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robclem21 · 15th Oct 2011, 07:32 AM

I see hot guys almost every day wandering around the university campus. I never know how to react or what to do. haha. I almost always give them a stare and try to make eye contact. I always want to wink at them too but chicken out usually. Mostly cause I'm not out to everyone and worry about it getting around. Probably me being paranoid. Oh well, always next time. How do you act when you see a hottie walking around that you may/may not see again?

Fugs · 15th Oct 2011, 08:05 AM

I usually have that double take moment while still walking.

malachite · 15th Oct 2011, 08:14 AM

I usually make sure they're not looking then take in the whole picture

15th Oct 2011, 08:19 AM

Just stare. If he catches my eye me looking I just look away. Good thing I don't get caught often.

**Owen** · 15th Oct 2011, 08:46 AM

That's usually how it goes down; they're sitting there, blissfully (or possibly less than blissfully) oblivious to the possibility that someone could find them attractive, and there I am, shamelessly taking in the amazing sight before me.

Allegro molto · 15th Oct 2011, 09:00 AM

I look at them, think to myself: "Wow, he's hot," and go on about my business.

It's very rare that I'll stop and store, double take, or lose my composure.

DarkClarity · 15th Oct 2011, 10:41 AM

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Originally Posted by Allegro molto

I look at them, think to myself: "Wow, he's hot," and go on about my business.

It's very rare that I'll stop and store, double take, or lose my composure.

That's what I usually do.

Rooni321 · 15th Oct 2011, 10:43 AM

DOUBLE TAKE.

And if they see me, I smile (:

needshelp · 15th Oct 2011, 10:47 AM

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Originally Posted by Allegro molto

I look at them, think to myself: "Wow, he's hot," and go on about my business.

It's very rare that I'll stop and store, double take, or lose my composure.

this pretty much. somehow, i'm usually taken by surprise and somehow i'm still trying to take glances at him.

Zontar · 15th Oct 2011, 10:57 AM

Turn my head away because a person of my naturally low caliber has no business being attracted to them.

Bi As A Kite · 15th Oct 2011, 11:53 AM

I grab a look. If they turn to look back, I suddenly tilt my head and look past them, as if I'm looking at something in the distance and they're in the way. Works every time!

It helps me because I actually feel guilty about looking at hawt guys, I feel like I'm perving at them. Which I am, I guess.

**Lexington** · 15th Oct 2011, 12:39 PM

I take it in, transfer the image to long-term memory for future use, smile a bit, and go about my business.

Lex

NoPlanB · 15th Oct 2011, 12:40 PM

Act like they don't exist? I don't really know why. It might be because I'm still in the closet, or because I'm too scared they'll notice. It's strange, really.

HantsBen · 15th Oct 2011, 02:25 PM

I've got this habit of staring when they are not looking which is quite irritating. People at college seem to make comments when I am caught staring at girls walking past... they must have noticed it with the lads by now

15th Oct 2011, 03:49 PM

I never make eye contact. I look straight pretending that i don't see them and I just keep on walking...awkwardly!

ShebbsIsAwesome · 15th Oct 2011, 03:52 PM

I shamelessly undress them with my eyes, taking in every detail of them, eyes, hair, face, body. Everything.

Z3ni · 15th Oct 2011, 04:16 PM

I walk pass them giving the "rapist" stare, and get my arse wooped.. coz thats how I roll!!!!

Or just look at them like any "normal" person would do.

**Rosina** · 15th Oct 2011, 04:53 PM

Externally:

Internally:

**Maddy** · 15th Oct 2011, 05:00 PM

Look, look away awkwardly, look back awkwardly, maybe smile if there's eye contact. A month or so ago I was walking around campus and noticed a really attractive red-haired girl (maybe I have a thing for redheads...) and I did the awkward smile, and instead of ignoring me she asked my name. Cue me going into "how do I words?!" mode and taking a second to remember what my name was.

