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fiddlemiddle · 7th Oct 2011, 09:07 PM

Anyone here an virgin when they turned 21? But I had some peer pressure to loose my virginity then.

needshelp · 7th Oct 2011, 09:10 PM

25 year old virgin here. yeah, i had peer pressure from my boys and other people to lose my virginity and whatever but i really don't care anyway. still didn't make me want to run and lose my v-card. i'm too comfortable with myself already and i don't feel comfortable enough to share myself with someone else i guess at the moment. as far as i'm concerned even though i'm kind of going off on the deep end, i really don't care if i die a virgin. oh well. wouldn't mind getting to experience some affection or whatever.

Allegro molto · 7th Oct 2011, 09:14 PM

20+ years old....still a virgin...never even been kissed....

Shevanel · 7th Oct 2011, 09:21 PM

Almost, but it's not a big deal >_> Lost mine at 20.

Raeil · 7th Oct 2011, 11:34 PM

For the record, I'm 19, turning 20 in two months. However, there's a very distinct probability I'll still be a virgin when I turn 21. As of now, I don't have a boyfriend, and the only guy I'm actually considering dating is one who I haven't met yet (we have a mutual friend, and she thinks we'd be great together, so we'll see how that goes). To add to that, the boy I'm considering dating is apparently very similar to me in the whole "not-in-a-rush-to-have-sex" thing. Obviously, that could change, but it's looking like I'll still be a (happy) virgin by the time I'm 21.

mnguy · 8th Oct 2011, 10:15 AM

Yes, I was.

MoonDaisy · 8th Oct 2011, 03:20 PM

Yup, I am!

Yuya · 8th Oct 2011, 03:25 PM

i was a virgin till i was 27 lol. it's about giving your first time to the guy who really matters. i refused many a men just because my instincts told me no and i was so glad i waited.

Zontar · 8th Oct 2011, 03:39 PM

Being a late virgin is better than the alternative of blowing your first time with some HIV+ guy from craigslist.

J Snow · 8th Oct 2011, 03:58 PM

Lost it when I was 20... I was close though right?

Miske · 8th Oct 2011, 08:24 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Allegro molto

20+ years old....still a virgin...never even been kissed....

Same case here xD

Tipper · 8th Oct 2011, 11:39 PM

Yes I was, and still am at 23. Never had a boyfriend or even a kiss...unfortunately. I'm at the point where I want to be in a relationship though...I think.

Davo · 9th Oct 2011, 11:47 AM

I was a virgin until I was 23. I had no interest in losing my virginity unless it was with someone special, I waited until I met the love of my life.

9th Oct 2011, 11:58 AM

just turned 21 and still one. I MADE IT AS A VIRGIN TILL ADULTHOOD! WHEW! I sometimes feel pressured to lose it too tho...but iunno when the time comes it comes. Not in a hurry

In fact back in hs, i considered my V-card to be a badge of honor. I was proud that i resisted having sex even though my hormones were all over the place

wingandaprayer · 9th Oct 2011, 12:10 PM

I'm one and I'm 23. Never been kissed either.

Couldn't get interested in guys and wouldn't let myself admit that I liked girls...but eventually the right girl will come along, I think.

Demented · 9th Oct 2011, 12:16 PM

I don't consider myself a virgin cause I had given and received oral sex by the time I turned 21.

JudgeDredd · 9th Oct 2011, 12:23 PM

I'm 21, almost 22 and still a virgin. I've never been kissed either.. I'm just waiting for the right guy to come along. I feel no need to give myself to some random guy I have no feelings for. I'm gonna wait as long as it takes to find mr. right.

fiddlemiddle · 9th Oct 2011, 03:26 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Yuya

i was a virgin till i was 27 lol. it's about giving your first time to the guy who really matters. i refused many a men just because my instincts told me no and i was so glad i waited.

