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firemaker · 10th Nov 2011, 01:07 PM

Have u ever met anyone and thought they were gay. Please tell me why you thought they were gay. I am trying to get 1,000 posts.
Thanx

I will go first, yes I met straight people and thought they were gay. A male friend said he like to sew.

Doctor Faustus · 10th Nov 2011, 01:09 PM

I had a straight friend who I thought was gay... he was willing to accept a massage from me

. Maybe he's really closeted. xD

Jonathan · 10th Nov 2011, 01:24 PM

Yea, they're have been plenty of people that I thought were gay. It's really only because of stereotypical actions though...

malachite · 10th Nov 2011, 01:35 PM

I had one he was kinda flamboyant and liked touching people (hugs and such) turns out he was straight and had 2 kids

Junkist · 10th Nov 2011, 02:53 PM

Well I have a male friend who has feminine voice,anime hairstyle,use vaseline on his leg,frequent BodyShop customer,crazy about Justin Bieber and he had a girlfriend...Broke up few weeks after and now there is rumour he is getting another one.Weird huh?Could be closeted -shrug-

Rinamir Mortem · 10th Nov 2011, 04:42 PM

I know one who is overly feminine but has a girlfriend. Either he is firmly closeted or he is very secure in his sexuality.

As for others, the jury is still out.

Rooni321 · 10th Nov 2011, 04:55 PM

I met this girl who was a vegetarian with short hair and a pet who hated guys.
It seemed oh so very obvious. But turns out she's str8

firemaker · 10th Nov 2011, 08:59 PM

Guys that manscaping. That just gross for guys.

11 11 11 · 10th Nov 2011, 09:03 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Junkist

.....Well I have a male friend who has feminine voice,anime hairstyle,use vaseline on his leg,frequent BodyShop customer....

What exactly does Vaseline do to your legs?

I mean aside from making them shiny......and covered in petroleum jelly....and more flammable o.o

needshelp · 10th Nov 2011, 09:08 PM

well, now that i'll never see him again. there was this one guy at this thing that i was going to. i thought he was really cute the first time i saw him. there was something about him though that said to me that he was gay. i kind of observed him i guess where i overheard him talking to his friend. he had a very feminine voice and maybe it's just my ears but i could have swore he said something about being gay or not finding any guys to a friend of his. not 100 percent sure though. he went to the bathroom the same time as me and was kind of looking over the stall since he was taller than me and my cell phone went off. he was laughing me and all. something about him said he was gay. then yesterday, he's sitting some seats ahead of me, his face is beet red and he's keeps turning his head looking over at me and this other guy that i was conversating with since we were busy waiting for something. my guess is that he was indeed gay.

crazyhead · 10th Nov 2011, 10:00 PM

I guy in theater class with a really high voice turned out to be straight. And I'm sure he is because he's in theater, so if he were gay, he'd be out.
There is also someone at work I can tell is gay. He has a high voice, but that's not why I think he's gay. I can tell by how often he smiles. Straight guys don't smile all the time for no reason. There are also a few random guys who I like to think are gay just because I find them attractive.
There was also this time my boyfriend and I were out to lunch someplace when he indicated behind me and said, "Ya think that girl's a lesbian?" I started to turn around and said, "Which one?" He said, "The one with the mohawk." I turned back to him and said, "Well, I don't have to look."

Nadski · 11th Nov 2011, 03:27 AM

some of my friends think this one girl is gay, i kinda get a vibe she is too, and i only recently i found out that she experimented with one of my other friends, im still not completely sure she is gay though

Bi As A Kite · 11th Nov 2011, 05:05 AM

There was a guy who just had a certain lilt to his voice...and touchy-feely actions all the time...then WHAM! girlfriend.

There's another I'm sure could be Bi, he apparently has a gf but also has that lilt to his voice, always smiles, is into dancing and modelling. Hmmm.

Doctor Faustus · 11th Nov 2011, 05:24 AM

Aside: Straight men have very little emotional intelligence. Telling a 20-something lecturer about my crush on him taught me that.

11th Nov 2011, 08:57 AM

hi i am 16 and really confused because about half a year ago someone said to me are you gay, i said NO. i have allways thought as myself as straight to this day but since then i keep on thinking in my head am i gay, and it is driving me crazy because i dont want to get in a relationship with a man or have sex with a man, it makes me feel sick inside. i really like girls love thinking about having sex with them. i read something online and it sound like i have HOCD but i keep on thinking about that question. please can you tell me what i am. thanks

Shevanel · 11th Nov 2011, 09:15 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Doctor Faustus

Aside: Straight men have very little emotional intelligence. Telling a 20-something lecturer about my crush on him taught me that.

