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needshelp · 21st Sep 2011, 08:28 PM

ever get uncomfortable going to the gym? i remember back when i used to go to the gym at the school where i graduated from, i would catch myself looking at the gyms and kinda getting turned on. i tried to fight the feelings or whatever. don't make me get started on the locker rooms. i hated it. i didn't want anybody to see me naked and i felt uncomfortable being around other guys in the locker room that were changing as well because i feared that i would start getting turned on by what i saw or act a certain way around them. i try to keep my eyes away from everybody else in the locker room because i'm afraid that i might get aroused at who i might see. i managed to control it myself really well despite there being moments where a guy would come around doing whatever and i just looked on instinct.

recently, since i brought this up, maybe because i wanked one out to some guys before i went to the gym, i feel weird. really, really weird. weird almost like i'm not going to look at these guys because i'm going to get a hard on. ever.

Mad Man L · 21st Sep 2011, 10:07 PM

I don't go to the gym, or do any physical exercise for that matter.

Problem solved.

But I remember when I saw the guy I liked (at that point) changing at my school. I just subtly watched, and then turned around when things 'happened' 'downstairs'.

Fugs · 21st Sep 2011, 10:59 PM

I remember freshman year gym class. Nothing is more awkward than trying to explain why you have a boner in front of several of your naked friends. I'm rather surprised that I didn't realize I was gay sooner to be honest.

needshelp · 21st Sep 2011, 11:08 PM

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Originally Posted by The Lewder

I don't go to the gym, or do any physical exercise for that matter.

Problem solved.

But I remember when I saw the guy I liked (at that point) changing at my school. I just subtly watched, and then turned around when things 'happened' 'downstairs'.

reminds me of my freshman year of high school. oh boy. i remember eyeing up some of the guys in the locker room and being aroused. i was confused with myself because i was also feeling some girls and in denial that that i may have an attraction going for guys so hey. i didn't want to believe it even though i was well aware of it. shame will make anybody do strange things that are pointless.

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needshelp really likes you Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: out to some, not family and friends though Location: in a closet near you Age: 25 Posts: 691 Join Date: Sep 2011	the gym ever get uncomfortable going to the gym? i remember back when i used to go to the gym at the school where i graduated from, i would catch myself looking at the gyms and kinda getting turned on. i tried to fight the feelings or whatever. don't make me get started on the locker rooms. i hated it. i didn't want anybody to see me naked and i felt uncomfortable being around other guys in the locker room that were changing as well because i feared that i would start getting turned on by what i saw or act a certain way around them. i try to keep my eyes away from everybody else in the locker room because i'm afraid that i might get aroused at who i might see. i managed to control it myself really well despite there being moments where a guy would come around doing whatever and i just looked on instinct. recently, since i brought this up, maybe because i wanked one out to some guys before i went to the gym, i feel weird. really, really weird. weird almost like i'm not going to look at these guys because i'm going to get a hard on. ever.

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Mad Man L EC Addict Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Bisexual Out Status: All but family Location: Brisbane, Australia Age: 16 Posts: 1,244 Join Date: Jul 2011	Re: the gym I don't go to the gym, or do any physical exercise for that matter. Problem solved. But I remember when I saw the guy I liked (at that point) changing at my school. I just subtly watched, and then turned around when things 'happened' 'downstairs'. __________________ I really should get a proper signature...

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Fugs EC's Local Furry Full Member Gender: Female, trans M-F (Wishes she was a kitty) Orientation: Straight Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Bowling Green, OH Age: 18 Posts: 408 Join Date: Sep 2011	Re: the gym I remember freshman year gym class. Nothing is more awkward than trying to explain why you have a boner in front of several of your naked friends. I'm rather surprised that I didn't realize I was gay sooner to be honest. __________________ We love youes! Please accept a hug from us so that we can give <( ^ω^)> (≧∇≦)/ (^O^)／ (^。^) (づ｡◕‿‿◕｡)づ ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ ಠ_ರೃ your face the smile that everyone around you wants to see!