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firemaker · 14th Nov 2011, 05:09 PM

Where is the best place to make out or more. Would you do it yourself out in the public if you have a choice.

midwestgirl89 · 14th Nov 2011, 08:50 PM

I've never made out with anyone in public. I'm a fairly shy person so I doubt I'd feel comfortable with it, especially being gay. I think I'd be more open to holding hands or kissing (not making out though) in public.

I wouldn't be okay with doing more than making out in public for sure, depending on what you mean. I don't think it matters if you're gay or straight, too much PDA is not my thing. It makes me feel uncomfortable if there's a couple next to me making out and feeling each other up.

I think the best and most ideal place to make out or more is when you're alone with the person in a romantic setting. I'm not sure.

Aya McCabre · 14th Nov 2011, 08:54 PM

If my latest relationship is anything to go by, the botanical gardens seem to be where it's at. Though it does get you seen.... we had a kid yell out "Is that two girls?!" a while back. I don't think they realised that was possible.

Rooni321 · 14th Nov 2011, 09:08 PM

I'm not for PDA really. I mean holding hands and a small kiss is okay but full on making out is a no-no.
But my favorite place is on a balcony or the hill-side. Or my room because everyone says I have the most comfortable bed ever!

RaRa · 14th Nov 2011, 09:57 PM

I don't mind PDA unless it's like practically sex...It would be very hypocritical of me to hate on PDA considering me and my ex didn't care. Wherever we were there was a show.

Alex15 · 15th Nov 2011, 06:13 AM

So here in spain it is all over the place, at first it's a shocker. By week two you don't even look twice, I wish everyone in the states weren't such prudes.

Junkist · 15th Nov 2011, 06:22 AM

Definitely my own personal premise. I don't mind doing in public but there are just too many restrictions.

firemaker · 15th Nov 2011, 10:19 AM

Flirting through out the day is better then just say you want sex lets do it now. Nope not for me.

malachite · 15th Nov 2011, 10:23 AM

not much for people making out in public. I mean a kiss, holding hands, a hug thats fine but if you're gonna climb each other get a damn room.

Just Passing · 16th Nov 2011, 05:47 AM

I'm not sure if I could ever display any signs of PDA. I don't know what it is, but I'd feel awkward doing it.

CrazyAntFarm · 16th Nov 2011, 09:14 AM

Not into too much PDA myself. My dude and I are very affectionate towards each other though just usually in the privacy of each other.

14th Nov 2011, 05:09 PM	#1
firemaker confused Full Member Gender: Genderqueer Orientation: Questioning Out Status: A few people Location: Pittsfield Maine Age: 28 Posts: 145 Join Date: Oct 2011	pda Where is the best place to make out or more. Would you do it yourself out in the public if you have a choice. __________________ . If everyone was the same, and everyone liked each. Then this world wouldnot be here.

14th Nov 2011, 08:50 PM	#2
midwestgirl89 EC Addict Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Interested in Women Out Status: Some people Age: 23 Posts: 559 Join Date: Jul 2011	Re: pda I've never made out with anyone in public. I'm a fairly shy person so I doubt I'd feel comfortable with it, especially being gay. I think I'd be more open to holding hands or kissing (not making out though) in public. I wouldn't be okay with doing more than making out in public for sure, depending on what you mean. I don't think it matters if you're gay or straight, too much PDA is not my thing. It makes me feel uncomfortable if there's a couple next to me making out and feeling each other up. I think the best and most ideal place to make out or more is when you're alone with the person in a romantic setting. I'm not sure.

14th Nov 2011, 08:54 PM	#3
Aya McCabre Beware of the Metaphor Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Lesbian Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Dunedin, New Zealand Age: 21 Posts: 613 Join Date: Feb 2011	Re: pda If my latest relationship is anything to go by, the botanical gardens seem to be where it's at. Though it does get you seen.... we had a kid yell out "Is that two girls?!" a while back. I don't think they realised that was possible. __________________ Time is on my side she said. He may be on your side I said, but it makes no difference in the end, He's coming after you my friend........

14th Nov 2011, 09:08 PM	#4
Rooni321 EC's Hopeless Romantic Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: gay, str8, bi Out Status: Out to everyone Location: San Francisco, California <3 Age: 17 Posts: 1,321 Join Date: Oct 2011	Re: pda I'm not for PDA really. I mean holding hands and a small kiss is okay but full on making out is a no-no. But my favorite place is on a balcony or the hill-side. Or my room because everyone says I have the most comfortable bed ever! __________________ "The world breaks everyone and afterward many are strong in the broken places. But those that will not break it kills. It kills the very good and the very gentle and the very brave impartially." Ernest Hemingway

14th Nov 2011, 09:57 PM	#5
RaRa We we we so excited Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: A few people Location: Los Angeles, CA Age: 21 Posts: 7,439 Join Date: Nov 2008	Re: pda I don't mind PDA unless it's like practically sex...It would be very hypocritical of me to hate on PDA considering me and my ex didn't care. Wherever we were there was a show. __________________ Do you think about me now and then? Do you think about me now and then? Oh now I'm comin' home again Maybe we can start again

15th Nov 2011, 06:13 AM	#6
Alex15 Member Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: I think guys are hot Out Status: Siblings, cousin, 3 others Location: Surrounded by the Old Repulican Vangard (Texas) Age: 22 Posts: 95 Join Date: Oct 2011	Re: pda So here in spain it is all over the place, at first it's a shocker. By week two you don't even look twice, I wish everyone in the states weren't such prudes.

15th Nov 2011, 06:22 AM	#7
Junkist Imprisoned 21 Regular Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Not out at all Location: Nottingham,UK Age: 21 Posts: 50 Join Date: Nov 2011	Re: pda Definitely my own personal premise. I don't mind doing in public but there are just too many restrictions.

15th Nov 2011, 10:19 AM	#8
firemaker confused Full Member Gender: Genderqueer Orientation: Questioning Out Status: A few people Location: Pittsfield Maine Age: 28 Posts: 145 Join Date: Oct 2011	Re: pda Flirting through out the day is better then just say you want sex lets do it now. Nope not for me. __________________ . If everyone was the same, and everyone liked each. Then this world wouldnot be here.

15th Nov 2011, 10:23 AM	#9
malachite EC's realist Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Orlando Posts: 6,480 Join Date: Apr 2009	Re: pda not much for people making out in public. I mean a kiss, holding hands, a hug thats fine but if you're gonna climb each other get a damn room. __________________ It's the 21st century, your bigotry is outdated. Either upgrade or go away.

16th Nov 2011, 05:47 AM	#10
Just Passing EC Addict Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Almost there Location: West Midlands Age: 20 Posts: 513 Join Date: May 2011	Re: pda I'm not sure if I could ever display any signs of PDA. I don't know what it is, but I'd feel awkward doing it. __________________ Meh.

16th Nov 2011, 09:14 AM	#11
CrazyAntFarm Well Known Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: 3 Friends & my pops. Location: Maryland Age: 26 Posts: 117 Join Date: Jan 2011	Re: pda Not into too much PDA myself. My dude and I are very affectionate towards each other though just usually in the privacy of each other.