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firemaker · 7th Dec 2011, 02:51 PM

I was wondering if someone can me pointers on how to talk to a female.

pace e amore · 7th Dec 2011, 08:02 PM

"Is that a mirror in your pocket? Cause i can see myself in your pants."

"Let's play house, you can be the door and i'll slam you."

Alright, i ripped these off of mafia 2 cause obviously i don't have that much experience with girls but you'll never know, they might work.

TheJoker · 10th Dec 2011, 04:22 PM

Just like how you should talk with anybody. There is no thing as how to talk with a female or male. Be kind,warm and don't try to impress them. And let them talk. Listen them..at least try.

Being cheerful and naughty is bonus.

m1dl0f3 · 10th Dec 2011, 06:54 PM

TheJoker makes excellent points.

The main thing is to be relaxed in order to make them feel relaxed talking with you. Also, don't be afraid of a silence, when warranted. There will be times in a conversation where you need to listen and allow her to express her thoughts to which you must be listening in order to reply appropriately. Females, as do most people, despise feeling like their voices are not being heard.

I wish you the best of luck in your next encounter with said females!

7th Dec 2011, 02:51 PM	#1
firemaker confused Full Member Gender: Genderqueer Orientation: Questioning Out Status: A few people Location: Pittsfield Maine Age: 28 Posts: 145 Join Date: Oct 2011	cold feet I was wondering if someone can me pointers on how to talk to a female. __________________ . If everyone was the same, and everyone liked each. Then this world wouldnot be here.

7th Dec 2011, 08:02 PM	#2
pace e amore Member Regular Member Gender: Male Orientation: Homoflexible Out Status: So far only one close friend and my mom Location: Fargo Age: 19 Posts: 77 Join Date: Dec 2011	Re: cold feet "Is that a mirror in your pocket? Cause i can see myself in your pants." "Let's play house, you can be the door and i'll slam you." Alright, i ripped these off of mafia 2 cause obviously i don't have that much experience with girls but you'll never know, they might work. __________________ "Fo Sho" - Obie Trice

10th Dec 2011, 04:22 PM	#3
TheJoker Clown Prince of EC Full Member Gender: clown Orientation: bats Out Status: Not out at all Location: Circus Posts: 416 Join Date: Feb 2011	Re: cold feet Just like how you should talk with anybody. There is no thing as how to talk with a female or male. Be kind,warm and don't try to impress them. And let them talk. Listen them..at least try. Being cheerful and naughty is bonus.

10th Dec 2011, 06:54 PM	#4
m1dl0f3 Newbie Regular Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: All but family Location: Albuquerque, NM Posts: 2 Join Date: Dec 2011	Re: cold feet TheJoker makes excellent points. The main thing is to be relaxed in order to make them feel relaxed talking with you. Also, don't be afraid of a silence, when warranted. There will be times in a conversation where you need to listen and allow her to express her thoughts to which you must be listening in order to reply appropriately. Females, as do most people, despise feeling like their voices are not being heard. I wish you the best of luck in your next encounter with said females!

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