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Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Charni, Dec 6, 2011.

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  1. Charni

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    I have recently learnt I am genderfluid and I have two "versions" of me. I am James when I feel like a boy and when I feel like a girl my name is Charni. My personality is exactly the same except I am a bit more sensative as Charni and the only way to distinguish between wether I am James or Charni is when I am Charni I hold my hands together in front of my stomach. On EC I will have the writng under my namesaying if I am James or Charni. Thanks for listening! I just wanted to get that out there.
     
    #1 Charni, Dec 6, 2011
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    No worries! As long as you're happy and comfortable being yourself on EC.
     
    #2 Doctor Faustus, Dec 6, 2011
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    I am! It feels strange when I am "changing" between Charni and James and vice versa.
     
    #3 Charni, Dec 6, 2011
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    So being genderfluid is a real possibility for you? When you say 'strange', can you describe what's happening in your mind?
     
    #4 Doctor Faustus, Dec 6, 2011
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    I think I am genderfluid yes. Um not really. It's like I have two people in me and they both want control. That is the best way to describe it I think.
     
    #5 Charni, Dec 6, 2011
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    Sounds almost like split personalities???
     
    #6 Doctor Faustus, Dec 6, 2011
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    But the thing is all that changes is my gender. I only have one personality. Inside I know it isn't split personality.
     
    #7 Charni, Dec 6, 2011
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    Okay, cool.
     
    #8 Doctor Faustus, Dec 6, 2011
  9. Charni

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    I am so glad my girlfriend is pansexual. It's funny. She doesn't care about gender and I can't make up my mind which one I want to be.
     
    #9 Charni, Dec 6, 2011
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    :roflmao:

    Okay, try this:

    "Gender: N/A"
     
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    Hmm. I like how it is. Besides I actually want a gender.
     
    #11 Charni, Dec 6, 2011
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    Ah lol ofc... "N/A" doesn't mean you get one xD
     
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    ofc?
     
    #13 Charni, Dec 6, 2011
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    of course :wink:

    How often do you change between genders? Once every... ?
     
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    Um it varies. Sometimes I stay the same for a whole day, but sometimes I can change after a few hours. I will stay the same for a while.
     
    #15 Charni, Dec 6, 2011
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    Damn! Doesn't help the boys' cause against the girls over on "Boys vs. Girls"!

    Play for our team when it matters! Disloyal fiend! :wink:
     
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    I can't choose when I am Charni!
     
    #17 Charni, Dec 6, 2011
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    Muahahaha!!! :evil: she's ours
     
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    For now.
     
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    Sometimes I think that game does more harm then good on a site like this. I know that I used to avoid it because I didn't want to have to vote for the guys. Now that I vote for the girls it feels good, but I feel kind of like a liar or traitor at time.

    I've heard another user expressing uncertainty on what side to vote for as well, and I think it makes them feel a bit uncomfortable. *shrug*
     
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