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anyone here was still a virgin when they turned 21?

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  1. fiddlemiddle

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    Anyone here an virgin when they turned 21? But I had some peer pressure to loose my virginity then.
     
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    Re: anyone here was still an virgin when they turned 21?

    25 year old virgin here. yeah, i had peer pressure from my boys and other people to lose my virginity and whatever but i really don't care anyway. still didn't make me want to run and lose my v-card. i'm too comfortable with myself already and i don't feel comfortable enough to share myself with someone else i guess at the moment. as far as i'm concerned even though i'm kind of going off on the deep end, i really don't care if i die a virgin. oh well. wouldn't mind getting to experience some affection or whatever.
     
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    Re: anyone here was still an virgin when they turned 21?

    20+ years old....still a virgin...never even been kissed....
     
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    Re: anyone here was still an virgin when they turned 21?

    Almost, but it's not a big deal >_> Lost mine at 20.
     
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    Re: anyone here was still an virgin when they turned 21?

    For the record, I'm 19, turning 20 in two months. However, there's a very distinct probability I'll still be a virgin when I turn 21. As of now, I don't have a boyfriend, and the only guy I'm actually considering dating is one who I haven't met yet (we have a mutual friend, and she thinks we'd be great together, so we'll see how that goes). To add to that, the boy I'm considering dating is apparently very similar to me in the whole "not-in-a-rush-to-have-sex" thing. Obviously, that could change, but it's looking like I'll still be a (happy) virgin by the time I'm 21.
     
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    Re: anyone here was still an virgin when they turned 21?

    Yes, I was.
     
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    Re: anyone here was still an virgin when they turned 21?

    Yup, I am!
     
    #7 MoonDaisy, Oct 8, 2011
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    Re: anyone here was still an virgin when they turned 21?

    i was a virgin till i was 27 lol. it's about giving your first time to the guy who really matters. i refused many a men just because my instincts told me no and i was so glad i waited.
     
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    Re: anyone here was still an virgin when they turned 21?

    Being a late virgin is better than the alternative of blowing your first time with some HIV+ guy from craigslist.
     
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    Re: anyone here was still an virgin when they turned 21?

    Lost it when I was 20... I was close though right?
     
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    Re: anyone here was still an virgin when they turned 21?

    Same case here xD
     
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    Re: anyone here was still an virgin when they turned 21?

    Yes I was, and still am at 23. Never had a boyfriend or even a kiss...unfortunately. I'm at the point where I want to be in a relationship though...I think.
     
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    Re: anyone here was still an virgin when they turned 21?

    I was a virgin until I was 23. I had no interest in losing my virginity unless it was with someone special, I waited until I met the love of my life.
     
    #13 Davo, Oct 9, 2011
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    Re: anyone here was still an virgin when they turned 21?

    just turned 21 and still one. I MADE IT AS A VIRGIN TILL ADULTHOOD! WHEW! I sometimes feel pressured to lose it too tho...but iunno when the time comes it comes. Not in a hurry :grin: In fact back in hs, i considered my V-card to be a badge of honor. I was proud that i resisted having sex even though my hormones were all over the place :lol:
     
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    Re: anyone here was still an virgin when they turned 21?

    I'm one and I'm 23. Never been kissed either.

    Couldn't get interested in guys and wouldn't let myself admit that I liked girls...but eventually the right girl will come along, I think.
     
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    I don't consider myself a virgin cause I had given and received oral sex by the time I turned 21.
     
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    Re: anyone here was still an virgin when they turned 21?

    I'm 21, almost 22 and still a virgin. I've never been kissed either.. I'm just waiting for the right guy to come along. I feel no need to give myself to some random guy I have no feelings for. I'm gonna wait as long as it takes to find mr. right. :grin:
     
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    Re: anyone here was still an virgin when they turned 21?

    I am the same and waited till 27 with someone of the same sex. I was 21 when I had someone of the opposite sex for the first time. My profile says I am 24 but I am 37 and I trying to change it but I cant change the year I was born on profiile.
     
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    Re: anyone here was still an virgin when they turned 21?

    I was
     
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    Re: anyone here was still an virgin when they turned 21?

    I was 15 with a female, and I'm currently 24 and haven't been with a guy. Still searching for the right guy I guess, I don't really think about it....
     
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