Chouchou · 15th Oct 2011, 10:41 PM

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Originally Posted by Maddy

Look, look away awkwardly, look back awkwardly, maybe smile if there's eye contact.

That's how I am, pretty much. Then I remind myself that they probably couldn't care less about me, and carry on. I don't know how I would react if one of them actually talked to me...turn red, say all the wrong things, and walk away in a daze, perhaps.

15th Oct 2011, 07:32 AM	#1
robclem21 Here to chat and make friends Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Sisters and anyone else who wants to know Location: Toronto, Ontario Age: 21 Posts: 88 Join Date: Oct 2011	How do you react when you see a hottie? I see hot guys almost every day wandering around the university campus. I never know how to react or what to do. haha. I almost always give them a stare and try to make eye contact. I always want to wink at them too but chicken out usually. Mostly cause I'm not out to everyone and worry about it getting around. Probably me being paranoid. Oh well, always next time. How do you act when you see a hottie walking around that you may/may not see again? __________________ "You know you're in love when you can't fall asleep because reality is finally better than your dreams." - Dr. Seuss

15th Oct 2011, 08:05 AM	#2
Fugs EC's Local Furry Full Member Gender: Female, trans M-F (Wishes she was a kitty) Orientation: Straight Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Bowling Green, OH Age: 18 Posts: 408 Join Date: Sep 2011	Re: How do you react when you see a hottie? I usually have that double take moment while still walking. __________________ We love youes! Please accept a hug from us so that we can give <( ^ω^)> (≧∇≦)/ (^O^)／ (^。^) (づ｡◕‿‿◕｡)づ ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ ಠ_ರೃ your face the smile that everyone around you wants to see!

15th Oct 2011, 08:14 AM	#3
malachite EC's realist Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Orlando Posts: 6,480 Join Date: Apr 2009	Re: How do you react when you see a hottie? I usually make sure they're not looking then take in the whole picture __________________ It's the 21st century, your bigotry is outdated. Either upgrade or go away.

15th Oct 2011, 08:19 AM	#4
Fusileer Guest Posts: n/a	Re: How do you react when you see a hottie? Just stare. If he catches my eye me looking I just look away. Good thing I don't get caught often.

15th Oct 2011, 08:46 AM	#5
Owen Cleverly disguised as a responsible adult EC Admin Gender: Agendered dude Orientation: Panromantic androsexual Out Status: Everyone and their mother Location: Massachusetts, USA Age: 21 Posts: 2,873 Join Date: Jul 2007	Re: How do you react when you see a hottie? That's usually how it goes down; they're sitting there, blissfully (or possibly less than blissfully) oblivious to the possibility that someone could find them attractive, and there I am, shamelessly taking in the amazing sight before me. __________________ "Stand firm for what you believe in, until and unless logic and experience prove you wrong. Remember, when the emperor looks naked, the emperor is naked. The truth and a lie are not sort of the same thing. And there is no aspect, no facet, no moment of life that can't be improved with pizza." -Daria Morgendorffer

15th Oct 2011, 09:00 AM	#6
Allegro molto Kyoufu wo oshiete yarou. Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Kinsey 6 (100% Gay) Out Status: Officially told 1 person! Posts: 2,334 Join Date: Apr 2011	Re: How do you react when you see a hottie? I look at them, think to myself: "Wow, he's hot," and go on about my business. It's very rare that I'll stop and store, double take, or lose my composure. __________________ In the end, I always end up alone.

