What type of girl are you? - Empty Closets - A safe online community for gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgendered people coming out

Charni · 20th Jan 2012, 09:03 PM

I am a girly girl for sure. I haven't tried make up but I think I would like it. I love to do girly things. What about you?

Rooni321 · 20th Jan 2012, 09:39 PM

I'm a super girly girl. I love doing my hair and makeup and I love shopping and baking and wearing dresses! But at the same time I like camping, and building things, and sports, and getting in the dirt and flirting with everyone like a sleezy guy haha

Charni · 20th Jan 2012, 09:45 PM

You like doing make up? I'll have to ask you some questions some time then!

Rooni321 · 20th Jan 2012, 09:52 PM

Oh definately! Ask me anything about makeup I LOVE it!

midwestgirl89 · 20th Jan 2012, 09:59 PM

I'm not sure tbh. I'm kind of in-between. I like some girly things and some "non-girly" things lol. I like being outside, exercising, rollerblading, and I don't like wearing heels or anything like that. I prefer Converse for sure. I hatttte shopping for clothes, lol. And I couldn't do someone else's makeup or cook properly if my life depended on it. (Sorry lol) I take drum lessons although I suck. I guess that's not a girly girl thing to do.

I have long hair and I look more feminine than masculine. I wear dresses if the occasion calls for it. Plus I wear a purse. And I listen to girly music I guess? Musicals, pop, etc. I wear girl clothing. I'm a nerd, I'll just say that. I am me, lol. Idk what kind of girl I am. Just a girl. Haha. I wish I had your good sense with makeup and fashion.

Chouchou · 20th Jan 2012, 10:14 PM

Not very feminine at all--very tomboyish, actually. Makeup, dresses, miniskirts, high heels, most accessories and jewelry--I dislike wearing them. I don't like lace, sequins, frills, or ruffles. I'm messy, and usually don't give a crap about how my short hair looks as long as it's not sticking out awkwardly. Excessive pink, hearts, pouty lips, sappy romcoms, giggling over cute guys, mani-pedis, spa treatments, sexy lingerie: nope. Can't. cook to save my life (my DAD is the best cook I know)

Give me a t-shirt or polo, a pair of jeans, and a pair of sneakers, and I'm good. I would like to to become a computer geek, and play guitar and drums. I love video games (including racing games like F-Zero GX) and PC games. I want to own a motorcycle.

Compassion, empathy, sensitivity, tolerance: I do consider myself to have these traits that are considered to be traditionally feminine, but ought to be encouraged in everyone. I'm also somewhat of a feminist.

Charni · 20th Jan 2012, 10:20 PM

I posted on your wall.

ESevee · 21st Jan 2012, 01:44 AM

Girly girl

sokk · 21st Jan 2012, 03:53 AM

I'm not a girly girl, but I'm not a tomboy either.. I'm not a butch lesbian for sure, I do wear make up, I do care about what I wear, I have long hair etc. I mostly fall for femmes lesbians. BUT I have some "male traits".. like I can't stand chick flicks and mostly just watch action or thriller, I don't dress up that often, but I do it on big occasions of course, but at home for example.. you can see me walking around in sweats, I don't have to look good all the time, if that makes sense :P I also have more guy friends than girl friends, I guess I'm leaning more to the femme side, but with some boyish traits.. lol.

That said.. NOBODY in this city really cares about what they wear, because it rains 250 days a year.. the fashion here is rubber boots and rain coat. People here are more laid back.. people care more about staying dry than about looking good, and that's how it should be imo.

FleetFish · 21st Jan 2012, 04:46 AM

At least, that is how I am in my head. Also how I try to be. Not sure if that is the impression other people get, though!

BroadwayDreamer · 21st Jan 2012, 04:47 AM

Crooning summed myself up.

---------- Post added 21st Jan 2012 at 06:48 AM ----------

Rooni, sorry, my Kindle sucks.

Fugs · 21st Jan 2012, 04:56 AM

I'm a gamer girl :3

thedreamwatch · 21st Jan 2012, 09:58 AM

Well, I spend most of my time with the guys, love "dick flicks" (action movies, thrillers, often containing gratuitous violence, explosions and boobs), and I really wear mostly guy clothes, but I have kind of a girly haircut.

I am the lesbro.

But I do do some "girly" things. When I'm nervous, I change my clothes a hundred times. I LOVE trying on fancy dresses, even if I'm not going to buy or wear them.

xXPsychedelicXx · 21st Jan 2012, 10:20 AM

Meh. Not sure.

I suppose I look quite feminine. I wear dresses sometimes, and I love trying on high heels. Actually WEARING the high heels out in public is a totally different story though. I hate it. I feel so self-conscious. I love wearing "boyfriend" shirts, jeans and sneakers. Or shorts and a cool T-shirt.

I don't like wearing make-up. I have medium length hair, but I'm dying to cut it short.

I don't like sports at all. I'm a reading and writing kinda gal. :P But give me a horror film or action movie any day. Chick flicks make me wanna pull my hair out.

I'm a mix of both, I guess. Haha! But I definitely wouldn't describe myself as "girly".

shfh · 27th Jan 2012, 07:33 AM

I think I'm the awkward stage between closeted and out. I was feminine by "necessity" so people wouldn't find out...but I don't want to be. But I like having curves and stuff and not the baggy loose boy clothes.

