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firemaker · 28th Nov 2011, 08:08 PM

Remember back when you was a teenager and had fun sleepovers, did guest sleep in the same bed or the floor.and why

Rooni321 · 28th Nov 2011, 08:59 PM

It depended on the amount of people whether or not we slept in the bed or on the floor.
I mean we did fit 4 people in the bed once (as teenagers), and we were all facing the same way lol
Good timess :]

Jade Fox · 28th Nov 2011, 09:16 PM

Haha. Always will sleep in the same bed as my guest. My queen is so empty with just one.

Mercy · 5th Dec 2011, 08:59 AM

same bed !! always

robclem21 · 5th Dec 2011, 09:01 AM

Always same bed! No fun otherwise

Doctor Faustus · 5th Dec 2011, 09:03 AM

The same bed. Of course. xD

Danielle · 5th Dec 2011, 09:15 AM

I didn't have sleepovers.

Forever Alone.

geordie94 · 5th Dec 2011, 09:24 AM

I' ve only ever had 2 sleepovers.. both in the last year.. all the other sleepers were girls n their parents wouldnt allow me in the same bed when we actually slept.. probably in case I turn straight when I'm unconscious

caughtbywitness · 5th Dec 2011, 09:26 AM

Floor! Floor is waay more comfy than a sofa, in my experience 8-)

**Maddy** · 5th Dec 2011, 02:57 PM

Depends on how many people are there and what's available. I've slept on couches, sharing a bed, sharing a blow-up mattress (that was maybe big enough for one and a half people) with two other people, on single fold-out beds, sharing a single mattress on the floor, and so on and so forth.

Hana Solo · 5th Dec 2011, 03:42 PM

Depends on the people. I'm always open to sharing the bed, but hey, depends on them.

midwestgirl89 · 5th Dec 2011, 10:54 PM

Well, for most friends I slept on the floor and let them sleep on my bed.

But for one friend we slept together in the same bed....well because were were "friends-with-benefits" so it made sense to sleep in the same bed.

J Snow · 5th Dec 2011, 11:03 PM

I remember my dad cautioning me while going over to my friend's house once because he thought he seemed like he might be weird (which is pretty much his word for gay since he doesn't really feel comfortable saying it)

xblacklightsx · 6th Dec 2011, 01:35 AM

Sometimes it would be separate beds but for the most part it would be the same bed. All my friends were girls so they knew I wouldn't do anything

. But I did have a cute guy friend my freshman year whom I slept on the same floor with XD

musican · 6th Dec 2011, 05:12 AM

I never really had sleepovers until college... Unless you count camping or pretending to camp in a living room (which happened once).

I've shared a full size bed with 3 other guys after we went to a party. It was my bed and I'm the only one who slept poorly due to lack of room. I'm too nice...

SlickyPants · 7th Dec 2011, 09:55 PM

Depends on the friend.

With one guy we slept in the same bed ( his idea, not mine but who am I to say "no", eh?)

With just about everyone else I've had a sleepover with when I was younger we slept apart. Usually me on the floor or on a couch or an air matress.

Rinto · 8th Dec 2011, 12:06 AM

I have never experienced it yet with friends. But with my family, I usually sleep on the floor since most beds can't fit my very long body ehehe

hiddenxrainbows · 8th Dec 2011, 01:16 AM

Like a lot of people on here said, it just depends. With my friend A, we always sleep in the same bed together. (Hell, she'll even cuddle with me! XD lol) Though one time, she and my boyfriend slept over at my house. She took the bed, and my boyfriend and I just took the floor. lol With my friend M, we always sleep in separate beds. But she has another separate bed under her own, so it makes sense to. With my boyfriend, obviously we sleep in the same bed.

lol Umm with other friends, if it was just one other person, we mainly just sleep in the same bed together. And then if there's a big group of people, we'll just find any random spot to sleep in. A few people will usually take up the couch, and then the rest will cuddle up on the floor together. lol

Gravity · 8th Dec 2011, 01:51 AM

Always slept in different places - but then again, I was a "straight" kid with straight friends, so...

Debug · 8th Dec 2011, 03:55 PM

Always slept in different places... always fell asleep first.

I woke up once after falling asleep with a blanket wrapped around me and my friend sleeping next to me. Apparently he wrapped a blanket around me because he had to keep his little Dickles (my nickname x.x) warm...then wrapped a blanket around himself because he had to keep his own dickie warm.

Funny times.

