The R-Word

There is a 'professional' use for the word retard - in the automotive trade (or other trades using internal combustion engines),when one sets the ignition timing of an engine, one has to advance or retard - bring forward or back respectively - the timing from a starting point to get proper engine performance. Where it originally stems from I don't know; but yes there is a technically correct application of the word.

Beyond that, I tend to think people are far too fussy about words; actions are more of a concern.

 

I generally try to avoid offensive language when my intention is not to cause offense.

 

The funny thing is (we not really funny, but definately ironic) is that the kinds of people who used to be given the designation of 'retarded' tend to have far higher IQ's than the so called 'Normal people'.

When one part of the brain is under developed, other parts tend to be overdeveloped to make up for it. it is just that sometimes, the under developed part of the brain is a communication center, and so they cannot always easily express their pronounced intelligence.

 

... i don't like saying it, but sometimes it is simply just the only suitable word

let's say for my brother perhaps

 

i hate the R word with all my soul

 

just tell him to 'stop being such a Palin.'

... it is very effective in most circles.

 

i actually LOVE my brother and we play around.... i do have a really hard time using that word and seldom do

 

For me? I know it can be used as an insult, and it makes me squeemish when people use it like that. On the other hand, it is also used as a "base word", if you will, for cognitive delays and diagnoses... mentally retarded and mental retardation.

 

Retard means to delay or to slow. So the word is correct in that usage. I use the word retard, but only in the correct meaning of the word.

 

same, sometimes i accidently say it but usually just use it as in somethings growth has stopped.

 

Except you're talking to Monty Python fans :icon_wink

 

I don't like any words which relates to being stupid, like dumbarse etc

 

I used to say it all the time, but I've made it a goal in recent to be as respectful as I can, even in everyday speech. Honestly, "retard" or "retarded" will slip out of my mouth (or fingers if typing), but I usually catch myself and take it back.

 

A variation of that word that I heard on tv (which I've found myself using instead) is "fucktard". I suppose it might be just as offensive since the end part of that word is so similar to the original, but I don't feel as bad about saying it since people haven't used that particular word to categorize/slander a group of people. I dunno. Words only have as much power and meaning as people give them.

You could just use "shitty" or some other variation instead, since I don't think pieces of shit will be offended :icon_wink

 

I hate when people use 'gay' or 'retarded' to describe what they disike.

 

Also in music, same general idea.

It slips out far more than it should, i admit this. I do try to catch it before it comes out...

---------- Post added 10th Jan 2012 at 05:55 PM ----------

bachman, then?

 

Re - to
Tardus - delay
Latin: retardus - to delay.
Music : to slow down.
Slang : a perosn with a stupid action or choice of words.
Only two of those of those are acceptable. Latin and music ( latin may have a irk but been a while since I studied / used it)