How do i meet other gay guys

[Thesasmaster]

Im bi, but at this point im only interested in guys (for dating) and i was wondering how or where i could meet other guys

[rocking23]

If you're 15, sorry, but there's not much you can do
Besides the typical GSA at your school (if you have one) or maybe a youth group in you area.

[Thesasmaster]

I go to a religious school so i dont have one... i can wait i guess

[Rinamir Mortem]

One would say Gay Bars are a good option but I think you would have to wait some time before that becomes an option

Other than that you would just have to look around. As with all things patience plays a great part in the game of life and love and so have a good explore. Perhaps ask any friends if they know any guys looking for guys.

Of course, you may have a weekly LGBT meeting like I do at Uni so it may be worth looking/asking around to see if such things exist where you are.

Ultimately, it is a case of seeking and waiting. Besides, the right guy may end up approaching you in the end.

Happy hunting!

[Owen]

Wherever there are people, there will probably be gay people. Just go places where there are people you get along with (other clubs aside from a GSA, hang-out spots, wherever you can go to meet people), play the waiting game long enough, and you'll meet a gay guy. You might be waiting a while, but if you go somewhere where you already have something in common, your chances will be that much better.

[pronua]

Tell me about it, I don't know a single gay person in real life, and to join my school's GSA - the best way to meet other gay students - I would need to come out of the closet.

[Ianthe]

Yeah, one of the most important things you can do is to make sure people know that you are primarily interested in meeting guys. If you are really open about your sexuality, it makes it much more likely that you and potential partners will find each other.

Unfortunately, most gay people are still closeted to some degree at 15, so that makes it harder. (Many people are not even out to themselves at your age, which makes dating them pretty near impossible.)

This, too, shall pass.

[NoName114]

my school doesn't have a GSA, although we have a gay rights day like second to last day of school.... and most people are in locked in the closet. Only a few know I'm gay. despite the fact that I have been describe by everyone who meets me as flamboyant (my teacher actually called my mom about my grades and my mom ask how I was in her class XD and said that XD) they think I'm a metro sexual with bad dating luck -.- people are clueless. and I hate stereotypes but I do fit some... -.-

[LegitRomance]

Haha. My friend had the same people.
But he used sites like MyYearbook to meet other guys in our town then they'd meet up and it worked for him.
The only thing I'd have to warn you about is the fact that like 45% of the users on that site are straight up posers. :/

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*problem.
I can't type xD

[Sethrowe]

I'm 15 and way in the closet. I'm always on the lookout for other gay guys in my school. Not working as of right now lol. I guess I have to try harder >.>

[LegitRomance]

Originally Posted by Sethrowe

I'm 15 and way in the closet. I'm always on the lookout for other gay guys in my school. Not working as of right now lol. I guess I have to try harder >.>

Well try coming out to a few trusted people. That'll help you in the long run. But I wouldn't come out fully quite yet.. >.>

[Sethrowe]

I came out a few weeks ago to one girl I knew i could trust... My problem is i play sports for the high school soooooooooooo it would be bad for anyone to know lol. I'm not even remotly afraid of the potential physical abuse since I happen to play football and have a facination with martial arts but I'm rather scared to see my teams reaction

[LegitRomance]

Originally Posted by Sethrowe

I came out a few weeks ago to one girl I knew i could trust... My problem is i play sports for the high school soooooooooooo it would be bad for anyone to know lol. I'm not even remotly afraid of the potential physical abuse since I happen to play football and have a facination with martial arts but I'm rather scared to see my teams reaction

The longer you put it off the harder time your going to have since you'll be so used to lying and denying it when people start to figure it out.
And honestly, if they're worth your time, they'll still respect you. If not, they can rot in hell.

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Originally Posted by Bran1977

u r brave! I hope most ppl were cool 2 U
I am new to this site....takin it r-e-a-l-ly slow u know

---------- Post added 22nd Oct 2011 at 07:14 PM ----------

how do u decide who to come out 2?...some of friends know but don't tell anyone...I think

You usually pick trusted people in your life. It all depends on the person so I honestly can't answer you completely.

[LegitRomance]

Um, your welcome? o-o

[NoName114]

anyway I don't really trust anyone on the internet for real life- relationships or dating, as 60% something are fakes

[LegitRomance]

Originally Posted by NoName114

anyway I don't really trust anyone on the internet for real life- relationships or dating, as 60% something are fakes

Honestly, I'd rather die then date online. That's the stupidest thing anyone could do. Well besides being under 18 and sending nudes. That's just disgusting and people need to grow up.

---------- Post added 22nd Oct 2011 at 09:49 PM ----------

Originally Posted by Bran1977

i think so 2...but i still learn kool stuff...i have some ways of meeting new ppl...maybe it will work 4 u 2...

I wouldn't use online...idk about you, but in my town we actually have a dance club open for people under the age of 18...that's where my idiot friends go.
(Yes, I can call them idiots, we all refer to each other as idiots cuz we're that close, haha)

[LegitRomance]

Originally Posted by Bran1977

I never tried dating on line or even dating anywhere. I don't think anyone can date on line. I think a date means u have to hanging with someone...but I know who I meet ppl to hang with and it sure is not on line.

First of all before I freak out, it's online. And second, you can use online networks to meet people in your town, then you can like meet up somewhere (but bring a friend or two with you) and then you can go from there.
That's what a few of my friends have done. To 'date' you don't actually have to be in the same room. You can do it over webcam and such, but to GO on a date (two different things to go on a date means your testing the person to see if you'd match. Dating means your in a relationship.) means to actually go someone for a "hang out" as your calling it.

[LegitRomance]

Originally Posted by Bran1977

OK...I guess I think dating is something that happens AFTER you meet someone and see if u both like each other. I could never date someone I did not know for some time. Maybe that means I am too scared or maybe I cannot trust ppl until I know them for awhile....like weeks or months. I guess I am into "hangin" more than dating. ...and yes we have lots of fun.

And where did me questioning the fun factor start? No where. I honestly don't give a damn. And from the sounds of things your blinding yourself with conformity on thinking you need to date when all you want is friends who are either gay/bi that's normal. Wow ._.

[LegitRomance]

Originally Posted by Bran1977

conformity??? not sure....I have fun and go where I want to...and do what I like...with ppl who like the same things...we have fun.

Wow. I never asked you about what you do, let's make this clear: I actually do not give a fuck about what you do on your free time mkay? Every teenage goes out with friends so stop acting like I've never done it. As far as I'm concerned, you need to be taking a class on common sense ._.

[Sethrowe]

Bran, you made 50 posts in one day, not one of them are remotly useful... 35 of them include "kool"... I just read a post where a guy spilled his guts out and you just said "so kool" wtf is that?