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Delayed Date Syndrome

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Midget, Dec 10, 2007.

  1. Midget

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    I had a funny experience this morning.

    It actually started last night. My friend DD and I are working on a project together for one of our classes. She's gay and were really close, but there's nothing going on. (She actually doesn't quite realize I'm gay yet...) Last night, she called me to inform me of her progress on her part of the project. When she talks to me, she calls me "gorgeous" and "sexy" all the time and the majority of people who don't know us too well really think we're dating.

    This morning, she told me her mom had been outside the door and heard her calling me "gorgeous" and everything... so her mom confronted her about it. In short, it went like this:

    Her Mom: Who were you talking to?
    DD: My friend, Chris.
    Mom: And is Chris a boy or girl?
    DD: Girl.
    Mom: Oh. And who is she?
    DD: My partner for a class.
    Mom: Your "partner"?
    DD: For a class.
    Mom: Is there something we should know about Chris?
    DD: Just that she's my partner for a class.
    Mom: Is Chris gay?
    DD: We-ell... Define 'gay'.
    Mom: It's a yes or no question.
    DD: For a given definition of gay....

    So her mom has banned DD and I from speaking. (Pfft, not that it'll happen.) And now her entire family is convinced we're dating and her dad wants to meet the "girlfriend."

    Have to love misunderstandings! :lol:
     
  2. Kovax14

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    im confused about the title of this thread, but anyway, are you interested in pursuing a relationship with DD at all once you have come out to her officially?
     
  3. Ty

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    Wow, interesting read but not sure about the title ^_^
     
  4. Midget

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    I was joking around about apparently not realizing I'm dating her. =) No, not really interested in any relationship right now, though I think she's really a sweet girl.
     
  5. CrimsonThunder

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    She banned her from talking to you.... See, some parents are stupid.
     
  6. Kovax14

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    what i find interesting is that her mom forbids her to talk to you, but her dad wants to meet you....
     
  7. Jamie

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    I get it... you're dating... before you have actually dated. I sort of get the title.

    Man that could be interesting for you... especially since parent's don't realise that banning teenagers from talking to other teenagers is actually gonna make you want to more.