28th Nov 2011, 08:08 PM	#1
firemaker confused Full Member Gender: Genderqueer Orientation: Questioning Out Status: A few people Location: Pittsfield Maine Age: 28 Posts: 145 Join Date: Oct 2011	sleepovers Remember back when you was a teenager and had fun sleepovers, did guest sleep in the same bed or the floor.and why __________________ . If everyone was the same, and everyone liked each. Then this world wouldnot be here.

28th Nov 2011, 08:59 PM	#2
Rooni321 EC's Hopeless Romantic Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: gay, str8, bi Out Status: Out to everyone Location: San Francisco, California <3 Age: 17 Posts: 1,321 Join Date: Oct 2011	Re: sleepovers It depended on the amount of people whether or not we slept in the bed or on the floor. I mean we did fit 4 people in the bed once (as teenagers), and we were all facing the same way lol Good timess :] __________________ "The world breaks everyone and afterward many are strong in the broken places. But those that will not break it kills. It kills the very good and the very gentle and the very brave impartially." Ernest Hemingway

28th Nov 2011, 09:16 PM	#3
Jade Fox The Intrigued Regular Member Gender: Female Orientation: Bisexual Out Status: A few people Location: Canada Age: 19 Posts: 18 Join Date: Nov 2011	Re: sleepovers Haha. Always will sleep in the same bed as my guest. My queen is so empty with just one.

5th Dec 2011, 08:59 AM	#4
Mercy EC Addict Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Lesbian Out Status: A few people Posts: 1,412 Join Date: Jul 2011	Re: sleepovers same bed !! always __________________ Some times the ones you least expect too whal in to your life and change it for the better

5th Dec 2011, 09:01 AM	#5
robclem21 Here to chat and make friends Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Sisters and anyone else who wants to know Location: Toronto, Ontario Age: 21 Posts: 88 Join Date: Oct 2011	Re: sleepovers Always same bed! No fun otherwise __________________ "You know you're in love when you can't fall asleep because reality is finally better than your dreams." - Dr. Seuss

5th Dec 2011, 09:03 AM	#6
Doctor Faustus EC's resident Philosopher at Large Regular Member Gender: Male Orientation: Not straight. But only interested in men. xD Out Status: People who ask me. People whom I trust. Location: Basingstoke Posts: 1,610 Join Date: Oct 2011	Re: sleepovers The same bed. Of course. xD __________________ "I have found the paradox, that if you love until it hurts, there can be no more hurt, only more love." - Mother Teresa.

5th Dec 2011, 09:15 AM	#7
Danielle EC Addict Full Member Gender: Transgender - MtF Orientation: Lesbian Out Status: Most people Location: NSW, Australia Age: 19 Posts: 525 Join Date: Aug 2008	Re: sleepovers I didn't have sleepovers. Forever Alone. __________________ Homophobia is gay.

5th Dec 2011, 09:24 AM	#8
geordie94 Well Known Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Age: 17 Posts: 101 Join Date: Oct 2010	Re: sleepovers I' ve only ever had 2 sleepovers.. both in the last year.. all the other sleepers were girls n their parents wouldnt allow me in the same bed when we actually slept.. probably in case I turn straight when I'm unconscious __________________ One day I'm going to grow wings A chemical reaction Hysterical and useless

5th Dec 2011, 09:26 AM	#9
caughtbywitness Well Known Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: I really don't know anymore Out Status: Most people (: Location: Shropshire Age: 16 Posts: 131 Join Date: Oct 2011	Re: sleepovers Floor! Floor is waay more comfy than a sofa, in my experience 8-)

5th Dec 2011, 02:57 PM	#10
Maddy Free Hugs EC Admin Gender: - Orientation: Into girls Location: Melbourne, Australia Age: 21 Posts: 7,704 Join Date: Mar 2008	Re: sleepovers Depends on how many people are there and what's available. I've slept on couches, sharing a bed, sharing a blow-up mattress (that was maybe big enough for one and a half people) with two other people, on single fold-out beds, sharing a single mattress on the floor, and so on and so forth. __________________ how strange it is to be anything at all [Victor] 2:09 pm: and then halloween happened and I was outside in a skirt.

5th Dec 2011, 03:42 PM	#11
Hana Solo EC's Dear Abby- talk to me! Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Mostly into girls Out Status: Closet is getting a little crowded Location: Not even a dot on the Australian map Age: 17 Posts: 1,096 Join Date: Nov 2011	Re: sleepovers Depends on the people. I'm always open to sharing the bed, but hey, depends on them. __________________ Thor: No matter what he's done, Loki is from Asgard and is my brother Black Widow: He killed 80 people in two days. Thor: ...adopted. ~The Avengers, 2012

5th Dec 2011, 10:54 PM	#12
midwestgirl89 EC Addict Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Interested in Women Out Status: Some people Age: 23 Posts: 559 Join Date: Jul 2011	Re: sleepovers Well, for most friends I slept on the floor and let them sleep on my bed. But for one friend we slept together in the same bed....well because were were "friends-with-benefits" so it made sense to sleep in the same bed.

