So, as some of you may have seen, I recently got engaged to the love of my life, and I'm working with her to plan our wedding. We really want to get a wedding planner book that has all the checklists and planning sheets and such to help us figure out where to go with the planning, but we can't find one that isn't completely gender specific and constantly talking about the cost of the grooms things...does anyone have any suggestions for one that worked for you or one you have seen that might work for us? We checked out a couple of books on gay weddings from the library, but none of them really have the planning lists like we were hoping for. It doesn't have to be completely gender neutral or gay wedding specific, but we would like to at least feel like it's something that could be mostly applied to us.
