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28th Oct 2011, 10:34 PM

I worked at a gay strip club, and it insane. The poor strippers literally were raped. I happened to develop a small sexual attraction towards one of the strippers. Later i found out that one of my fellow co-workers was his brother! To my surprise the brother told me that the stripper was straight. How many of you would have bought that?

Rooni321 · 29th Oct 2011, 01:07 AM

How ironic!

fiddledeedee · 29th Oct 2011, 01:18 AM

Out of interest, do you literally mean "literally raped" or not?

29th Oct 2011, 01:29 AM

Roon: Very! i didnt mention i was interested though. Also, there was talk that some of the other strippers were straight too. I don't quite comprehend though.

fiddle: basically. you can place your hands on whichever part of their body you like, grab them, and take them to a little dark room and stuff.

needshelp · 29th Oct 2011, 11:55 AM

what was your job at the strip club? were you a waiter? a stripper?

i used to be a fan of strip clubs but now i think stripping is incredibly sleezy and lame. you really have to not care and be confident with your body and who you are or have to be down on your luck or desperate to do that. i know i couldn't bring myself to do it and nowadays, i wouldn't even be caught dead at a strip club. i've only been to straight strip clubs where women were the dancers and i found myself forcing to be entertained knowing that i was probably gay.

seeksanctuary · 29th Oct 2011, 03:47 PM

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Originally Posted by needshelp

but now i think stripping is incredibly sleezy and lame. you really have to not care and be confident with your body and who you are or have to be down on your luck or desperate to do that.

Eh, I don't think there's anything sleazy or lame about being confident with your body and who you are, and even the most confident and self-assured person can be down on their luck. There tends to be damn good money in stripping! It's a job, and some job is better than no job.

If I had a good body and wasn't so insecure, I'd consider stripping or dancing at a gay bar. Why? Because I've gone months eating nothing but ramen and coming close to not having a roof over my head. I don't know about anyone else, but sacrificing a bit of "morality" for a little financial security is preferable in my opinion.

starfish · 29th Oct 2011, 03:54 PM

I don't see any thing sleazy about it. Everyone has to work.

Revan · 29th Oct 2011, 05:18 PM

I do have to mention, in regards to the whole stripper being straight in a gay strip club. The same thing can be said about porn even. A lot of straight guys who start in porn start in the gay for pay scene because they can't start out right away in straight porn. So that's probably WHY he's a straight guy working as a stripper in a gay strip club.

needshelp · 29th Oct 2011, 05:25 PM

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Originally Posted by Revan

I do have to mention, in regards to the whole stripper being straight in a gay strip club. The same thing can be said about porn even. A lot of straight guys who start in porn start in the gay for pay scene because they can't start out right away in straight porn.

to be honest with you, some years ago, i never believed that a straight guy could do gay porn and still be considered straight. now i see things differently especially seeing how there are guys that are gay that have sex with women, go out with them, etc but aren't attracted to them at all. they're in the same boat as the straight guy that does gay porn. just because two people have sex with each other means that they like or are attracted to each other.

Rooni321 · 29th Oct 2011, 07:52 PM

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Originally Posted by Chrisyan

Roon: Very! i didnt mention i was interested though. Also, there was talk that some of the other strippers were straight too. I don't quite comprehend though.

Me either. Even though I could see a lesbian being a stripper for male clubs..and a gay guy for women clubs. Hm are they at least bi? Lol

---------- Post added 29th Oct 2011 at 08:01 PM ----------

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Originally Posted by needshelp

there are guys that are gay that have sex with women, go out with them, etc but aren't attracted to them at all. they're in the same boat as the straight guy that does gay porn. just because two people have sex with each other means that they like or are attracted to each other.

Yeah I see that often too.
Sometimes its just easier to get sex from the opposite gender.

28th Oct 2011, 10:34 PM	#1
Chrisyan Guest Posts: n/a	Straight, Gay-Strippers I worked at a gay strip club, and it insane. The poor strippers literally were raped. I happened to develop a small sexual attraction towards one of the strippers. Later i found out that one of my fellow co-workers was his brother! To my surprise the brother told me that the stripper was straight. How many of you would have bought that?

29th Oct 2011, 01:07 AM	#2
Rooni321 EC's Hopeless Romantic Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: gay, str8, bi Out Status: Out to everyone Location: San Francisco, California <3 Age: 17 Posts: 1,321 Join Date: Oct 2011	Re: Straight, Gay-Strippers How ironic! __________________ "The world breaks everyone and afterward many are strong in the broken places. But those that will not break it kills. It kills the very good and the very gentle and the very brave impartially." Ernest Hemingway

29th Oct 2011, 01:18 AM	#3
fiddledeedee 22/12-31/12+X! Full Member Gender: Complicated female Orientation: Bisexual Out Status: Most, sans Dad Location: England Age: 15 Posts: 1,128 Join Date: May 2011	Re: Straight, Gay-Strippers Out of interest, do you literally mean "literally raped" or not? __________________ A problem should be measured not by the cause of the problem but by the consequences it has on a person. ~ Anfauglith

29th Oct 2011, 01:29 AM	#4
Chrisyan Guest Posts: n/a	Re: Straight, Gay-Strippers Roon: Very! i didnt mention i was interested though. Also, there was talk that some of the other strippers were straight too. I don't quite comprehend though. fiddle: basically. you can place your hands on whichever part of their body you like, grab them, and take them to a little dark room and stuff.

29th Oct 2011, 11:55 AM	#5
needshelp really likes you Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: out to some, not family and friends though Location: in a closet near you Age: 25 Posts: 691 Join Date: Sep 2011	Re: Straight, Gay-Strippers what was your job at the strip club? were you a waiter? a stripper? i used to be a fan of strip clubs but now i think stripping is incredibly sleezy and lame. you really have to not care and be confident with your body and who you are or have to be down on your luck or desperate to do that. i know i couldn't bring myself to do it and nowadays, i wouldn't even be caught dead at a strip club. i've only been to straight strip clubs where women were the dancers and i found myself forcing to be entertained knowing that i was probably gay.

29th Oct 2011, 03:54 PM	#7
starfish This space for lease. Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: I like guys Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Hippie Town, Alberta of the US Age: 31 Posts: 2,109 Join Date: Nov 2008	Re: Straight, Gay-Strippers I don't see any thing sleazy about it. Everyone has to work. __________________ All the problems of the world could be settled easily if men were only willing to think. The trouble is that men very often resort to all sorts of devices in order not to think, because thinking is such hard work. --Thomas J. Watson

29th Oct 2011, 05:18 PM	#8
Revan EC Addict Full Member Gender: M for MEEP! Orientation: Mutant and Proud Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Windsor, Ontario Age: 24 Posts: 6,564 Join Date: Jun 2005	Re: Straight, Gay-Strippers I do have to mention, in regards to the whole stripper being straight in a gay strip club. The same thing can be said about porn even. A lot of straight guys who start in porn start in the gay for pay scene because they can't start out right away in straight porn. So that's probably WHY he's a straight guy working as a stripper in a gay strip club. __________________ "Is there some reason my coffee isn't here? Has she died or something?" - Miranda Priestly. Strength is not defined by physical capacity, but by indomitable will. ~ Mahatma Gandhi Procrastination is like masturbation, in the end you just wind up screwing yourself. Last edited by Revan; 29th Oct 2011 at 05:22 PM..

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