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djstcktn326 · 31st Dec 2011, 05:56 PM

My New Years resolutions are to

lose 100 lbs.,
get my drivers license,
treat everybody on earth like I love them to death,
stand up for myself,
find out what the heck I want to do for the rest of my life,
and to find myself

Well that's basically it. What are your New Years resolutions?

Emberstone · 31st Dec 2011, 06:38 PM

transform my six pack abs into more sharply defined 8 pack abs, and start dating.

Black Cat · 31st Dec 2011, 07:15 PM

1) Get a job again.
2) Hoard all cash from said job so I can finally start living.
3) Finish getting my license.

That's pretty much it, with #2 being the most important. I can't do it unless I finish 1 and 3 though. I'd also like to fit back into my jeans from this past summer, but that's not a resolution. And the way things are going; I might move out too. Like so many others, I'd also like to start dating, but that's not a top priority.

**Lexington** · 31st Dec 2011, 07:21 PM

Part of me wants to start dieting again, but I absolutely suck at dieting in cold weather. (Eat a salad during a snowstorm? Ick.) So I decided to save that part for warmer weather. Instead, I'd like to focus on three things.

1. Exercise at least 30 minutes every day.
2. Rebuild my list of "chores", get a schedule going, and stick with it.
3. Let my partner know how much I love him at least once a day. (Yeah, I know - awww.)

I've actually gotten a headstart on two of these. I've gotten in 30 minutes of exercise every day since Christmas (got 70 in today!). Also I downloaded an "errands" app for my phone, entered in every chore I have to do, and schedule it to repeat as often as I need to. (Laundry once a week, dishes every other day...) Now I just need to work on #3.

Lex

biisme · 31st Dec 2011, 08:58 PM

1. Get a job so I don't have to live off $5 a month...
2. If possible..... get a car.
3. Figure out what I'm going to do when I graduate.
4. Lose weight and become more fit.
5. Figure out my love life.

andersonh09 · 31st Dec 2011, 09:10 PM

I'm not huge on resolutions, but I'd like to tell the girl I love how I feel about her, as she has no idea I like her.

IanGallagher · 31st Dec 2011, 09:10 PM

To continue on my path towards becoming the man I was always destined to be.

1. Get further into shape, I went from a large to a medium in one month.
2. To fully merge and understand the merge of my biological and adoptive sides.
3. To finalize the scripts that the VP at a top film studio can fully stand behind.
4. To have 20 seconds of courage. ('We Bought a Zoo' reference)

I think I can this time though, started the new year saying goodbye to my past. And now it's all about looking forward.

nerdvain · 31st Dec 2011, 09:18 PM

To kill Ulfric without further empowering the Thalmor.
It's gonna be a toughie.

19boy · 31st Dec 2011, 10:19 PM

Mine are:

1. Come out to my family.
2. Get a boyfriend.
3. Start doing well in College.

Raug · 31st Dec 2011, 10:27 PM

1. Come out
2. Convince mom I can date the 17 year old she just met
3. Date him~

Emberstone · 31st Dec 2011, 10:47 PM

oh, and forgot the eternal resolution: MORE COWBELL!

starfish · 31st Dec 2011, 11:03 PM

I am putting the final touches on my plan. Looks like the initial phase is going to take about 24 months.

First up is Operation Nebula which is in preparation for Operation Light Star. I figure Operation Nebula with take 6-9 months.

Operation Light Star, will mark a rather significant change in my life and with luck will fulfill a life long dream.

AngelicDemonic · 31st Dec 2011, 11:59 PM

Be less of a pervert. I dont' see this working but worth a shot

Raug · 1st Jan 2012, 12:41 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by AngelicDemonic

Be less of a pervert. I dont' see this working but worth a shot

haha that'd be nice if I could do that

stupidIvan · 1st Jan 2012, 12:58 AM

1. More yooooooooga and exercise period!
2. Less computer time and less video games
3. Start working
4. Actually take CARE of my BJDs & American porcelain dolls. :::: ( I have so much damage control to do, I left them alone with no maintenance for soooooooo long!

**Maddy** · 1st Jan 2012, 12:59 AM

I don't make resolutions, but I'd like to work on my self-esteem, and hopefully make things happen with the girl in my life.

midwestgirl89 · 1st Jan 2012, 01:06 AM

Hmm
1. Exercise more.
2. Come out to my best friend and my sister. And possibly come out to more people than that. My resolution when I was 18 was come out to everyone so I'll make the resolution a little less overwhelming.
3. Have more fun and relax.

Ridiculous · 1st Jan 2012, 01:18 AM

Am I a bad person?
I'm pretty sure the answer is "yes."

Colton · 1st Jan 2012, 01:46 AM

To stop being a whore >_>

..just kidding.

If I were to have one, it would be to be less rude to people I don't like.

