Did you/ Have you ever dated anyone before ? - Empty Closets - A safe online community for gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgendered people coming out

dennisvkn · 14th Dec 2011, 08:33 PM

I've dated 4 girls, my taste is changed, now I want a dude

If you haven't then at least tell me if you have a crush on someone

Prove you are not :

14th Dec 2011, 08:40 PM

Have a crush on a german kid I know but might be changing. Lol

LdSlnce · 14th Dec 2011, 10:12 PM

Yes...I have, but they were all guys so I could "correct myself and get straight. So it was an unhappy time. And I hardly consider them relationships. So...

I'm living a cliche by having a crush on my straight friend

kellymporta · 14th Dec 2011, 10:23 PM

Can't date because I'm way deep into the closet.

Allegro molto · 14th Dec 2011, 10:24 PM

...funny a thread like this should pop up today....No, I haven't dated anyone....everyone I've liked (gay or straight) has gotten snatched up by someone else even if I liked them first.

breakingboxes · 14th Dec 2011, 10:33 PM

been in a committed relationship for 2 years...

cBuilding · 14th Dec 2011, 10:34 PM

I remember dating a girl for about 4 years. I was a cheap boyfriend, since the fanciest we ever did was go to Fridays, and then I think we did a movie, afterwards. She's in a wheelchair, and even after we broke up, we're still good friends.

Uniboth · 14th Dec 2011, 11:39 PM

Sort of... never official though and with girls. Felt too guilty to go for it... I didn't want to mess them up.

14th Dec 2011, 11:48 PM

No, I haven't.

But I have a crush on a not so straight friend.

Countervail · 14th Dec 2011, 11:52 PM

Never dated anyone,

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but I have a crush on this girl and that guy xD

Daisy1 · 15th Dec 2011, 09:03 AM

Dated plenty of boys in the past. In the early stages of dating girls. I've gone out with 2 so far but just a couple of dates each.

Danielle · 15th Dec 2011, 10:27 AM

Been in one relationship. Very glad it went nowhere though.

I am more of a socially awkward penguin than forever alone.

needshelp · 15th Dec 2011, 10:30 AM

never dated anybody before. could have dated some girls or women that were interested in me but i wasn't interested in them at all. i guess i could have dated some guys as well but during the time, i was so far in the closet that i wasn't even trying to go there. they must have saw something in me that i knew about but i didn't have the balls to deal with at the time. if i didn't graduate college and have all this time on my hands, i don't think i would be here now.

but with that said, i used to be very envious and sometimes i get a bit envious at those around me that were able to go on dates, get boyfriends and girlfriends, have sex, friends with benefits and etc. the reason for that was i was frustrated with myself because i was trying to be someone who i wasn't. i would cry and complain about not getting any girls yet i didn't want them to begin with. i was more interested in guys. this lead to me just becoming a woman hater saying women were this, women were that blaming them for the reason why i couldn't get with them. so i guess i was trying to make up an excuse to cover up who i really was. now things are different.

another thing too, i'm actually sort of nervous about dating, having sex and being in a relationship but at the same time, i feel at ease because now i know my heart is in the right place and i could possibly experience love. i know i can't love a woman like i can love a man.

Hexagon · 15th Dec 2011, 11:13 AM

I've never dated anyone. I kissed a boy when I was seven. I may be in love with my best friend (who has a boyfriend currently and doesn't consider me eligible anyway). I had a major crush on a friend from my old life in another country.

malachite · 15th Dec 2011, 11:20 AM

There are few guys I like, unfortunately they don't like me

FleetFish · 15th Dec 2011, 01:30 PM

I dated a guy for a little over a year. We were best friends for a couple years before that. It was a nice experience, but ran its course.

My BBFL and I are kind of like an old married couple. I am pretty sure we were married in a past life, but not happily. We nearly try to kill each other every other month or so, but give it a week and we are fine again. Probably by the time gay marriage is legal for us, we will have both matured enough to make it work.

Rooni321 · 15th Dec 2011, 02:27 PM

I've dated way too many boys for my own good. I could never stay faithful.

Now I'm in a relationship with a wonderful girl and there's honestly no one else I'd rather be with.
<3

DoctorWho · 15th Dec 2011, 02:38 PM

I have dated 2 girls one of them twice. Broke up with both but still good friends with them. and there are some guys I like but they don't like me unfortunately. Well you never know anything is possible.

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Quote:

Originally Posted by malachite

There are few guys I like, unfortunately they don't like me

Same here

Weswi · 15th Dec 2011, 02:56 PM

When i got a crush on someone they are usually straight or not interested in me...

dennisvkn · 15th Dec 2011, 03:44 PM

Quote:

When i got a crush on someone they are usually straight or not interested in me...

We all love straight men

14th Dec 2011, 08:33 PM	#1
dennisvkn EC Addict Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Bi (Kinsey 3-4) 70% Gay Out Status: Almost everyone but family. Location: FL Age: 15 Posts: 181 Join Date: Dec 2011	Did you/ Have you ever dated anyone before ? I've dated 4 girls, my taste is changed, now I want a dude If you haven't then at least tell me if you have a crush on someone Prove you are not :

14th Dec 2011, 08:40 PM	#2
theatergeek101 Guest Posts: n/a	Re: Did you/ Have you ever dated anyone before ? Have a crush on a german kid I know but might be changing. Lol

14th Dec 2011, 10:12 PM	#3
LdSlnce Banned Regular Member Gender: Fancy Orientation: I like who I like Out Status: It's getting complicated! Location: Not On Your Street Posts: 153 Join Date: Dec 2011	Re: Did you/ Have you ever dated anyone before ? Yes...I have, but they were all guys so I could "correct myself and get straight. So it was an unhappy time. And I hardly consider them relationships. So... I'm living a cliche by having a crush on my straight friend

14th Dec 2011, 10:23 PM	#4
kellymporta EC Addict Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Not out at all Location: South America Age: 23 Posts: 265 Join Date: Nov 2011	Re: Did you/ Have you ever dated anyone before ? Can't date because I'm way deep into the closet.

