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kunglaomksm · 27th Sep 2011, 02:18 AM

Is it just me or when a very hot guy changes hairstyle it turns me off. I really don't like shaggy and long hair and I mostly like guys with short hair and clean cuts. I mean it's the same guy but with different hair style. Like These:

maverick · 27th Sep 2011, 02:23 AM

I only think the first and third people you listed here can pull off a long haircut. The other two look dumb in my opinion.

**Gerry** · 27th Sep 2011, 02:28 AM

It all depends on the individual person as to how they would look with shorter or longer hair. I'm not picky with hair length. Again, it depends on the person.

maverick · 27th Sep 2011, 02:42 AM

I like long hair on most guys. (Psst...I think it's because it makes them look more womanly.

)

But you know who can't pull off long hair? Taylor Lautner.

^ Now tell me he doesn't look better with that mop chopped off.

PerfectInsanity · 27th Sep 2011, 02:58 AM

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Originally Posted by maverick

I like long hair on most guys. (Psst...I think it's because it makes them look more womanly.

)

I think that's why some of us gay guys prefer the shorter hair.

What's worse though is when there is the combination of long hair and too much muscle. For example, I never understood the attraction to Fabio. I think "I'd rather put a campfire out with my face".

maverick · 27th Sep 2011, 03:00 AM

^ Yeah, this is pretty terrible. I just want to hold him down and shave his head.

He seems like a pretty nice guy though.

**Owen** · 27th Sep 2011, 07:26 AM

I'm a guy who likes guys with long hair (which is part of the reason why I grew mine out; I think I look better with it long. Of course, there's a long and complicated list of reasons why I grew it out, some way more existential than "I'll look better," but that's a post for another thread), so I can't say I agree with your assessment. But for me, it has to get pretty long before I'll say it's "long". The "shaggy" look barely qualifies as long in my book. For example, Bradley Cooper in that second photo of him down there? Or Daniel Radcliffe? Not long at all.

THAT is long hair.

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Originally Posted by maverick

But you know who can't pull off long hair? Taylor Lautner.

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^ Now tell me he doesn't look better with that mop chopped off.

Even I have to admit, he does. The first time I saw him with hair like that, I was like, "Oh God, it's so long, but... ich habe keine lust!"

27th Sep 2011, 07:03 PM

Raeil · 27th Sep 2011, 07:18 PM

In general, I tend to gravitate towards guys with shorter hair, though I myself prefer to have longer (shoulder length) hair. There are a lot of qualifying factors (facial hair, hair type, face shape, etc.) but in general, if it's short-ish and styled, I'll probably like it.

Beachboi92 · 27th Sep 2011, 08:55 PM

it depends on the person. I like long hair only when it is at a certain length (most of the time) and short hair is usually better in my opinion, but some guys pull off both. However most guys with long hair i do not find attractive unless it is right in the right amount of length zone xD

Kidd · 27th Sep 2011, 09:02 PM

I definitely prefer shorter hair on just about everyone, honestly, and I'm not hating but I really don't like curly hair, period.

kylegf2011 · 27th Sep 2011, 09:15 PM

I prefer longer hair (without it being too long) for example Zac Efron... he looked much better with longer hair than he does now, or Jesse Mccartney same thing. I actually dont like them that much with short hair. But Taylor Lautner on the other side... he looks better withh short hair

AngelicDemonic · 28th Sep 2011, 06:39 PM

lol. I wear my hair down past my waist. No joke, I don't even remember the last time I had a trim. Just by description it's kind of "O.o" but when you see it IRL it's like "O.o is that real life?"

But w/me, the only hair style that could be a turn off is A) shaved, or B) anything dirty.
Normally B means dreads, but I've seen girls with clean well kept dreadlocks, and it was actually pretty cute

Also, taylor laughtner looks like an angry dog.

otc877 · 28th Sep 2011, 06:44 PM

HATE this hairstyle:

AngelicDemonic · 28th Sep 2011, 06:54 PM

^^ I'm pretty sure that's a bowl cut

Nazo · 28th Sep 2011, 07:00 PM

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Originally Posted by Kidd

I definitely prefer shorter hair on just about everyone, honestly, and I'm not hating but I really don't like curly hair, period.

I hold a similar position.