Hopefully you're being sarcastic.

firemaker · 12th Nov 2011, 06:48 AM

A man cries all the time, over movies,after and before sex, he was wring, GE was right. Even new how dress. Even gay friend which was his roommate thought he was gay. I believe he was closeted.

HantsBen · 12th Nov 2011, 02:11 PM

I have a feeling for someone that they are gay yes and I know lots of people who think I am but I am not open about it

NoName114 · 12th Nov 2011, 02:30 PM

I have a flamyboyant friend who I was about to ask him out one time and he goes "Have you met my girlfriend yet?" XD

HantsBen · 12th Nov 2011, 02:40 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by NoName114

I have a flamyboyant friend who I was about to ask him out one time and he goes "Have you met my girlfriend yet?" XD

Just in the nick of time then :P

10th Nov 2011, 01:07 PM	#1
firemaker confused Full Member Gender: Genderqueer Orientation: Questioning Out Status: A few people Location: Pittsfield Maine Age: 28 Posts: 145 Join Date: Oct 2011	straight or gay Have u ever met anyone and thought they were gay. Please tell me why you thought they were gay. I am trying to get 1,000 posts. Thanx I will go first, yes I met straight people and thought they were gay. A male friend said he like to sew. __________________ . If everyone was the same, and everyone liked each. Then this world wouldnot be here.

10th Nov 2011, 01:09 PM	#2
Doctor Faustus EC's resident Philosopher at Large Regular Member Gender: Male Orientation: Not straight. But only interested in men. xD Out Status: People who ask me. People whom I trust. Location: Basingstoke Posts: 1,610 Join Date: Oct 2011	Re: straight or gay I had a straight friend who I thought was gay... he was willing to accept a massage from me . Maybe he's really closeted. xD __________________ "I have found the paradox, that if you love until it hurts, there can be no more hurt, only more love." - Mother Teresa.

10th Nov 2011, 01:24 PM	#3
Jonathan Formerly Muzzy Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Some people Location: Illinois Age: 20 Posts: 3,036 Join Date: Oct 2007	Re: straight or gay Yea, they're have been plenty of people that I thought were gay. It's really only because of stereotypical actions though... __________________

10th Nov 2011, 01:35 PM	#4
malachite EC's realist Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Orlando Posts: 6,480 Join Date: Apr 2009	Re: straight or gay I had one he was kinda flamboyant and liked touching people (hugs and such) turns out he was straight and had 2 kids __________________ It's the 21st century, your bigotry is outdated. Either upgrade or go away.

10th Nov 2011, 02:53 PM	#5
Junkist Imprisoned 21 Regular Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Not out at all Location: Nottingham,UK Age: 21 Posts: 50 Join Date: Nov 2011	Re: straight or gay Well I have a male friend who has feminine voice,anime hairstyle,use vaseline on his leg,frequent BodyShop customer,crazy about Justin Bieber and he had a girlfriend...Broke up few weeks after and now there is rumour he is getting another one.Weird huh?Could be closeted -shrug-

10th Nov 2011, 04:42 PM	#6
Rinamir Mortem Brony in disguise Regular Member Gender: Gentleman Orientation: Me and my boyfriend are very happy Out Status: Ask and you shall find out Location: Worcester Age: 19 Posts: 205 Join Date: Oct 2011	Re: straight or gay I know one who is overly feminine but has a girlfriend. Either he is firmly closeted or he is very secure in his sexuality. As for others, the jury is still out.

10th Nov 2011, 04:55 PM	#7
Rooni321 EC's Hopeless Romantic Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: gay, str8, bi Out Status: Out to everyone Location: San Francisco, California <3 Age: 17 Posts: 1,321 Join Date: Oct 2011	Re: straight or gay I met this girl who was a vegetarian with short hair and a pet who hated guys. It seemed oh so very obvious. But turns out she's str8 __________________ "The world breaks everyone and afterward many are strong in the broken places. But those that will not break it kills. It kills the very good and the very gentle and the very brave impartially." Ernest Hemingway

10th Nov 2011, 08:59 PM	#8
firemaker confused Full Member Gender: Genderqueer Orientation: Questioning Out Status: A few people Location: Pittsfield Maine Age: 28 Posts: 145 Join Date: Oct 2011	Re: straight or gay Guys that manscaping. That just gross for guys. __________________ . If everyone was the same, and everyone liked each. Then this world wouldnot be here.