NoName114 · 1st Jan 2012, 02:00 AM

To stop cutting and being pessmitic and start enjoying life for once in my life (hehe life in life)

31st Dec 2011, 05:56 PM	#1
djstcktn326 Well Known Full Member Gender: Very very very very feminine man. <3 Orientation: Gay Out Status: Some people Location: Maryland Age: 20 Posts: 107 Join Date: Oct 2011	What are your New Year's resolutions? My New Years resolutions are to lose 100 lbs., get my drivers license, treat everybody on earth like I love them to death, stand up for myself, find out what the heck I want to do for the rest of my life, and to find myself Well that's basically it. What are your New Years resolutions?

31st Dec 2011, 07:21 PM	#4
Lexington The gay gargoyle EC Advisor Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Colorado Age: 42 Posts: 12,372 Join Date: Dec 2007	Re: What are your New Year's resolutions? Part of me wants to start dieting again, but I absolutely suck at dieting in cold weather. (Eat a salad during a snowstorm? Ick.) So I decided to save that part for warmer weather. Instead, I'd like to focus on three things. 1. Exercise at least 30 minutes every day. 2. Rebuild my list of "chores", get a schedule going, and stick with it. 3. Let my partner know how much I love him at least once a day. (Yeah, I know - awww.) I've actually gotten a headstart on two of these. I've gotten in 30 minutes of exercise every day since Christmas (got 70 in today!). Also I downloaded an "errands" app for my phone, entered in every chore I have to do, and schedule it to repeat as often as I need to. (Laundry once a week, dishes every other day...) Now I just need to work on #3. Lex

31st Dec 2011, 08:58 PM	#5
biisme Call me Katie Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Bisexual Out Status: Ask me and I'll tell you. Location: Lincoln, Rhode Island Age: 20 Posts: 8,119 Join Date: Oct 2007	Re: What are your New Year's resolutions? 1. Get a job so I don't have to live off $5 a month... 2. If possible..... get a car. 3. Figure out what I'm going to do when I graduate. 4. Lose weight and become more fit. 5. Figure out my love life. __________________ From BIG problems to little problems, from broken hearts to broken shoelaces, I really do care. Feel free to PM me anytime about anything. I want to know.

31st Dec 2011, 09:10 PM	#6
andersonh09 Member Regular Member Gender: Female Orientation: Lesbian Out Status: Out to most people Location: New England Age: 21 Posts: 87 Join Date: Dec 2011	Re: What are your New Year's resolutions? I'm not huge on resolutions, but I'd like to tell the girl I love how I feel about her, as she has no idea I like her. __________________ "Don't be afraid to try new things. Remember, amateurs built the arch and professionals built the titanic."

31st Dec 2011, 09:10 PM	#7
IanGallagher The fluctuator Regular Member Gender: Male Orientation: Mutant and proud Out Status: All except work and extended family. Location: I fly as much as Superman Age: 24 Posts: 619 Join Date: Apr 2011	Re: What are your New Year's resolutions? To continue on my path towards becoming the man I was always destined to be. 1. Get further into shape, I went from a large to a medium in one month. 2. To fully merge and understand the merge of my biological and adoptive sides. 3. To finalize the scripts that the VP at a top film studio can fully stand behind. 4. To have 20 seconds of courage. ('We Bought a Zoo' reference) I think I can this time though, started the new year saying goodbye to my past. And now it's all about looking forward.

31st Dec 2011, 06:38 PM	#2
Emberstone Flappychap Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Oregon, USA Age: 28 Posts: 5,599 Join Date: May 2008	Re: What are your New Year's resolutions? transform my six pack abs into more sharply defined 8 pack abs, and start dating. __________________ TYPE YOUR NAME: Cory. TYPE YOUR NAME WITH YOUR ELBOW: vcoiptryu SLAM YOUR FACE ON THE KEYBOARD: About three things I was absolutely positive. First, Edward was a vampire. Second, there was a part of him - and I didn't know how potent that part might be - that thirsted for my blood. And third, I was unconditionally and irrevocably in love with him.

31st Dec 2011, 07:15 PM	#3
Black Cat As Seen On Hoarders... Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: This cat is out of the bag - I mean closet Location: Pennsylvania, with the cows Age: 21 Posts: 2,391 Join Date: Jun 2009	Re: What are your New Year's resolutions? 1) Get a job again. 2) Hoard all cash from said job so I can finally start living. 3) Finish getting my license. That's pretty much it, with #2 being the most important. I can't do it unless I finish 1 and 3 though. I'd also like to fit back into my jeans from this past summer, but that's not a resolution. And the way things are going; I might move out too. Like so many others, I'd also like to start dating, but that's not a top priority. __________________ "Your life is an occasion. Rise to it." - Mr. Magorium

31st Dec 2011, 09:18 PM	#8
nerdvain Well Known Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Philadelphia area Posts: 124 Join Date: Sep 2011	Re: What are your New Year's resolutions? To kill Ulfric without further empowering the Thalmor. It's gonna be a toughie.