Danny19 · 28th Sep 2011, 07:45 PM

I dislike long hair. Its just not such an attraction. i like it when the guys hair is short. To me short hair is way better than long. Like Jake Gyllenhaal looks better wit short hair. so does brad pitt, Chris Hemsworth, Ashton Kutcher, David Beckham, and Zac Efron.

i mean look at him, he looks wayyy better.

and the shirtless part helps too lol

NoPlanB · 28th Sep 2011, 10:06 PM

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Originally Posted by Fusileer

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Is that Logan Lerman? 0_0

He's freaking gorgeous.

FJ Cruiser · 29th Sep 2011, 06:59 PM

Long hair on a guy is a big turn off for me. Like the guy who plays Thor. He's not bad-looking with the long hair, just not my type. But he's drop-dead gorgeous with the short hair and the stubble.

TheRoof · 29th Sep 2011, 07:26 PM

I like both short hair and medium-long hair. I don't mind long hair if someone can pull it off. Honestly, if someone can pull off any kind of hairstyle, more power to them and I'll probably end up liking it too.

***These pics I found from TheSartorialist. I love the guy with red hair and purple scarves...totally digging it

27th Sep 2011, 02:18 AM	#1
kunglaomksm The tall skinny one Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: I'm gay, take it or leave it Out Status: my parents, a straight friend,3 'girl'friends Location: Philippines Age: 20 Posts: 124 Join Date: Aug 2011	Hairstyle turn-off Is it just me or when a very hot guy changes hairstyle it turns me off. I really don't like shaggy and long hair and I mostly like guys with short hair and clean cuts. I mean it's the same guy but with different hair style. Like These: __________________ I wonder what it feels like to have a boyfriend? Oh well, I guess I'll just have to look cute till I found one GO DANCING BANANAS!! Last edited by kunglaomksm; 27th Sep 2011 at 02:22 AM..

27th Sep 2011, 02:23 AM	#2
maverick let watchers become warriors Full Member Gender: You tell me. Orientation: Hey good lookin'. wink Out Status: It's pretty obvious. Location: Alabama cue banjos Age: 26 Posts: 2,118 Join Date: Nov 2010	Re: Hairstyle turn-off I only think the first and third people you listed here can pull off a long haircut. The other two look dumb in my opinion. __________________ Shelter me oh genius words, just give me strength / to pen these things, and give me peace to well her wings / and oh, oh carry on, all you minstrels of the world, we will catch our lady's ear, we will win for us the girl.

27th Sep 2011, 02:28 AM	#3
Gerry We're all a little mad! EC Moderator Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Some people Location: Las Vegas Age: 24 Posts: 5,551 Join Date: Jan 2008	Re: Hairstyle turn-off It all depends on the individual person as to how they would look with shorter or longer hair. I'm not picky with hair length. Again, it depends on the person. __________________ "Everybody's journey is individual. If you fall in love with a boy, you fall in love with a boy. The fact that many Americans consider it a disease says more about them than it does about homosexuality".-James Baldwin

27th Sep 2011, 02:42 AM	#4
maverick let watchers become warriors Full Member Gender: You tell me. Orientation: Hey good lookin'. wink Out Status: It's pretty obvious. Location: Alabama cue banjos Age: 26 Posts: 2,118 Join Date: Nov 2010	Re: Hairstyle turn-off I like long hair on most guys. (Psst...I think it's because it makes them look more womanly. ) But you know who can't pull off long hair? Taylor Lautner. ^ Now tell me he doesn't look better with that mop chopped off. __________________ Shelter me oh genius words, just give me strength / to pen these things, and give me peace to well her wings / and oh, oh carry on, all you minstrels of the world, we will catch our lady's ear, we will win for us the girl.

27th Sep 2011, 03:00 AM	#6
maverick let watchers become warriors Full Member Gender: You tell me. Orientation: Hey good lookin'. wink Out Status: It's pretty obvious. Location: Alabama cue banjos Age: 26 Posts: 2,118 Join Date: Nov 2010	Re: Hairstyle turn-off ^ Yeah, this is pretty terrible. I just want to hold him down and shave his head. He seems like a pretty nice guy though. __________________ Shelter me oh genius words, just give me strength / to pen these things, and give me peace to well her wings / and oh, oh carry on, all you minstrels of the world, we will catch our lady's ear, we will win for us the girl.

