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Daisy1 · 26th Nov 2011, 07:31 AM

Ohmygosh my first lesbian bar experience went so well! It was super crowded and it took a few drinks before I had the courage to talk to people, but this sweet couple started introducing me to people around the bar. First I got hit on by a dude (seriously?), then I chatted with a cute girl who turned out to still be in college (too young), and THEN I met this really pretty girl and we talked for the rest of the night and exchanged numbers and I'm going to call her lalalalala.

British Lad · 26th Nov 2011, 07:37 AM

Grats, I hope it all gots well for you and the other girl.

Doctor Faustus · 26th Nov 2011, 07:42 AM

Glad to hear it! Well done!

Beertruck · 26th Nov 2011, 07:48 AM

Hooray! Knew it would turn out to be good.

Also, guy hitting on a girl in a lesbian bar? That poor guy. XD

kiersten · 26th Nov 2011, 07:55 AM

OMG! That is sooo wonderful!!! Im sooo happy for yoou that it went so well that you met somebody Daisy! Congrats!

And I agree with Beertruck. Guy in a lesbian bar trying to pick up women? Man, is someone's sense of common waaay off. Hope he didnt leave that nite wondering what he wa doing wrong... lol!

Vivi · 26th Nov 2011, 08:04 AM

Congrats! I hope it works out for you. I've always been too intimidated by gay bars for some reason, but maybe i'll give it a go.

silverhalo · 26th Nov 2011, 08:15 AM

Pilgrim is hot · 26th Nov 2011, 08:33 AM

congrats, sounds like an ace night

heatqueen · 26th Nov 2011, 08:48 AM

Congrats!!

That's wonderful!

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Originally Posted by kiersten

And I agree with Beertruck. Guy in a lesbian bar trying to pick up women? Man, is someone's sense of common waaay off. Hope he didnt leave that nite wondering what he wa doing wrong... lol!

This reminds me of when I was at a gay club and some guy came up to me and was like, 'Do you like balls?' and I was like, 'This is a gay club, do you REALLY think I like balls?!'

Rooni321 · 26th Nov 2011, 09:22 AM

Hooray! They really are as magical as they seem!
I can't wait til I can go to one!
<3

Josh S · 26th Nov 2011, 10:07 AM

Woot! Best of luck to you and that girl.

BushHippie · 26th Nov 2011, 04:29 PM

Good for you! The more of us out there the better!

SomethingSimple · 26th Nov 2011, 07:38 PM

Haha - I'm super jealous. But this proves all your efforts were worth it. Well done!!

dl72 · 26th Nov 2011, 07:41 PM

Congrats.

Purple Llama · 26th Nov 2011, 07:42 PM

That's awesome, glad it went well!

26th Nov 2011, 07:47 PM

Straight men go to lesbian bars? Lol

Austin · 26th Nov 2011, 09:04 PM

Well straight women go to gay clubs (dunno about bars... are they the same thing??)

Daisy1 · 27th Nov 2011, 06:08 PM

Update: I went on a date with the girl I met today and it went well. We're going to go out again.

kiersten · 27th Nov 2011, 06:20 PM

OMG! OMG! OMG! That is sooo great! I'm so happy for you!

Daisy1 · 27th Nov 2011, 06:21 PM

Ah I love you Kiersten. Thanks so much!

26th Nov 2011, 07:31 AM	#1
Daisy1 EC Addict Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Girls Out Status: Pretty much out! Location: East Coast Age: 26 Posts: 307 Join Date: Aug 2011	Gay bar SUCCESS! Ohmygosh my first lesbian bar experience went so well! It was super crowded and it took a few drinks before I had the courage to talk to people, but this sweet couple started introducing me to people around the bar. First I got hit on by a dude (seriously?), then I chatted with a cute girl who turned out to still be in college (too young), and THEN I met this really pretty girl and we talked for the rest of the night and exchanged numbers and I'm going to call her lalalalala.

26th Nov 2011, 07:37 AM	#2
British Lad EC Biggest Tarantino fan Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: As bent as a roundabout Out Status: What Closet Location: West Midlands Posts: 1,275 Join Date: Apr 2010	Re: Gay bar SUCCESS! Grats, I hope it all gots well for you and the other girl. __________________ Who ever sayed "Ignorance is bliss" was a moron.

26th Nov 2011, 07:42 AM	#3
Doctor Faustus EC's resident Philosopher at Large Regular Member Gender: Male Orientation: Not straight. But only interested in men. xD Out Status: People who ask me. People whom I trust. Location: Basingstoke Posts: 1,610 Join Date: Oct 2011	Re: Gay bar SUCCESS! Glad to hear it! Well done! __________________ "I have found the paradox, that if you love until it hurts, there can be no more hurt, only more love." - Mother Teresa.