15th Oct 2011, 10:43 AM	#8
Rooni321 EC's Hopeless Romantic Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: gay, str8, bi Out Status: Out to everyone Location: San Francisco, California <3 Age: 17 Posts: 1,321 Join Date: Oct 2011	Re: How do you react when you see a hottie? DOUBLE TAKE. And if they see me, I smile (: __________________ "The world breaks everyone and afterward many are strong in the broken places. But those that will not break it kills. It kills the very good and the very gentle and the very brave impartially." Ernest Hemingway

15th Oct 2011, 10:57 AM	#10
Zontar Mister Funny Man Full Member Gender: Male Location: Binghampton, NY Posts: 1,539 Join Date: Oct 2010	Re: How do you react when you see a hottie? Turn my head away because a person of my naturally low caliber has no business being attracted to them. __________________ Get up and open your eyes...Don't ever let yourself ever fall down... Get through it and learn how to fly...I know you'll find a way...today. -Days of the New, "Dirty Road"

15th Oct 2011, 11:53 AM	#11
Bi As A Kite EC Addict Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: The pendulum swings wildly Out Status: 1 friend + mom Age: 20 Posts: 299 Join Date: Jul 2011	Re: How do you react when you see a hottie? I grab a look. If they turn to look back, I suddenly tilt my head and look past them, as if I'm looking at something in the distance and they're in the way. Works every time! It helps me because I actually feel guilty about looking at hawt guys, I feel like I'm perving at them. Which I am, I guess. __________________ "You wanna get what you want, you gotta come out fighting...."

15th Oct 2011, 12:39 PM	#12
Lexington The gay gargoyle EC Advisor Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Colorado Age: 42 Posts: 12,372 Join Date: Dec 2007	Re: How do you react when you see a hottie? I take it in, transfer the image to long-term memory for future use, smile a bit, and go about my business. Lex

15th Oct 2011, 12:40 PM	#13
NoPlanB This is a warning, a courtesy call Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Homoromantic asexual Out Status: Still in the closet Location: Michigan Age: 20 Posts: 289 Join Date: Dec 2010	Re: How do you react when you see a hottie? Act like they don't exist? I don't really know why. It might be because I'm still in the closet, or because I'm too scared they'll notice. It's strange, really. __________________ We all want to be somebody We just need a taste of who we are We all want to be somebody We're willing to go, but not that far

15th Oct 2011, 02:25 PM	#14
HantsBen Well Known Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Bisexual Out Status: A few close friends Location: Hampshire (UK) Age: 18 Posts: 113 Join Date: Apr 2011	Re: How do you react when you see a hottie? I've got this habit of staring when they are not looking which is quite irritating. People at college seem to make comments when I am caught staring at girls walking past... they must have noticed it with the lads by now

15th Oct 2011, 03:49 PM	#15
Skiel Guest Posts: n/a	Re: How do you react when you see a hottie? I never make eye contact. I look straight pretending that i don't see them and I just keep on walking...awkwardly!

15th Oct 2011, 03:52 PM	#16
ShebbsIsAwesome EC Addict Full Member Gender: Florida Orientation: Out to anybody who cares to ask, Facebook, Family Out Status: Kinsey 6 Location: Male Age: 17 Posts: 273 Join Date: Feb 2011	Re: How do you react when you see a hottie? I shamelessly undress them with my eyes, taking in every detail of them, eyes, hair, face, body. Everything.

15th Oct 2011, 04:16 PM	#17
Z3ni Ec's ADD Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gayish Out Status: My Twin Location: England, Manchester Posts: 3,083 Join Date: Oct 2008	Re: How do you react when you see a hottie? I walk pass them giving the "rapist" stare, and get my arse wooped.. coz thats how I roll!!!! Or just look at them like any "normal" person would do. __________________ Through pain, lies success.

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Maddy Free Hugs EC Admin Gender: - Orientation: Into girls Location: Melbourne, Australia Age: 21 Posts: 7,704 Join Date: Mar 2008	Re: How do you react when you see a hottie? Look, look away awkwardly, look back awkwardly, maybe smile if there's eye contact. A month or so ago I was walking around campus and noticed a really attractive red-haired girl (maybe I have a thing for redheads...) and I did the awkward smile, and instead of ignoring me she asked my name. Cue me going into "how do I words?!" mode and taking a second to remember what my name was. __________________ how strange it is to be anything at all [Victor] 2:09 pm: and then halloween happened and I was outside in a skirt.