14th Dec 2011, 10:24 PM	#5
Allegro molto Kyoufu wo oshiete yarou. Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Kinsey 6 (100% Gay) Out Status: Officially told 1 person! Posts: 2,334 Join Date: Apr 2011	Re: Did you/ Have you ever dated anyone before ? ...funny a thread like this should pop up today....No, I haven't dated anyone....everyone I've liked (gay or straight) has gotten snatched up by someone else even if I liked them first. __________________ In the end, I always end up alone.

14th Dec 2011, 10:33 PM	#6
breakingboxes Happily Married. :) Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Lesbian Out Status: Out to everyone Location: USA Age: 21 Posts: 438 Join Date: Nov 2011	Re: Did you/ Have you ever dated anyone before ? been in a committed relationship for 2 years...

14th Dec 2011, 10:34 PM	#7
cBuilding Lurker Full Member Gender: What's that? O.o Orientation: Not straight Out Status: Well, now you know. +1 Location: IL Age: 18 Posts: 104 Join Date: Oct 2011	Re: Did you/ Have you ever dated anyone before ? I remember dating a girl for about 4 years. I was a cheap boyfriend, since the fanciest we ever did was go to Fridays, and then I think we did a movie, afterwards. She's in a wheelchair, and even after we broke up, we're still good friends.

14th Dec 2011, 11:39 PM	#8
Uniboth Well Known Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Not out at all Posts: 138 Join Date: Jul 2011	Re: Did you/ Have you ever dated anyone before ? Sort of... never official though and with girls. Felt too guilty to go for it... I didn't want to mess them up.

14th Dec 2011, 11:48 PM	#9
MadSeed Guest Posts: n/a	Re: Did you/ Have you ever dated anyone before ? No, I haven't. But I have a crush on a not so straight friend.

14th Dec 2011, 11:52 PM	#10
Countervail EC Addict Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Questioning Out Status: Not out at all Location: Philippines Age: 16 Posts: 255 Join Date: Dec 2011	Re: Did you/ Have you ever dated anyone before ? Never dated anyone, ---------- Post added 15th Dec 2011 at 03:52 PM ---------- but I have a crush on this girl and that guy xD

15th Dec 2011, 09:03 AM	#11
Daisy1 EC Addict Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Girls Out Status: Pretty much out! Location: East Coast Age: 26 Posts: 307 Join Date: Aug 2011	Re: Did you/ Have you ever dated anyone before ? Dated plenty of boys in the past. In the early stages of dating girls. I've gone out with 2 so far but just a couple of dates each.

15th Dec 2011, 10:27 AM	#12
Danielle EC Addict Full Member Gender: Transgender - MtF Orientation: Lesbian Out Status: Most people Location: NSW, Australia Age: 19 Posts: 525 Join Date: Aug 2008	Re: Did you/ Have you ever dated anyone before ? Been in one relationship. Very glad it went nowhere though. I am more of a socially awkward penguin than forever alone. __________________ Homophobia is gay.

15th Dec 2011, 10:30 AM	#13
needshelp really likes you Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: out to some, not family and friends though Location: in a closet near you Age: 25 Posts: 691 Join Date: Sep 2011	Re: Did you/ Have you ever dated anyone before ? never dated anybody before. could have dated some girls or women that were interested in me but i wasn't interested in them at all. i guess i could have dated some guys as well but during the time, i was so far in the closet that i wasn't even trying to go there. they must have saw something in me that i knew about but i didn't have the balls to deal with at the time. if i didn't graduate college and have all this time on my hands, i don't think i would be here now. but with that said, i used to be very envious and sometimes i get a bit envious at those around me that were able to go on dates, get boyfriends and girlfriends, have sex, friends with benefits and etc. the reason for that was i was frustrated with myself because i was trying to be someone who i wasn't. i would cry and complain about not getting any girls yet i didn't want them to begin with. i was more interested in guys. this lead to me just becoming a woman hater saying women were this, women were that blaming them for the reason why i couldn't get with them. so i guess i was trying to make up an excuse to cover up who i really was. now things are different. another thing too, i'm actually sort of nervous about dating, having sex and being in a relationship but at the same time, i feel at ease because now i know my heart is in the right place and i could possibly experience love. i know i can't love a woman like i can love a man. Last edited by needshelp; 15th Dec 2011 at 10:34 AM..

15th Dec 2011, 11:13 AM	#14
Hexagon Bright Spark Full Member Gender: ?TM transguy Orientation: Panromantic Asexual Out Status: Pending review Location: Somerset, UK Age: 17 Posts: 1,051 Join Date: May 2011	Re: Did you/ Have you ever dated anyone before ? I've never dated anyone. I kissed a boy when I was seven. I may be in love with my best friend (who has a boyfriend currently and doesn't consider me eligible anyway). I had a major crush on a friend from my old life in another country. __________________ When god has low self-esteem, does that make him an atheist?

15th Dec 2011, 11:20 AM	#15
malachite EC's realist Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Orlando Posts: 6,480 Join Date: Apr 2009	Re: Did you/ Have you ever dated anyone before ? There are few guys I like, unfortunately they don't like me __________________ It's the 21st century, your bigotry is outdated. Either upgrade or go away.

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Weswi Member Regular Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Netherlands Age: 20 Posts: 25 Join Date: Dec 2011	Re: Did you/ Have you ever dated anyone before ? When i got a crush on someone they are usually straight or not interested in me...