How do you plan on achieving your resolution? - Empty Closets - A safe online community for gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgendered people coming out

IanGallagher · 26th Dec 2011, 09:16 AM

I've always been a kid trapped in the past which has held me back from really being able to live a life that I can firmly call my own.

My Resolution: Becoming the best me possible

My plan: In the midst of speech therapy, I'm becoming understood much better. I let myself get out of shape years prior, thus this year I'm on my way to becoming my best physical self possible - I've begun working out and it has been showing. For shyness, social anxiety, I'm seeing a therapist who can test me and shove me out into the open. Professionally, I'm going to become more active in finding a job alongside writing screenplays the VP (at a top film studio) can stand behind and be proud of seeing the journey I've made under his guidance.

How will you achieve your resolutions? I've found saying something you want to do always becomes more concrete once you plan a way to make that become a reality.

Sheyceli · 26th Dec 2011, 06:13 PM

Resolution 1: Spend more time with my siblings.
Plan: Set aside more time to go out and see them, since they can't usually make it to where I live.

Resolution 2: Successfully skip my Junior classes.
Plan: Use my upper classmens' textbooks to skim over the material. Study for a certain amount of time every day over the summer and test out at the beginning of the school year.

Resolution 3: Become healthier.
Plan: Get over the 'underweight' mark by getting used to eating more food that is healthy, not sweets and things that will just fatten me up. Also, try to come up with some type of exercising thing to prepare me for gym class that I won't lose interest in and stop doing after the first month.

Resolution 4: Practice more and progress with my hobbies.
Plan: Stop procrastinating and set aside time to work on practicing my instruments. Eliminate any distractions while I am writing so that I get something done. Try different techniques for drawing. Also, research more on video game development to help myself with my own game-developing.

starfish · 26th Dec 2011, 07:58 PM

Same way I achieve any goal.

1. Analyze requirements
2. Set Plan
3. Execute.

26th Dec 2011, 09:16 AM	#1
IanGallagher The fluctuator Regular Member Gender: Male Orientation: Mutant and proud Out Status: All except work and extended family. Location: I fly as much as Superman Age: 24 Posts: 619 Join Date: Apr 2011	How do you plan on achieving your resolution? I've always been a kid trapped in the past which has held me back from really being able to live a life that I can firmly call my own. My Resolution: Becoming the best me possible My plan: In the midst of speech therapy, I'm becoming understood much better. I let myself get out of shape years prior, thus this year I'm on my way to becoming my best physical self possible - I've begun working out and it has been showing. For shyness, social anxiety, I'm seeing a therapist who can test me and shove me out into the open. Professionally, I'm going to become more active in finding a job alongside writing screenplays the VP (at a top film studio) can stand behind and be proud of seeing the journey I've made under his guidance. How will you achieve your resolutions? I've found saying something you want to do always becomes more concrete once you plan a way to make that become a reality.

26th Dec 2011, 06:13 PM	#2
Sheyceli lieks Mudkipz Full Member Gender: physically female Orientation: homoromantic asexual Out Status: one friend Location: Michigan Age: 16 Posts: 541 Join Date: Mar 2011	Re: How do you plan on achieving your resolution? Resolution 1: Spend more time with my siblings. Plan: Set aside more time to go out and see them, since they can't usually make it to where I live. Resolution 2: Successfully skip my Junior classes. Plan: Use my upper classmens' textbooks to skim over the material. Study for a certain amount of time every day over the summer and test out at the beginning of the school year. Resolution 3: Become healthier. Plan: Get over the 'underweight' mark by getting used to eating more food that is healthy, not sweets and things that will just fatten me up. Also, try to come up with some type of exercising thing to prepare me for gym class that I won't lose interest in and stop doing after the first month. Resolution 4: Practice more and progress with my hobbies. Plan: Stop procrastinating and set aside time to work on practicing my instruments. Eliminate any distractions while I am writing so that I get something done. Try different techniques for drawing. Also, research more on video game development to help myself with my own game-developing. __________________ "Special doesn't have many kids, so the class is very close. The family feeling is greater here than anywhere else. They call us "weirdos" and "trash", but that doesn't mean anything. Don't struggle to keep up a facade for rankings or fitting in. Just live your life to the fullest!" -T. A.

26th Dec 2011, 07:58 PM	#3
starfish This space for lease. Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: I like guys Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Hippie Town, Alberta of the US Age: 31 Posts: 2,109 Join Date: Nov 2008	Re: How do you plan on achieving your resolution? Same way I achieve any goal. 1. Analyze requirements 2. Set Plan 3. Execute. __________________ All the problems of the world could be settled easily if men were only willing to think. The trouble is that men very often resort to all sorts of devices in order not to think, because thinking is such hard work. --Thomas J. Watson

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