I am the same and waited till 27 with someone of the same sex. I was 21 when I had someone of the opposite sex for the first time. My profile says I am 24 but I am 37 and I trying to change it but I cant change the year I was born on profiile.

malachite · 9th Oct 2011, 03:42 PM

I was

canguy · 9th Oct 2011, 04:09 PM

I was 15 with a female, and I'm currently 24 and haven't been with a guy. Still searching for the right guy I guess, I don't really think about it....

7th Oct 2011, 09:07 PM	#1
fiddlemiddle Well Known Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Age: 25 Posts: 193 Join Date: Jan 2011	anyone here was still a virgin when they turned 21? Anyone here an virgin when they turned 21? But I had some peer pressure to loose my virginity then.

7th Oct 2011, 09:10 PM	#2
needshelp really likes you Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: out to some, not family and friends though Location: in a closet near you Age: 25 Posts: 691 Join Date: Sep 2011	Re: anyone here was still an virgin when they turned 21? 25 year old virgin here. yeah, i had peer pressure from my boys and other people to lose my virginity and whatever but i really don't care anyway. still didn't make me want to run and lose my v-card. i'm too comfortable with myself already and i don't feel comfortable enough to share myself with someone else i guess at the moment. as far as i'm concerned even though i'm kind of going off on the deep end, i really don't care if i die a virgin. oh well. wouldn't mind getting to experience some affection or whatever. Last edited by needshelp; 7th Oct 2011 at 09:14 PM..

7th Oct 2011, 09:14 PM	#3
Allegro molto Kyoufu wo oshiete yarou. Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Kinsey 6 (100% Gay) Out Status: Officially told 1 person! Posts: 2,334 Join Date: Apr 2011	Re: anyone here was still an virgin when they turned 21? 20+ years old....still a virgin...never even been kissed.... __________________ In the end, I always end up alone.

7th Oct 2011, 09:21 PM	#4
Shevanel One Is Light. One Is Dark. Full Member Gender: The Dude Orientation: Bi-Winning Out Status: Everybody and Your Mom. Location: Bolivar, Ohio (From NY though) Age: 21 Posts: 7,672 Join Date: Dec 2008	Re: anyone here was still an virgin when they turned 21? Almost, but it's not a big deal >_> Lost mine at 20. __________________ If there were no rewards to reap, No loving embrace to see me through this tedious path I've chosen here, I certainly would've walked away by now. Gonna wait it out... Be patient.

7th Oct 2011, 11:34 PM	#5
Raeil EC Addict Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Missouri Age: 20 Posts: 421 Join Date: May 2011	Re: anyone here was still an virgin when they turned 21? For the record, I'm 19, turning 20 in two months. However, there's a very distinct probability I'll still be a virgin when I turn 21. As of now, I don't have a boyfriend, and the only guy I'm actually considering dating is one who I haven't met yet (we have a mutual friend, and she thinks we'd be great together, so we'll see how that goes). To add to that, the boy I'm considering dating is apparently very similar to me in the whole "not-in-a-rush-to-have-sex" thing. Obviously, that could change, but it's looking like I'll still be a (happy) virgin by the time I'm 21. __________________ ~Say my name, as every color illuminates! We are shining, and we will never be afraid again!~

8th Oct 2011, 10:15 AM	#6
mnguy EC Regular Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: People likely assume Location: MN Age: 36 Posts: 895 Join Date: Nov 2006	Re: anyone here was still an virgin when they turned 21? Yes, I was.

8th Oct 2011, 03:20 PM	#7
MoonDaisy Member Regular Member Gender: Female Orientation: Asexuality?? Confused?? Out Status: One friend Location: Ireland Age: 21 Posts: 10 Join Date: Oct 2011	Re: anyone here was still an virgin when they turned 21? Yup, I am!

8th Oct 2011, 03:25 PM	#8
Yuya Scout Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Friends Location: Melbourne Age: 27 Posts: 588 Join Date: Sep 2011	Re: anyone here was still an virgin when they turned 21? i was a virgin till i was 27 lol. it's about giving your first time to the guy who really matters. i refused many a men just because my instincts told me no and i was so glad i waited.

