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myou725 · 7th Oct 2011, 08:35 AM

What would be a couple ways that a bisexual would show interest in same sex if you don't know their sexual orientation??

myou725 · 7th Oct 2011, 09:14 AM

Really Ladies, no responses??

Would you tell them you are bisexual?
If don't judge would you tell them they are pretty?

How would you drop clues that you are interested??

J Snow · 7th Oct 2011, 09:18 AM

Lol, you gave it all of half an hour before judging people for not commenting on your thread.

Perhaps just bring up a topic that might shed some light on how they feel about homosexuality. Bring up same sex marriage or something and judge their response to start. If they are all for a gay rights then they shouldn't mind you telling them that you're bi. If on the other hand they start talking about how homosexuals are sinners going straight to hell, then you can probably assume she's not going to want to experiment with you :P

myou725 · 7th Oct 2011, 09:31 AM

haha, little anxious yes I am.

I had a friend tell me of their bisexuality. I responded in a good way, however what I failed to do was express my bi curious. I really wanted to make sure I felt certain because I did not want to harm or hurt their feelings.

Since they have told me, I feel passes have been made. I have never told any one of my interest in woman. I tried telling her yesterday but completely chickend out. I guess I am looking for somone who has been in that situation to tell me if passes have been made towards me. I do not want to ruin my friendship, however I am totally attracted to them!!

7th Oct 2011, 08:35 AM	#1
myou725 Member Regular Member Gender: Female Orientation: Questioning Posts: 13 Join Date: Oct 2011	How would you do it??? What would be a couple ways that a bisexual would show interest in same sex if you don't know their sexual orientation??

7th Oct 2011, 09:14 AM	#2
myou725 Member Regular Member Gender: Female Orientation: Questioning Posts: 13 Join Date: Oct 2011	Re: How would you do it??? Really Ladies, no responses?? Would you tell them you are bisexual? If don't judge would you tell them they are pretty? How would you drop clues that you are interested??

7th Oct 2011, 09:18 AM	#3
J Snow EC Addict Regular Member Gender: Sex - Male, Gender -Female/bigender/not quite sure Orientation: Primarily interested in men. Out Status: fairly out about sexuality, gender not so much Location: Des Moines, Iowa Age: 22 Posts: 1,391 Join Date: Aug 2011	Re: How would you do it??? Lol, you gave it all of half an hour before judging people for not commenting on your thread. Perhaps just bring up a topic that might shed some light on how they feel about homosexuality. Bring up same sex marriage or something and judge their response to start. If they are all for a gay rights then they shouldn't mind you telling them that you're bi. If on the other hand they start talking about how homosexuals are sinners going straight to hell, then you can probably assume she's not going to want to experiment with you :P

7th Oct 2011, 09:31 AM	#4
myou725 Member Regular Member Gender: Female Orientation: Questioning Posts: 13 Join Date: Oct 2011	Re: How would you do it??? haha, little anxious yes I am. I had a friend tell me of their bisexuality. I responded in a good way, however what I failed to do was express my bi curious. I really wanted to make sure I felt certain because I did not want to harm or hurt their feelings. Since they have told me, I feel passes have been made. I have never told any one of my interest in woman. I tried telling her yesterday but completely chickend out. I guess I am looking for somone who has been in that situation to tell me if passes have been made towards me. I do not want to ruin my friendship, however I am totally attracted to them!!