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lesbians and gays etc.

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by firemaker13, Oct 21, 2011.

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  1. firemaker13

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    What does it mean to you, to be gay.
     
    #1 firemaker13, Oct 21, 2011
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    To me it means I don't have to hide who I am anymore.
     
    #2 Fugs, Oct 21, 2011
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    It means that I like men.
     
    #3 Bolin, Oct 21, 2011
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    To me, being bisexual means I don't care what parts you have downstairs, if you're hot, sexy or I just generally find you attractive, I'll do you. :lol:
     
    #4 Mad Man L, Oct 21, 2011
  5. Haberdasher

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    Means different things at different times. Most of the time it just means I am attracted primarily to men.
     
    #5 Haberdasher, Oct 21, 2011
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    to me, being gay means that if i'm in a room, walking in the mall, am in the classroom, at the gym, or whereever else, i'm going to find myself getting attracted to other guys instinctively. if a guy really catches my attention, i'll start to have feelings to the point where i'll start to have feelings for him and etc. eventually, it'll become a crush and you get the point. i don't do the same thing with women. it's pretty much forced. another thing, i also learned is that i tend to find guys more attractive than women.
     
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  7. Porphyrogenitus

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    This, and not a whole lot more.
     
    #7 Porphyrogenitus, Oct 22, 2011
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    I'm more attracted to girls than I am to guys :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
    #8 Compass, Oct 22, 2011
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    I am gay and to me it means you like men and your true to yourself
     
    #9 NoName114, Oct 22, 2011
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    Nothing just I prefer the same gender that all.
     
    #10 British Lad, Oct 22, 2011
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    u sure get to start knowing ppl by their postings....
     
    #11 Bran1977, Oct 22, 2011
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    that's true
     
    #12 NoName114, Oct 22, 2011
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    I like it this way...u don't feel so alone...kool to know u r not alone...maybe that is part of the "it will get better" stuff they are saying...

    ---------- Post added 22nd Oct 2011 at 09:16 PM ----------

    I like a girl (not like like just liked) and parents did not know what to think...I guess ppl can just like other ppl and no one really knows what kind of liking is goin on inside. I was courious...but that went away real fast.
     
    #13 Bran1977, Oct 22, 2011
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    Ditto. Except for the men part. I for one like women.
     
    #14 Rooni321, Oct 23, 2011
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    To love what is unique, that is what I think it is.
     
    #15 Sammy322, Oct 24, 2011
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    you like the same gender. there is no other requirement.
     
    #16 query, Oct 24, 2011
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    I love women. How they smile, laugh, and the soulful connection between two women. It just clicks for me on all levels somehow. It didn't with men.

    Sure it might mean I'm ostracized or treated differently, but I wouldn't have it any other way. Women are beautiful. I don't have to worry about pregnancy. I don't have to have the immediate expectation that I will be having kids (I assume most hetero people do). I can be myself, and look at myself in the mirror knowing I am being authentic to who I am. :slight_smile:
     
    #17 RaeofLite, Oct 24, 2011
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    It means I'm attracted to women, and I don't care about that. and if you insult me for it, I will f***ing take you out (I'm a black belt in two martial arts ;D).
     
    #18 Darquesse, Nov 2, 2011
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    it means that i am attracted to guys and it is also who i am.
     
    #19 chrism29, Nov 7, 2011
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    Being gay means doing - not what, but who - you want. :grin:
     
    #20 Drowzee64, Nov 7, 2011
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