8th Oct 2011, 03:39 PM	#9
Zontar Mister Funny Man Full Member Gender: Male Location: Binghampton, NY Posts: 1,539 Join Date: Oct 2010	Re: anyone here was still an virgin when they turned 21? Being a late virgin is better than the alternative of blowing your first time with some HIV+ guy from craigslist. __________________ Get up and open your eyes...Don't ever let yourself ever fall down... Get through it and learn how to fly...I know you'll find a way...today. -Days of the New, "Dirty Road"

8th Oct 2011, 03:58 PM	#10
J Snow EC Addict Regular Member Gender: Sex - Male, Gender -Female/bigender/not quite sure Orientation: Primarily interested in men. Out Status: fairly out about sexuality, gender not so much Location: Des Moines, Iowa Age: 22 Posts: 1,391 Join Date: Aug 2011	Re: anyone here was still an virgin when they turned 21? Lost it when I was 20... I was close though right?

8th Oct 2011, 11:39 PM	#12
Tipper The Thinker Regular Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: In Progress... Location: Maryland Age: 23 Posts: 5 Join Date: Sep 2011	Re: anyone here was still an virgin when they turned 21? Yes I was, and still am at 23. Never had a boyfriend or even a kiss...unfortunately. I'm at the point where I want to be in a relationship though...I think. __________________ As I began to love myself, I found that anguish and emotional suffering are only warning signs that I was living against my own truth. Today, I know, this is "AUTHENTICITY".

9th Oct 2011, 11:47 AM	#13
Davo Is mise Daibhidh Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Almost out to everyone Location: Scotland Age: 25 Posts: 434 Join Date: Sep 2007	Re: anyone here was still an virgin when they turned 21? I was a virgin until I was 23. I had no interest in losing my virginity unless it was with someone special, I waited until I met the love of my life.

9th Oct 2011, 11:58 AM	#14
Skiel Guest Posts: n/a	Re: anyone here was still an virgin when they turned 21? just turned 21 and still one. I MADE IT AS A VIRGIN TILL ADULTHOOD! WHEW! I sometimes feel pressured to lose it too tho...but iunno when the time comes it comes. Not in a hurry In fact back in hs, i considered my V-card to be a badge of honor. I was proud that i resisted having sex even though my hormones were all over the place

9th Oct 2011, 12:10 PM	#15
wingandaprayer Member Regular Member Gender: Female Orientation: Lesbian Out Status: A few people Posts: 29 Join Date: Oct 2011	Re: anyone here was still an virgin when they turned 21? I'm one and I'm 23. Never been kissed either. Couldn't get interested in guys and wouldn't let myself admit that I liked girls...but eventually the right girl will come along, I think.

9th Oct 2011, 12:16 PM	#16
Demented Newbie Regular Member Gender: Male Orientation: Questioning Posts: 4 Join Date: Oct 2011	Re: anyone here was still an virgin when they turned 21? I don't consider myself a virgin cause I had given and received oral sex by the time I turned 21.

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9th Oct 2011, 12:23 PM	#17
JudgeDredd I AM THE LAW! Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Most people. Extended family doesn't know yet. Location: Kansas Age: 22 Posts: 113 Join Date: Jul 2011	Re: anyone here was still an virgin when they turned 21? I'm 21, almost 22 and still a virgin. I've never been kissed either.. I'm just waiting for the right guy to come along. I feel no need to give myself to some random guy I have no feelings for. I'm gonna wait as long as it takes to find mr. right.

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malachite EC's realist Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Orlando Posts: 6,480 Join Date: Apr 2009	Re: anyone here was still an virgin when they turned 21? I was __________________ It's the 21st century, your bigotry is outdated. Either upgrade or go away.

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canguy Member Regular Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to 1 Friend Posts: 20 Join Date: Jun 2011	Re: anyone here was still an virgin when they turned 21? I was 15 with a female, and I'm currently 24 and haven't been with a guy. Still searching for the right guy I guess, I don't really think about it....