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why do they say in the closet?

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  1. javgier

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    why not say hiding under the bed? i think i would like to hide under the bed more then in the closet..... ive been locked in a closet before... and it was scary.... can i hide behind a tree? i think "hiding in plain sight" seems more reasonable... because were trying to seem straight? seem part of the crowd? the whole gay/bi/straight thing seems so groupy.... so why not "hide in plain sight"?
     
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    As you can see over on the left what mine is.
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    I prefer that term because I am so often in bed :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    It is derived from the saying "skeleton in the closet" I believe, referring to a secret that would damage someone's reputation if it was found out.

    Now where "skeleton in the closet" came from, I don't know.
     
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    because skeletons refer to what's on the inside, sort of like a facade you cant hide no matter what
     
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    That, or because some like it standing up? :wink:
     
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    Yes, but why in a closet? :confused2:

    Ok, etymology time...
    Origin:1800's. Refers to a literal corpse contained in a house, whose presence you are trying to keep secret from others, presumably because you murdered the person and you don't want to punished for it. Then evolved into meaning a secret in general, not an actual hidden body.

    source: http://www.phrases.org.uk/meanings/skeleton-in-the-closet.html (and it even has a little bit at the bottom mentioning how it relates to the LGBT version of closeted)

    I assume closets were perfectly built for containing dead bodies for long periods back then.

    That too.
     
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    and wiki saves that day O.e that was alot to load into my brain but lol im glad i know now XD
     
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    also, saying 'hiding under the bed' implies we are monsters...
     
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    monsters hide in the closet 2....... XD
     
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    Why not just say something like keeping everyone in the dark?
    When coming out say IM TURNING THE DAMN LIGHTS ON!!!
    lol I have no idea what I am saying...in the closet is a wierd way to put it though.
     
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    Gaga seems to think we are.