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Old 7th Oct 2011, 07:14 PM   #1
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Have you ever had a bf/gf and are you single now?

I never had one until last week when I got asked out by someone I met on an online game and I'm really happy right now
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Old 7th Oct 2011, 07:21 PM   #2
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I had a girlfriend like 3 years ago. I was a sophomore in High School. I've never (formally) dated anyone else.

But glad to hear you're happy!

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Old 7th Oct 2011, 07:22 PM   #3
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I've had a lot of boyfriends when I was younger and I've had a few girlfriends and I just got out of a 2 year relationship with a girl I was madly in love with so I'm single for a while now. And congrats on getting asked out. I hope it goes well
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Old 7th Oct 2011, 07:23 PM   #4
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I have been in a relationship for 1 year and 1 month 4 days from now.
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Old 7th Oct 2011, 07:25 PM   #5
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Never been in a serious relationship. Yes I'm single now.

I would like to start dating again, but with my back problems it makes it hard to socialize right now. Maybe once things improve a little more.
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Old 7th Oct 2011, 07:31 PM   #6
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I never had one until last week when I got asked out by someone I met on an online game and I'm really happy right now
Congratulations, that's great!

I'm single myself, unfortunately. Luckily I live near Brighton (the gay capital lol), so it's not exactly difficult meeting girls, but finding the right girl is bloody hard... Though being single has it's benefits, there's much less hassle and no commitment, but i've been single for a while, and it would be nice to meet that special someone. But after the last woman I was involved with (huge mistake lol), I kind of find it hard trusting new people, so I don't really wanna jump into a new relationship anyway, would rather give it a bit of time lol!
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Old 7th Oct 2011, 07:35 PM   #7
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I haven't been in a relationship but I would like to :3 so Yes I'm single -.- and have never had a bf or gf
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Old 7th Oct 2011, 07:44 PM   #8
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I'm single, but that has the potential to change. I had a really lovely date with a really lovely girl yesterday, and I'm hoping that will lead to something.
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Old 7th Oct 2011, 08:06 PM   #9
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I've had 5 girlfriends before. I'm technically single now, but not for long :P we both like eachother, just taking it slow before we make things official.
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Old 7th Oct 2011, 08:08 PM   #10
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i've been single for 25 years. could have got into something had i used the opportunities offered to me but either i wasn't ready or i wasn't attracted to that person. i could have got with some girls when i was a teen but i was a wuss and i didn't like them like that. could have probably got with some guys too but i wasn't even trying to go there being in the closet and all. even now, i'm kind of a little scared to go out with a guy being that i'm still in the closet but i wouldn't mind though. i don't think i would have as much of a problem finding a guy to hook up with unlike a girl.
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Old 7th Oct 2011, 08:20 PM   #11
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I've dated 3 guys and (one girl, if you could call holding hands every once in a while dating). And I've been with my current one 3 1/2 years.
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Old 7th Oct 2011, 08:38 PM   #12
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All 20+ years of my life...I've been single....no boyfriend.
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Old 7th Oct 2011, 08:38 PM   #13
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I kissed a girl (or, more exactly, she kissed me) when I was 14. It was kind of a disaster, she turned out being a bitch. I've never been with anyone else, since then. There is someone which who I would like to be, but it's still far away from happening. =/
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No, nobody ever wanted to go out with me.
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Old 7th Oct 2011, 10:09 PM   #15
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I had a girlfriend once.
If I could actually attend an LGBT club meeting to validate my gaydar readings I might be able to pursue a relationship here, though. XD
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Old 7th Oct 2011, 10:16 PM   #16
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Old 7th Oct 2011, 10:33 PM   #17
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unfortunately i am single, havent been in a relationship
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Old 7th Oct 2011, 10:41 PM   #18
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I'm single right now.

I've had a few girlfriends; one of them was pretty serious.

Unfortunately, I've never had a boyfriend, but I've got my eye on a guy or two in my university's LGBT club. We'll see...
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Old 7th Oct 2011, 10:52 PM   #19
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I've only dated two girls, if you can call the first time dating persay.. But the second girl I've been dating for 2 years on November 1st. ^^
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Old 7th Oct 2011, 10:53 PM   #20
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Yes, I've been single for almost a year now! I'd love to get a girlfriend now though, she would be my first. But I'm working on it ^_^
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