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Jewel · 27th Sep 2011, 01:36 PM

So, I have a girlfriend, Vera, and we've been together for almost five months now. Her birthday is the second of october, and that's the day after our five months-anniversary, so to speak.
But I have absolutely no idea of what to get her. For her birthday or our anniversary. I thought that maybe I should put it together and plan a romantic date or something, but I have no idea what, because we go for dinner and films on our usual dates, so I can't do that, but anything else I can think of is just cheesy, like a bad romantic comedy.
So I really don't know what to do or what to get her. Any ideas?

PS. Last night she said 'I love you' for the first time!!! And she usually doesn't talk about what she feels, so it means so much to me!!!

Z3ni · 27th Sep 2011, 04:55 PM

Well.. what does she like?? What are her interests?
I'd think a necklace would be nice

for example :

Jewel · 2nd Oct 2011, 01:51 PM

I'm going to give her this
Open Your Heart Necklace | Claire's
when she gets out of the shower, cause that's where she is now. I really hope she likes it. And tomorrow we're going to the 'Efteling' that's some kind of amusement park, but... different. It's all about fairy tales and beauty, but there are some great roller coasters. The Dreamflight is the best, though. It's a 'journey' through some kind of fairy land, but it's so beautiful, and I know how much she loves it.

midwestgirl89 · 2nd Oct 2011, 09:38 PM

That's a pretty necklace and I'm sure she will love going to the amusement park with you. I hope you have a lot of fun! It's the thought that counts right? and you have put a lot of thought into this so kudos to you. Good luck and wish her happy birthday.

27th Sep 2011, 01:36 PM	#1
Jewel Banned Regular Member Gender: Androgyn in a girl's body Orientation: Lesbian Out Status: Out and proud Location: The Netherlands Posts: 48 Join Date: Apr 2011	What to get my gf for her b-day? So, I have a girlfriend, Vera, and we've been together for almost five months now. Her birthday is the second of october, and that's the day after our five months-anniversary, so to speak. But I have absolutely no idea of what to get her. For her birthday or our anniversary. I thought that maybe I should put it together and plan a romantic date or something, but I have no idea what, because we go for dinner and films on our usual dates, so I can't do that, but anything else I can think of is just cheesy, like a bad romantic comedy. So I really don't know what to do or what to get her. Any ideas? PS. Last night she said 'I love you' for the first time!!! And she usually doesn't talk about what she feels, so it means so much to me!!!

27th Sep 2011, 04:55 PM	#2
Z3ni Ec's ADD Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gayish Out Status: My Twin Location: England, Manchester Posts: 3,083 Join Date: Oct 2008	Re: What to get my gf for her b-day? Well.. what does she like?? What are her interests? I'd think a necklace would be nice for example : __________________ Through pain, lies success.

2nd Oct 2011, 01:51 PM	#3
Jewel Banned Regular Member Gender: Androgyn in a girl's body Orientation: Lesbian Out Status: Out and proud Location: The Netherlands Posts: 48 Join Date: Apr 2011	Re: What to get my gf for her b-day? I'm going to give her this Open Your Heart Necklace \| Claire's when she gets out of the shower, cause that's where she is now. I really hope she likes it. And tomorrow we're going to the 'Efteling' that's some kind of amusement park, but... different. It's all about fairy tales and beauty, but there are some great roller coasters. The Dreamflight is the best, though. It's a 'journey' through some kind of fairy land, but it's so beautiful, and I know how much she loves it. Last edited by Jewel; 2nd Oct 2011 at 01:56 PM..

2nd Oct 2011, 09:38 PM	#4
midwestgirl89 EC Addict Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Interested in Women Out Status: Some people Age: 23 Posts: 559 Join Date: Jul 2011	Re: What to get my gf for her b-day? That's a pretty necklace and I'm sure she will love going to the amusement park with you. I hope you have a lot of fun! It's the thought that counts right? and you have put a lot of thought into this so kudos to you. Good luck and wish her happy birthday.