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Old 26th Dec 2011, 08:51 PM   #1
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So never saw them before on here and this is how spot on it is. Eevery step that I read is exactly what I went through, which is awesome because I have an idea of what to expect next. When I was reading them I was just like damn they're good
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Old 27th Dec 2011, 11:15 AM   #2
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I must confess... I had to search where they were stashed away again before finding them.

For the record, though: don't expect them to all happen in that fixed order. Some people skip a few or do them in different orders. I know people who told their family before telling other friends. Personally I never had any kind of sexual exploration phase and only really got to the pride part after telling most of the people I knew.

Still, knowing there's balance at the end isn't too bad
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Old 27th Dec 2011, 06:50 PM   #3
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I like the order. Before reading it i wanted to get into a relationship then tell my family, because i think a partner will offer support and help. And before any step i think acceptence is a must, i think i'm on step 3 or 4. All i need now is a Boyfriend :P Lol
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Well seeing as how I was in the closet when I begun my relationship, things certainly haven't gone in that order for me.
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