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17th Oct 2011, 09:58 PM
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| Straight But Curious ;D Regular Member  Gender: Female Orientation: Straight but curious Out Status: Only my BFF and Boyfriend... Location: Over the Rainbow, through the forest... Age: 13 Posts: 1 Join Date: Oct 2011 |  Come Out or Back to the Closet? I came out about being Bi-Curious to my boyfriend today (and he didn't care!), and when me and my guy friend saw the 2 gays in our class kiss on the cheek, he said "That's not right...". When I asked why, he shrugged. I just asked "What if someone you knew, someone very close to you, was gay, lesbian, or even curious?". His reply? "I wouldn't like them as much if they were..."!  I was so mad about that! What should I do? Come out to him or just hold a grudge?  Last night, I ate a pie. .3. Randomness...  ~Nessa (BiCanadianEh) (P.S; I've also known him since 2nd grade... I can trust him with almost anything...) |
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17th Oct 2011, 11:03 PM
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| EC Addict Regular Member   Gender: Sex - Male, Gender -Female/bigender/not quite sure Orientation: Primarily interested in men. Out Status: fairly out about sexuality, gender not so much Location: Des Moines, Iowa Age: 22 Posts: 1,391 Join Date: Aug 2011 | Re: Come Out or Back to the Closet? Well, first of all straight guys tend not to be as judgmental towards lesbian as gay men. Mostly because they think girls kissing is sexy and boys kissing is gross. Plus when it is someone the person knows they have a lot of potential to view it differently then if its just a hypothetical. Really its up to you though. |
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17th Oct 2011, 11:19 PM
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| I've got the moves like Jagger Full Member   Gender: ♀ Orientation: Sapphicly inclined Out Status: My closet is for clothes! Location: BC, Canada Age: 23 Posts: 3,111 Join Date: Apr 2009 | Re: Come Out or Back to the Closet? Quote:
For the most part: Straight Guys seeing women kiss=hot Straight Guys seeing two guys kiss=not hot Straight Women seeing two guys kiss =mixed reactions Straight Women seeing two girls kiss= usually disgust, not always if they're open minded From a biological perspective, straight men see two women as hot because they "might" have double the chance of getting laid. Plus to them, women are sexy and seeing two of them make out with one another or take their clothes off? Hot.
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17th Oct 2011, 11:52 PM
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| EC Addict Full Member   Gender: M for MEEP! Orientation: Mutant and Proud Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Windsor, Ontario Age: 24 Posts: 6,564 Join Date: Jun 2005 | Re: Come Out or Back to the Closet? Quote:
__________________ "Is there some reason my coffee isn't here? Has she died or something?" - Miranda Priestly. Strength is not defined by physical capacity, but by indomitable will. ~ Mahatma Gandhi Procrastination is like masturbation, in the end you just wind up screwing yourself. | |
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18th Oct 2011, 02:54 AM
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| EC Addict Full Member   Gender: Male Orientation: Bisexual Out Status: All but family Location: Brisbane, Australia Age: 16 Posts: 1,244 Join Date: Jul 2011 | Re: Come Out or Back to the Closet? Generally, unless you live in a conservative area, teenage men are fine with the concept of homosexuality. It is the fact that one dick is meeting another dick which usually sends them into a frenzy of 'Ewwww its disgusting, sick' and similar things. The reason they LOVE seeing women kissing is: 1. Two for one deal. 2. No penises. The less penises, the less "gay" the situation is = great! 3. General social stereotypes. It's OK to be a bi female, but if you're a bi male, it's about as 'bad' as being gay. Personal opinion, I think you have bigger issues than guys reacting negatively. One of those is guys trying to get you to join in an MFF threesome.
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