26th Nov 2011, 07:48 AM	#4
Beertruck Drunk Homosexual Full Member Gender: bro Orientation: bromosexual Out Status: bropen! Location: new jersey Age: 24 Posts: 420 Join Date: Nov 2010	Re: Gay bar SUCCESS! Hooray! Knew it would turn out to be good. Also, guy hitting on a girl in a lesbian bar? That poor guy. XD

26th Nov 2011, 07:55 AM	#5
kiersten KierstenChromium, Mistress Of Metal Full Member Gender: Transgender - MtF Orientation: Lesbian Out Status: Out to 127 people & my parents & 1 cousin so far Location: Sarnia, ON Posts: 1,331 Join Date: Jun 2011	Re: Gay bar SUCCESS! OMG! That is sooo wonderful!!! Im sooo happy for yoou that it went so well that you met somebody Daisy! Congrats! And I agree with Beertruck. Guy in a lesbian bar trying to pick up women? Man, is someone's sense of common waaay off. Hope he didnt leave that nite wondering what he wa doing wrong... lol! __________________ Penny: What's Sheldon's deal? Leonard: What do you mean "deal"? Penny : You know, like, what's his deal? Is it girls? Guys? Sock puppets? Leonard: Honestly, we've been operating under the assumption that he has no deal.

26th Nov 2011, 08:04 AM	#6
Vivi Black Mage Regular Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: A few people Location: Ireland Age: 23 Posts: 152 Join Date: Mar 2010	Re: Gay bar SUCCESS! Congrats! I hope it works out for you. I've always been too intimidated by gay bars for some reason, but maybe i'll give it a go.

26th Nov 2011, 08:15 AM	#7
silverhalo EC Addict Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Lesbian Out Status: Quite a few Location: England, Age: 29 Posts: 3,161 Join Date: Dec 2008	Re: Gay bar SUCCESS! Yay

26th Nov 2011, 08:33 AM	#8
Pilgrim is hot Gamer Guy Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to 2 family members and 1 friend Location: England - Somewhere in the middle Age: 24 Posts: 225 Join Date: Oct 2011	Re: Gay bar SUCCESS! congrats, sounds like an ace night __________________ "Son, we want you, be elusive, but don't walk far" - David Bowie

26th Nov 2011, 09:22 AM	#10
Rooni321 EC's Hopeless Romantic Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: gay, str8, bi Out Status: Out to everyone Location: San Francisco, California <3 Age: 17 Posts: 1,321 Join Date: Oct 2011	Re: Gay bar SUCCESS! Hooray! They really are as magical as they seem! I can't wait til I can go to one! <3 __________________ "The world breaks everyone and afterward many are strong in the broken places. But those that will not break it kills. It kills the very good and the very gentle and the very brave impartially." Ernest Hemingway

26th Nov 2011, 10:07 AM	#11
Josh S Well Known Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Kinsey 5-ish, leaning towards gay Out Status: Population, 4 Location: Central New York Age: 21 Posts: 129 Join Date: Nov 2011	Re: Gay bar SUCCESS! Woot! Best of luck to you and that girl. __________________ "We shall not cease from exploration / And the end of all our exploring / Will be to arrive where we started / And know the place for the first time." - T. S. Eliot

26th Nov 2011, 04:29 PM	#12
BushHippie Space is the Place Regular Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: A few people Location: Cleveland Posts: 48 Join Date: Oct 2011	Re: Gay bar SUCCESS! Good for you! The more of us out there the better!

26th Nov 2011, 07:38 PM	#13
SomethingSimple Definitely bisexual.. what now? Regular Member Gender: Female Orientation: Bisexual Location: Ireland Posts: 21 Join Date: Nov 2011	Re: Gay bar SUCCESS! Haha - I'm super jealous. But this proves all your efforts were worth it. Well done!!

26th Nov 2011, 07:41 PM	#14
dl72 EC Addict Regular Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: To one person only Location: Los Angeles, CA Posts: 350 Join Date: Jun 2011	Re: Gay bar SUCCESS! Congrats.

26th Nov 2011, 07:42 PM	#15
Purple Llama Well Known Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Lesbian Out Status: Most people Location: Brighton, UK Age: 19 Posts: 104 Join Date: May 2011	Re: Gay bar SUCCESS! That's awesome, glad it went well! __________________ (Signature under construction, please excuse crapness!)

26th Nov 2011, 07:47 PM	#16
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26th Nov 2011, 09:04 PM	#17
Austin Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Most people in my life. Location: Orange County, California, USA Age: 19 Posts: 1,790 Join Date: Apr 2008	Re: Gay bar SUCCESS! Well straight women go to gay clubs (dunno about bars... are they the same thing??) __________________ Can I sail through the changing ocean tides, can I handle the seasons of my life?

27th Nov 2011, 06:08 PM	#18
Daisy1 EC Addict Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Girls Out Status: Pretty much out! Location: East Coast Age: 26 Posts: 307 Join Date: Aug 2011	Re: Gay bar SUCCESS! Update: I went on a date with the girl I met today and it went well. We're going to go out again.

27th Nov 2011, 06:20 PM	#19
kiersten KierstenChromium, Mistress Of Metal Full Member Gender: Transgender - MtF Orientation: Lesbian Out Status: Out to 127 people & my parents & 1 cousin so far Location: Sarnia, ON Posts: 1,331 Join Date: Jun 2011	Re: Gay bar SUCCESS! OMG! OMG! OMG! That is sooo great! I'm so happy for you! __________________ Penny: What's Sheldon's deal? Leonard: What do you mean "deal"? Penny : You know, like, what's his deal? Is it girls? Guys? Sock puppets? Leonard: Honestly, we've been operating under the assumption that he has no deal.

27th Nov 2011, 06:21 PM	#20
Daisy1 EC Addict Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Girls Out Status: Pretty much out! Location: East Coast Age: 26 Posts: 307 Join Date: Aug 2011	Re: Gay bar SUCCESS! Ah I love you Kiersten. Thanks so much!