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Hello! You added me!

 

Hey!! :smilewave

 

Hi James!!! (*hug*) Congrats on coming out! It does feel so good. I know whenn I came out as trans, I had so many female friends that we so amazing, understanding & supportive & even more surprising - at the ready with clothes to give me, fashion advice & a total excitement to do hair, makeup & everything in between with me! One of my friends even took me clothes shopping last week for the first time, which was also the very first time I have ever gotten to go shopping for anything I wanted to buy & wear for me. It feels amazing to have my friends, to just be one of the girls & dress however I want now. I know it's a bit different for you, but still, it's a BIG step coming out so congrats! (!) (*hug*)

 

I know how you feel. When I came out to my parents & basically told them I was a girl (just told my mum I'm also a lesbian just last week, which I think she's having a very hard time with), it did not at all go well for me either. It sucks, but I did what I needed to to get thru it & things are a bit better now. Try giving it some time. After a while, I think my mum finally realized that I really am female & I wasnt making it up, as I can noow talk to her fairly openly about it & she doesnt freak or anything now. Sometimes people just need time to adjust & realize that the person they care about is still the same person. Personaly tho, I stopped wearing mens jeans & pretty much dress female in public every day now, with the exception of tops, since I am a college girl of limited funds at the moment. But I do get maam'd from time to time, which is nice but isnt happening quite as much as I want yet! lol!

 

Um... they're both jeans. Maybe I'm the wrong person to ask. xD

Hello hello! (again xD)

 

Yes they help, I like using exclamations better than smileys! But sometimes I use both

 

Give your parents some time. You have had a lot more time to get used to being gay, than they have had.

 

Yeah, there is a bit of a difference. Women's jeans tend to be more form fitting. I love how my crotch area (sorry all) seems more like it should look in these jeans too. I was ecstatic when I found I actually had a bit of a butt in my skinny jeans versus my baggy men's relaxed fit jeans. And best thing is that guys do wear skinny jeans too, so I can get away with wearing girls' jeans without anyone really thinking too much about it. I stopped wearing guys jeans on Oct 31st & yet to have anyone say anything negative about it yet. Quite the opposite, some of my female friends Im out to say I look sooo great in my jeans now!

 

OMG, I feel sooo much more comfy in them! Honestly, I find them to be soo much more better of a fit for me. I just get mine at a second hand place, but my first 3 pairs were given to me by a female friend I had come out to. I feel so much better in women's jeans. Plus I was talking with a friend of a friend, who said that he wears them sometimes too. He said he wasnt a crossdresser or trans or any of that, but he just found women's jeans much more comfortable & that was all he cared about! Once you figure out your size, go out & buy a couple of pairs. Jeans are so widespread in society these days, that I switched from men's to women's & no one really said anything to me. But I know Im wearing jeans appropriate to my gender now, so Im happy that I can dress the way I want in public whenever I want!

 

Whyyy??
And what kind?!

 

Actually experiments are quite fun! I do a lot of social experiments and the results are really strange every time.
Oh man I used to do the smileys a lot freshman year, but it just didn't do anything for me after a while