5th Dec 2011, 11:03 PM	#13
J Snow EC Addict Regular Member Gender: Sex - Male, Gender -Female/bigender/not quite sure Orientation: Primarily interested in men. Out Status: fairly out about sexuality, gender not so much Location: Des Moines, Iowa Age: 22 Posts: 1,391 Join Date: Aug 2011	Re: sleepovers I remember my dad cautioning me while going over to my friend's house once because he thought he seemed like he might be weird (which is pretty much his word for gay since he doesn't really feel comfortable saying it) __________________ "You don't need to hide my friend, for I am just like you."

6th Dec 2011, 01:35 AM	#14
xblacklightsx BRBZ Full Member Gender: Male Posts: 353 Join Date: May 2009	Re: sleepovers Sometimes it would be separate beds but for the most part it would be the same bed. All my friends were girls so they knew I wouldn't do anything . But I did have a cute guy friend my freshman year whom I slept on the same floor with XD

6th Dec 2011, 05:12 AM	#15
musican EC's Resident DJ Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: "I wanna kiss a boy" Out Status: family and facebook Location: (Not the city), New York Age: 20 Posts: 3,832 Join Date: Oct 2008	Re: sleepovers I never really had sleepovers until college... Unless you count camping or pretending to camp in a living room (which happened once). I've shared a full size bed with 3 other guys after we went to a party. It was my bed and I'm the only one who slept poorly due to lack of room. I'm too nice... __________________ How I miss our love when the winter surrounds me icicle teardrops.

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7th Dec 2011, 09:55 PM	#16
SlickyPants EC Addict Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Winnipeg, MB, Canada Age: 26 Posts: 542 Join Date: Oct 2007	Re: sleepovers Depends on the friend. With one guy we slept in the same bed ( his idea, not mine but who am I to say "no", eh?) With just about everyone else I've had a sleepover with when I was younger we slept apart. Usually me on the floor or on a couch or an air matress.

8th Dec 2011, 12:06 AM	#17
Rinto Balance Freak-ish Full Member Gender: Monsieur Orientation: Bisexual Out Status: My chosen people Location: Philippines Age: 16 Posts: 480 Join Date: Jul 2011	Re: sleepovers I have never experienced it yet with friends. But with my family, I usually sleep on the floor since most beds can't fit my very long body ehehe __________________ Be happy with who you are. When all else abandon you, at least, it's the being who'll love you the most more than yourself. So, never lose your smile.

8th Dec 2011, 01:16 AM	#18
hiddenxrainbows Member Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Pansexual Out Status: Most people, but my dad-don't want him to know yet Location: Mt. Pleasant, PA Age: 19 Posts: 67 Join Date: Apr 2011	Re: sleepovers Like a lot of people on here said, it just depends. With my friend A, we always sleep in the same bed together. (Hell, she'll even cuddle with me! XD lol) Though one time, she and my boyfriend slept over at my house. She took the bed, and my boyfriend and I just took the floor. lol With my friend M, we always sleep in separate beds. But she has another separate bed under her own, so it makes sense to. With my boyfriend, obviously we sleep in the same bed. lol Umm with other friends, if it was just one other person, we mainly just sleep in the same bed together. And then if there's a big group of people, we'll just find any random spot to sleep in. A few people will usually take up the couch, and then the rest will cuddle up on the floor together. lol

8th Dec 2011, 01:51 AM	#19
Gravity EC Addict Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Arizona Age: 31 Posts: 642 Join Date: Nov 2011	Re: sleepovers Always slept in different places - but then again, I was a "straight" kid with straight friends, so... __________________ "If you didn't think it would hurt your reputation, what would you choose?"

8th Dec 2011, 03:55 PM	#20
Debug Member Regular Member Gender: Male Orientation: Straight with ocd Location: St. John's, Newfoundland and Labrador, Canada Posts: 66 Join Date: Dec 2011	Re: sleepovers Always slept in different places... always fell asleep first. I woke up once after falling asleep with a blanket wrapped around me and my friend sleeping next to me. Apparently he wrapped a blanket around me because he had to keep his little Dickles (my nickname x.x) warm...then wrapped a blanket around himself because he had to keep his own dickie warm. Funny times.