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wingandaprayer · 5th Oct 2011, 09:03 AM

So something a little on the lighter side.

If you have been married/are going to be married/dream about getting married/domestic partnershipped to a partner of the same sex, what

1. Both wearing tuxes
2. Both wearing dresses
3. One wearing a tux, the other wearing a dress

Not that there's any right answer, I'm just curious. Me, I'm a female, but I dream about getting married in a tux, with my partner in a wedding dress.

Bosco · 5th Oct 2011, 09:06 AM

Double tux for the win!

I'm guessing this thread is a little more geared towards the female population here though

Artemicion · 5th Oct 2011, 09:10 AM

Geared towards the female population?! NO WAY! I, for one, am interested in clothing...

My choice would be double tux! But there should be something special about them not just looking like "any other tux". Maybe it's the cut, or the fabric, or the style...something!

whencanIbeme · 5th Oct 2011, 09:17 AM

I never imagined my wedding in a dress.. so a nice suit, or tux for me.. and whatever my future wife would prefer to wear.

Rooni321 · 5th Oct 2011, 09:40 AM

Hmmm I never really thought about the other person...or my wedding much lol
But I definately would want to wear a dress on the shorter side, not so traditional because I want to feel relaxed and I feel like long dresses restrict me haha
Either way though, if they want to wear a dress or tux, I'm goood! (:

Bosco · 5th Oct 2011, 09:48 AM

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Originally Posted by ThinksTooMuch

Geared towards the female population?! NO WAY! I, for one, am interested in clothing...

My choice would be double tux! But there should be something special about them not just looking like "any other tux". Maybe it's the cut, or the fabric, or the style...something!

Haha I love clothes too, don't get me wrong

I meant for most people ere who identify as guys, te answer will probably be double tux. And yes for sure. Something super stylish haha

Heyitsme · 5th Oct 2011, 10:13 AM

I plan to get married in a kilt, while he wears a tux

Fugs · 5th Oct 2011, 10:16 AM

Double Tux, I don't think I could pull off a dress.

**Owen** · 5th Oct 2011, 10:18 AM

T-shirts. See, we'd get marriage in the court house or town hall (wherever they perform them when a church isn't involved) so we can save our money for an awesome party to throw afterward. And what to wear to that party? I abhor formal parties, so our attire would probably be similar.

maverick · 5th Oct 2011, 10:34 AM

I want this wedding. And I get to be Han Solo.

Seriously, words cannot describe the fun that would result from a theme wedding of space opera proportions.

Oh yeah, and I want this to be the first dance (choreographed of course):

+ YouTube Video

needshelp · 5th Oct 2011, 11:58 AM

wedding???

i don't think i'm ever going to get married and don't plan on it either. i want to have kids though despite the chances looking grim.

fiddledeedee · 5th Oct 2011, 01:05 PM

I think I'd like to wear a femenine suit, and whatever my partner wears is up to them (though I love dresses). I will probably change my mind though! as I have 10, 20, something, years before I need to worry about getting married if I do at all, and I might marry a man in which case I would be happy to wear a dress. Meh, I'm only 14!

DefineNormal · 5th Oct 2011, 01:11 PM

We just had to make a poster like this for RS C: I think I'd wear a dress with converse- but I may change my mind...- and they could wear what they wanted, but a white tux, red skinny jeans, white shirt, black bow tie look amazing -.o that's what's on the poster anyhow

Zontar · 5th Oct 2011, 01:24 PM

If I could pull off a dress without looking completely goofy, I'd do it. Why not try something different, eh?

Also, I don't really "do" marriage.

Kerze · 5th Oct 2011, 01:25 PM

If I ever do get married, I think I'd just wear a black suit/tux. He can wear what he wants, I think it's a little creepy/presumptuous to be picking out clothes for somebody I haven't met yet.

I doubt I will end up married though. The idea of so many of my family members in one place with all their waspish passive aggression focused onto me and my decisions is making me feel a little ill and I'm probably 10/20 years away from getting married if I do it at all. Even without that, I don't think I could stand having so much attention, I'm not used to getting any really.

kiersten · 5th Oct 2011, 01:31 PM

Double dresses for me! Both of us in just these beautiful, long, flowing white gowns, with satin and lace, and each of holding bouqets! Thatès how Ive always pictured it!

Mimerio · 5th Oct 2011, 02:44 PM

I'd rather wear the dress, my fiance, the tuxedo, but that's just me

SlickyPants · 5th Oct 2011, 02:57 PM

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Originally Posted by maverick

Image

I want this wedding. And I get to be Han Solo.