27th Sep 2011, 07:03 PM	#8
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27th Sep 2011, 07:18 PM	#9
Raeil EC Addict Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Missouri Age: 20 Posts: 421 Join Date: May 2011	Re: Hairstyle turn-off In general, I tend to gravitate towards guys with shorter hair, though I myself prefer to have longer (shoulder length) hair. There are a lot of qualifying factors (facial hair, hair type, face shape, etc.) but in general, if it's short-ish and styled, I'll probably like it. __________________ ~Say my name, as every color illuminates! We are shining, and we will never be afraid again!~

27th Sep 2011, 08:55 PM	#10
Beachboi92 Occasionally Caddy Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: queer Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Frederick Maryland Age: 19 Posts: 2,226 Join Date: Jul 2009	Re: Hairstyle turn-off it depends on the person. I like long hair only when it is at a certain length (most of the time) and short hair is usually better in my opinion, but some guys pull off both. However most guys with long hair i do not find attractive unless it is right in the right amount of length zone xD __________________ All men are created equal, it is only men themselves who place themselves above equality. David Allan Coe

27th Sep 2011, 09:02 PM	#11
Kidd You'll love me! Full Member Gender: ♂ Orientation: ♂ ♥ ♂ Out Status: Out Location: N.W. Ohio Age: 21 Posts: 1,430 Join Date: Mar 2010	Re: Hairstyle turn-off I definitely prefer shorter hair on just about everyone, honestly, and I'm not hating but I really don't like curly hair, period. __________________ I feel a hunger. Take my picture by the pool, because I'm the next big thing. Fingers crossed, my time is coming now...

27th Sep 2011, 09:15 PM	#12
kylegf2011 Well Known Regular Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: 2 friends Age: 20 Posts: 129 Join Date: Jun 2011	Re: Hairstyle turn-off I prefer longer hair (without it being too long) for example Zac Efron... he looked much better with longer hair than he does now, or Jesse Mccartney same thing. I actually dont like them that much with short hair. But Taylor Lautner on the other side... he looks better withh short hair

28th Sep 2011, 06:39 PM	#13
AngelicDemonic Fire? Regular Member Gender: Girlygirl Orientation: Boobs nod Out Status: Ask, I tell. Location: PA Age: 13 Posts: 123 Join Date: Jul 2011	Re: Hairstyle turn-off lol. I wear my hair down past my waist. No joke, I don't even remember the last time I had a trim. Just by description it's kind of "O.o" but when you see it IRL it's like "O.o is that real life?" But w/me, the only hair style that could be a turn off is A) shaved, or B) anything dirty. Normally B means dreads, but I've seen girls with clean well kept dreadlocks, and it was actually pretty cute Also, taylor laughtner looks like an angry dog. __________________ Toi et moi sommes pareils, tout comme la Terre et le Ciel; une seule famille sous le Soleil.

28th Sep 2011, 06:44 PM	#14
otc877 ^_^ Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Most friends know Location: L.A. Outskirts Age: 22 Posts: 790 Join Date: Oct 2007	Re: Hairstyle turn-off HATE this hairstyle:

28th Sep 2011, 06:54 PM	#15
AngelicDemonic Fire? Regular Member Gender: Girlygirl Orientation: Boobs nod Out Status: Ask, I tell. Location: PA Age: 13 Posts: 123 Join Date: Jul 2011	Re: Hairstyle turn-off ^^ I'm pretty sure that's a bowl cut __________________ Toi et moi sommes pareils, tout comme la Terre et le Ciel; une seule famille sous le Soleil.

28th Sep 2011, 07:45 PM	#17
Danny19 Lets see what happens Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: i love boys!!! Out Status: Some people Location: Los Angeles Age: 19 Posts: 722 Join Date: Jul 2010	Re: Hairstyle turn-off I dislike long hair. Its just not such an attraction. i like it when the guys hair is short. To me short hair is way better than long. Like Jake Gyllenhaal looks better wit short hair. so does brad pitt, Chris Hemsworth, Ashton Kutcher, David Beckham, and Zac Efron. i mean look at him, he looks wayyy better. and the shirtless part helps too lol __________________ “Whats meant to be, will always find its way"

29th Sep 2011, 06:59 PM	#19
FJ Cruiser EC Addict Full Member Gender: Guy Orientation: Guys Out Status: immediate family, a few friends Location: Deep in the Heart Age: 19 Posts: 520 Join Date: Jul 2011	Re: Hairstyle turn-off Long hair on a guy is a big turn off for me. Like the guy who plays Thor. He's not bad-looking with the long hair, just not my type. But he's drop-dead gorgeous with the short hair and the stubble.

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