Went to a gay restaurant

1) Those exist?!?! Gay restaurants really???

2) Attitude is key, just act uninterested or snotty or do something really unattractive. Haha
he might have also been trying to get a good tip. Waiters are crafty these days!

 

My thinking exactly.. No idea they existed, haha. That's really gross.. If you go back there try and make sure you get a different server. Or tip him with a piece of paper with a random phone number on it.

 

Gay restaurants? Sounds fun Would love to try it one day

 

Well, as long as you go with other friends you won't have to worry about that waiter trying to hit on you.

:lol: I would really feel offended that someone thinks I'm a lady just because I'm gay.:tantrum:

 

Lol am I the only one who knew about them? Apparently there are a bunch in Midtown Atlanta.

 

Yay! Gay restaurant! xD I've had the same thing happen to me about two years ago...it was creepy, but I agree--just act completely uninterested. Eventually, he'll go away (if not until after you pay your bill).

 

Well, I wouldn't be too creeped out about it...the dude was probably fishing for a good tip. Look at it this way...when mid-aged men go to a Hooters, do you think the waitresses there flirt with them because they want to get in their pants? No...they are hoping to add a little more percentage to their bottom line.

I wouldn't worry too much about it.

 

I have never heard of a gay restaurant either. Sounds like fun though.

 

HA! I know exactly what you mean, old men always hit on me. Its weird, actually a lot of old people do. I don't look my age either though, I'm not sure if you do or not but that can be why older guys hit on you and I. Its gross.

 

That's true. But getting hit on by old people is not fun either way

 

Whenever you go someplace and the people who work there are flirting with you, it's just to be friendly so they can get your service again and/or get a good tip. I don't see any reason not to play along with it until they give you their phone number. Or ask for yours. Even then, there's no reason to do anything other than politely say you're not interested. Unless he (in the unlikely case) he stalks you. Then call the police.

And no. As far as I know, flirting with someone underage is not illegal. Just trying to have sex with them is.

 

There's actually a chain of them - Hamburger Mary's.



It's campy and fun, and even my rather conservative brother has no problem bringing his wife and five-year-old daughter there. There's a place nearby that has Drag Queen Brunch and so forth.

As far as the flirting goes, you can easily put an end to it. If he calls you ladies, just roll your eyes and say "Well, this 'lady' is going to have the cheeseburger." They're used to dealing with people, and will pick up on the hint that you're not interested in anything like that.

Lex

 

Maybe not a restaurant per se, but when I was in Toronto I very much enjoyed the Gay Pubs I went to for Supper. The only gay licensed establishment I've been to before are the dirty dance clubs in my city.

 

I have never really heard of gay restaurants... This pleases me.