31st Dec 2011, 10:19 PM	#9
19boy Member Regular Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Only to my sister so far Location: Buenos Aires, Argentina Age: 20 Posts: 65 Join Date: Sep 2011	Re: What are your New Year's resolutions? Mine are: 1. Come out to my family. 2. Get a boyfriend. 3. Start doing well in College.

31st Dec 2011, 10:27 PM	#10
Raug Silent in secret Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Pansexual Out Status: Retreating to my walk in... Location: Mid-Michigan USA Age: 15 Posts: 225 Join Date: Dec 2011	Re: What are your New Year's resolutions? 1. Come out 2. Convince mom I can date the 17 year old she just met 3. Date him~ __________________ I am the patriarch

31st Dec 2011, 10:47 PM	#11
Emberstone Flappychap Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Oregon, USA Age: 28 Posts: 5,599 Join Date: May 2008	Re: What are your New Year's resolutions? oh, and forgot the eternal resolution: MORE COWBELL! __________________ TYPE YOUR NAME: Cory. TYPE YOUR NAME WITH YOUR ELBOW: vcoiptryu SLAM YOUR FACE ON THE KEYBOARD: About three things I was absolutely positive. First, Edward was a vampire. Second, there was a part of him - and I didn't know how potent that part might be - that thirsted for my blood. And third, I was unconditionally and irrevocably in love with him.

31st Dec 2011, 11:03 PM	#12
starfish This space for lease. Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: I like guys Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Hippie Town, Alberta of the US Age: 31 Posts: 2,109 Join Date: Nov 2008	Re: What are your New Year's resolutions? I am putting the final touches on my plan. Looks like the initial phase is going to take about 24 months. First up is Operation Nebula which is in preparation for Operation Light Star. I figure Operation Nebula with take 6-9 months. Operation Light Star, will mark a rather significant change in my life and with luck will fulfill a life long dream. __________________ All the problems of the world could be settled easily if men were only willing to think. The trouble is that men very often resort to all sorts of devices in order not to think, because thinking is such hard work. --Thomas J. Watson

31st Dec 2011, 11:59 PM	#13
AngelicDemonic Fire? Regular Member Gender: Girlygirl Orientation: Boobs nod Out Status: Ask, I tell. Location: PA Age: 13 Posts: 123 Join Date: Jul 2011	Re: What are your New Year's resolutions? Be less of a pervert. I dont' see this working but worth a shot __________________ Toi et moi sommes pareils, tout comme la Terre et le Ciel; une seule famille sous le Soleil.

1st Jan 2012, 12:58 AM	#15
stupidIvan I like hoodies. Full Member Gender: A masculine Genderqueer of some sort. Orientation: I don't really know right now. Out Status: My mother and sister, in a way. Location: Texas, yee-haw! Age: 17 Posts: 333 Join Date: Dec 2011	Re: What are your New Year's resolutions? 1. More yooooooooga and exercise period! 2. Less computer time and less video games 3. Start working 4. Actually take CARE of my BJDs & American porcelain dolls. :::: ( I have so much damage control to do, I left them alone with no maintenance for soooooooo long!

1st Jan 2012, 12:59 AM	#16
Maddy Free Hugs EC Admin Gender: - Orientation: Into girls Location: Melbourne, Australia Age: 21 Posts: 7,704 Join Date: Mar 2008	Re: What are your New Year's resolutions? I don't make resolutions, but I'd like to work on my self-esteem, and hopefully make things happen with the girl in my life. __________________ how strange it is to be anything at all [Victor] 2:09 pm: and then halloween happened and I was outside in a skirt.

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midwestgirl89 EC Addict Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Interested in Women Out Status: Some people Age: 23 Posts: 559 Join Date: Jul 2011	Re: What are your New Year's resolutions? Hmm 1. Exercise more. 2. Come out to my best friend and my sister. And possibly come out to more people than that. My resolution when I was 18 was come out to everyone so I'll make the resolution a little less overwhelming. 3. Have more fun and relax.

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1st Jan 2012, 01:46 AM	#19
Colton Hit the Lights Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Any one who wants to know Location: California Age: 15 Posts: 1,210 Join Date: Jan 2010	Re: What are your New Year's resolutions? To stop being a whore >_> ..just kidding. If I were to have one, it would be to be less rude to people I don't like. __________________ "It's always been about me, myself, and I. I thought relationships were nothing but a waste of time. I never wanted to be anybody's other half. I was happy saying I know love, it wouldn't last." <3

1st Jan 2012, 02:00 AM	#20
NoName114 Dorian Grey-ish Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: committed to a amazing guy Age: 15 Posts: 214 Join Date: Oct 2011	Re: What are your New Year's resolutions? To stop cutting and being pessmitic and start enjoying life for once in my life (hehe life in life)