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Old 10th Nov 2011, 07:33 PM   #1
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Default Love at First Sight.

Has anyone ever just looked at someone and heard good stories about this man/woman and instantaneously fell in love with them?

I fell in love with this girl at my school, she went to GSA meetings and everything. She was smart and strong-willed and I was totally a sucker for her xD. She's younger then me and I've never gained the courage to say anything to her. My longest crush, I want to either act upon it or discard it. It plagues me :[
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Old 10th Nov 2011, 07:41 PM   #2
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Default Re: Love at First Sight.

I don't know if I believe in love at first sight necessarily but sometimes when you meet someone you can just tell that this person is going to change your life for forever. It's like being hit by lightning and it's wonderful. Its happened to me a couple times and I'm very grateful for it.
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Old 10th Nov 2011, 07:51 PM   #3
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Default Re: Love at First Sight.

More or less agreed with above. Love at first sight, I don't know about that. But very strong attraction (not just even the lustful kind) - yes. And once it a while you might even get so lucky that it does turn into love eventually. No guaruntees or anything, but anything's possible
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Old 10th Nov 2011, 10:32 PM   #4
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Default Re: Love at First Sight.

Story of my life.
But its going away thank goodness! That was bad for me
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Old 10th Nov 2011, 11:52 PM   #5
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Love at first sight - No

Attraction at first sight - Yes
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Old 11th Nov 2011, 09:16 AM   #6
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Default Re: Love at First Sight.

I don't believe in love at first sight. Of course, I'm biased since it takes me almost a year to genuinely fall in love with someone.
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Old 11th Nov 2011, 09:18 AM   #7
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Default Re: Love at First Sight.

I think most people confuse love with attraction, which is why relationships fail, people fall in love with the idea of falling in love.

So, love at first sight - no.
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Old 11th Nov 2011, 10:27 AM   #8
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There's attraction at first sight. Then unashamed lust by the double take.
Love comes a whole lot later for me.
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