10th Nov 2011, 09:08 PM	#10
needshelp really likes you Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: out to some, not family and friends though Location: in a closet near you Age: 25 Posts: 691 Join Date: Sep 2011	Re: straight or gay well, now that i'll never see him again. there was this one guy at this thing that i was going to. i thought he was really cute the first time i saw him. there was something about him though that said to me that he was gay. i kind of observed him i guess where i overheard him talking to his friend. he had a very feminine voice and maybe it's just my ears but i could have swore he said something about being gay or not finding any guys to a friend of his. not 100 percent sure though. he went to the bathroom the same time as me and was kind of looking over the stall since he was taller than me and my cell phone went off. he was laughing me and all. something about him said he was gay. then yesterday, he's sitting some seats ahead of me, his face is beet red and he's keeps turning his head looking over at me and this other guy that i was conversating with since we were busy waiting for something. my guess is that he was indeed gay.

10th Nov 2011, 10:00 PM	#11
crazyhead flying away Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Texas Age: 22 Posts: 247 Join Date: Jul 2011	Re: straight or gay I guy in theater class with a really high voice turned out to be straight. And I'm sure he is because he's in theater, so if he were gay, he'd be out. There is also someone at work I can tell is gay. He has a high voice, but that's not why I think he's gay. I can tell by how often he smiles. Straight guys don't smile all the time for no reason. There are also a few random guys who I like to think are gay just because I find them attractive. There was also this time my boyfriend and I were out to lunch someplace when he indicated behind me and said, "Ya think that girl's a lesbian?" I started to turn around and said, "Which one?" He said, "The one with the mohawk." I turned back to him and said, "Well, I don't have to look." __________________ "Dyin' is the day worth livin' for"

11th Nov 2011, 03:27 AM	#12
Nadski Member Regular Member Gender: Female Orientation: Bisexual Out Status: Out to some friends + a few family members Location: Australia Age: 16 Posts: 37 Join Date: Oct 2011	Re: straight or gay some of my friends think this one girl is gay, i kinda get a vibe she is too, and i only recently i found out that she experimented with one of my other friends, im still not completely sure she is gay though

11th Nov 2011, 05:05 AM	#13
Bi As A Kite EC Addict Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: The pendulum swings wildly Out Status: 1 friend + mom Age: 20 Posts: 299 Join Date: Jul 2011	Re: straight or gay There was a guy who just had a certain lilt to his voice...and touchy-feely actions all the time...then WHAM! girlfriend. There's another I'm sure could be Bi, he apparently has a gf but also has that lilt to his voice, always smiles, is into dancing and modelling. Hmmm. __________________ "You wanna get what you want, you gotta come out fighting...."

11th Nov 2011, 05:24 AM	#14
Doctor Faustus EC's resident Philosopher at Large Regular Member Gender: Male Orientation: Not straight. But only interested in men. xD Out Status: People who ask me. People whom I trust. Location: Basingstoke Posts: 1,610 Join Date: Oct 2011	Re: straight or gay Aside: Straight men have very little emotional intelligence. Telling a 20-something lecturer about my crush on him taught me that. __________________ "I have found the paradox, that if you love until it hurts, there can be no more hurt, only more love." - Mother Teresa.

11th Nov 2011, 08:57 AM	#15
helpme123 Guest Posts: n/a	Re: straight or gay hi i am 16 and really confused because about half a year ago someone said to me are you gay, i said NO. i have allways thought as myself as straight to this day but since then i keep on thinking in my head am i gay, and it is driving me crazy because i dont want to get in a relationship with a man or have sex with a man, it makes me feel sick inside. i really like girls love thinking about having sex with them. i read something online and it sound like i have HOCD but i keep on thinking about that question. please can you tell me what i am. thanks

12th Nov 2011, 06:48 AM	#17
firemaker confused Full Member Gender: Genderqueer Orientation: Questioning Out Status: A few people Location: Pittsfield Maine Age: 28 Posts: 145 Join Date: Oct 2011	Re: straight or gay A man cries all the time, over movies,after and before sex, he was wring, GE was right. Even new how dress. Even gay friend which was his roommate thought he was gay. I believe he was closeted. __________________ . If everyone was the same, and everyone liked each. Then this world wouldnot be here.

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