 18th Sep 2011, 04:33 AM   #3
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Even though I live in Las Vegas I didn't do anything crazy and exciting. I'm just not that type of person. Lol. But I did something simple with my friends and we all had a really good time. I just thought of it as a number and didn't have any special connection with turning 21.
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I'm not twenty-one until 2013, but I was considering having a good gathering of family and friends at a venue. Not too exciting, but simple enough.
That's what most people around here do. Afterwards, those who want to (which generally doesn't include family) kick on to clubs, etc.
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Old 18th Sep 2011, 08:09 AM   #5
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If your friends are already 21 I'd say go out and drink it up. I guess even if they aren't 21 yet you could still go out and have your drinks and there would be more sober people to drive you around. Have fun!
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Old 18th Sep 2011, 01:17 PM   #6
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I think what I might do is the night I turn I'll go out with my parents and go crazy the next night. I want it to be having fun with friends and family not really getting trashed being the focal point. What I might do is go down to the gay club the next Friday
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Heres something really interesting I did it
I went to a church to cleanse my soul then get a blessing from Father
It fels sweet
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For my 21st birthday me and my best friend went to a steak house. I ordered a nice steak and beer.

I thought it was rather enjoyable.
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Old 18th Sep 2011, 03:22 PM   #9
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well i dont know your type of fun. we all have our own idea of fun. But all i can pretty much say is something that you like to do and that you will enjoy.

im not turning 21 til 2013 but im already planning. my bday is on a thursay so i would leave friday and come back sunday from vegas lmao. itll be awesome. and thursday would be dinner with family. lol
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