Seriously, words cannot describe the fun that would result from a theme wedding of space opera proportions.

I dig Han Solo's wardrobe, especially his holster but I think I would like to get married in Luke's swanky yellow jacket.

While we're at it I think I'd like to have the Throne Room music playing rather than Wagner.

alex2020 · 5th Oct 2011, 03:29 PM

Double tux!

heatqueen · 5th Oct 2011, 03:39 PM

To differentiate from most of the androgynous lesbians who want to wear tuxes, I'd definitely wear a dress, probably on the glamour-ish side of things because I like dressing up for occasions.

And I would love to have my make-up done by a make-up artist and have my hair done as well. I'm not sure what kind of dress I would go for, if I would go for the traditional white or something a bit different, but definitely something quite fitted that shows off my figure but isn't slutty. I'm definitely not one for tuxes, and would probably feel very uncomfortable in one.

5th Oct 2011, 09:03 AM	#1
wingandaprayer Member Regular Member Gender: Female Orientation: Lesbian Out Status: A few people Posts: 29 Join Date: Oct 2011	Outfit you'd like to wear at your wedding? So something a little on the lighter side. If you have been married/are going to be married/dream about getting married/domestic partnershipped to a partner of the same sex, what 1. Both wearing tuxes 2. Both wearing dresses 3. One wearing a tux, the other wearing a dress Not that there's any right answer, I'm just curious. Me, I'm a female, but I dream about getting married in a tux, with my partner in a wedding dress.

5th Oct 2011, 09:06 AM	#2
Bosco kukukuku Full Member Gender: Male 男 Orientation: Boys make my knees weak Out Status: A few people Location: eh? Age: 19 Posts: 269 Join Date: Jul 2011	Re: Outfit you'd like to wear at your wedding? Double tux for the win! I'm guessing this thread is a little more geared towards the female population here though __________________ .: ♪ :. I tried to be 'perfect'... it just wasn't worth it

5th Oct 2011, 09:10 AM	#3
Artemicion :D :D :D Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Anyone who asks, but parents in denial. Location: Vancouver BC Canada Age: 23 Posts: 1,112 Join Date: Aug 2010	Re: Outfit you'd like to wear at your wedding? Geared towards the female population?! NO WAY! I, for one, am interested in clothing... My choice would be double tux! But there should be something special about them not just looking like "any other tux". Maybe it's the cut, or the fabric, or the style...something!

5th Oct 2011, 09:17 AM	#4
whencanIbeme Member Regular Member Gender: Female Orientation: Lesbian Out Status: Some people Location: nv Age: 32 Posts: 24 Join Date: Oct 2011	Re: Outfit you'd like to wear at your wedding? I never imagined my wedding in a dress.. so a nice suit, or tux for me.. and whatever my future wife would prefer to wear.

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Rooni321 EC's Hopeless Romantic Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: gay, str8, bi Out Status: Out to everyone Location: San Francisco, California <3 Age: 17 Posts: 1,321 Join Date: Oct 2011	Re: Outfit you'd like to wear at your wedding? Hmmm I never really thought about the other person...or my wedding much lol But I definately would want to wear a dress on the shorter side, not so traditional because I want to feel relaxed and I feel like long dresses restrict me haha Either way though, if they want to wear a dress or tux, I'm goood! (: __________________ "The world breaks everyone and afterward many are strong in the broken places. But those that will not break it kills. It kills the very good and the very gentle and the very brave impartially." Ernest Hemingway

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DefineNormal Average psychopath turned dinosaur Regular Member Gender: Female Orientation: GAY! Out Status: PARENTS! Close friends Location: London Age: 15 Posts: 150 Join Date: Jun 2011	Re: Outfit you'd like to wear at your wedding? We just had to make a poster like this for RS C: I think I'd wear a dress with converse- but I may change my mind...- and they could wear what they wanted, but a white tux, red skinny jeans, white shirt, black bow tie look amazing -.o that's what's on the poster anyhow __________________ If Time and Space are Curved Where Do All the Straight People Come From? ...and the lesbians

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Zontar Mister Funny Man Full Member Gender: Male Location: Binghampton, NY Posts: 1,539 Join Date: Oct 2010	Re: Outfit you'd like to wear at your wedding? If I could pull off a dress without looking completely goofy, I'd do it. Why not try something different, eh? Also, I don't really "do" marriage. __________________ Get up and open your eyes...Don't ever let yourself ever fall down... Get through it and learn how to fly...I know you'll find a way...today. -Days of the New, "Dirty Road"

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