Right now: long hair, occasional dresses, heels and makeup.

I hate wearing dresses, heels or makeup cause I feel uncomfortable and out of place. I want looser jeans, tshirt and comfortable shoes, but all I have tight jeans and frilly boob hugging shirts.

I've always wanted a shorter hair cut (until some boys in elementry said I looked like a boy)... but still gathering up my courage.

I love sports!

... I guess I'm still just figuring it out ...

DhammaGamer · 27th Jan 2012, 07:53 AM

I'm obsessed with grooming myself and wearing fashionable clothes and makeup. I haven't purchased a pair of heels yet, but can't wait to. I swoon over shoes just a little bit more than I swoon over men. I am generally pretty girly when it comes to my fashion and general demeanor.

I'm also very intelligent and have always been kind of a nerd and a gamer. I study buddhism and psychology and love to write short stories and poetry. Most of that stuff I think is mostly gender neutral.

I like nature as well and enjoy camping and hiking. I hate fishing and hunting though, that shit is cruel. I generally hate chick flicks, but I don't like the whole action thing either. I prefer comedies, epics, dramas, and musicals ... and superhero movies lol I mostly listen to cute indie rockers sing about their ex-girlfriends, itt makes me hot (jk) lol

I'd say I'm kind of girly girl for sure, but theres a tough side too. Don't mess with me alrite?!

thecat06 · 27th Jan 2012, 08:58 AM

I'm pretty tomboyish. I mostly wear guys clothes. I love action movies and I love to watch sports. I am also majoring in a field that is still mostly male.

**Maddy** · 27th Jan 2012, 02:29 PM

I've started considering myself gender-neutral or agender. I present somewhere between feminine and masculine, I guess. I really want to be able to present as more androgynous, but my face and body are decidedly female. I never wear makeup and wear a unisex style of clothes, although I do have a female haircut.

maverick · 27th Jan 2012, 02:45 PM

The kind that's a boy.

Motorcycle-ridin', Call-of-Duty-headshot-yelpin', ballcap-rockin', chivalry-soapboxin', tattoo-sportin', dragon-slayin' save-the-princess fellow. Who happens to have been born biologically female and is slowly but surely getting over it.

But seriously though, Seth Green with tits. That's me.

waitingfordawn · 27th Jan 2012, 06:44 PM

I look femme, I just don't have the attitude of a femme quite yet. :P I'm a girly girl--I love make-up and clothes and SHOES, my God, I have a terrible love affair with shoes. I like "girly" shit and enjoy things like chick flicks and video games in equal measure, though I hate gendered terms like "chick flicks." It just reinforces how if a movie (or anything, really) is about/for men it is said to be universally appealing and a movie that is about/for women is supposed to appeal women only. Hmph.

I guess when I say I don't have the attitude of a femme it's because I don't present as such consciously--I have a lot of femme qualities in my personality, but I don't choose to identify as femme quite yet. I would say about my personality that I am confident and assertive and a bitch, but that's just me, it's always been me, it's not a conscious presentation of my gender. It's always been how I am. Like, I am a "bitch" in the way that a man would be "aggressive," I suppose; I have consciously reclaimed that word to show the dichotomy between men and women's personality traits and how they're perceived. If I'm confident and opinionated and won't back down or let anyone step all over me I am a bitch, but if I was a man that would be normal and expected of me. Same with if I was a slut, I would be vilified since I am a woman, but for men, that would be normal and expected. So. I have a femme attitude even if I don't consciously identify as such (yet).

20th Jan 2012, 09:03 PM	#1
Charni Banned Full Member Gender: Physically male, mentally everything but male. Orientation: Lesbian Out Status: My girlfriend and 8 others Location: Australia! Age: 16 Posts: 775 Join Date: Nov 2011	What type of girl are you? I am a girly girl for sure. I haven't tried make up but I think I would like it. I love to do girly things. What about you?

20th Jan 2012, 09:39 PM	#2
Rooni321 EC's Hopeless Romantic Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: gay, str8, bi Out Status: Out to everyone Location: San Francisco, California <3 Age: 17 Posts: 1,321 Join Date: Oct 2011	Re: What type of girl are you? I'm a super girly girl. I love doing my hair and makeup and I love shopping and baking and wearing dresses! But at the same time I like camping, and building things, and sports, and getting in the dirt and flirting with everyone like a sleezy guy haha __________________ "The world breaks everyone and afterward many are strong in the broken places. But those that will not break it kills. It kills the very good and the very gentle and the very brave impartially." Ernest Hemingway

20th Jan 2012, 09:45 PM	#3
Charni Banned Full Member Gender: Physically male, mentally everything but male. Orientation: Lesbian Out Status: My girlfriend and 8 others Location: Australia! Age: 16 Posts: 775 Join Date: Nov 2011	Re: What type of girl are you? You like doing make up? I'll have to ask you some questions some time then!

20th Jan 2012, 09:52 PM	#4
Rooni321 EC's Hopeless Romantic Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: gay, str8, bi Out Status: Out to everyone Location: San Francisco, California <3 Age: 17 Posts: 1,321 Join Date: Oct 2011	Re: What type of girl are you? Oh definately! Ask me anything about makeup I LOVE it! __________________ "The world breaks everyone and afterward many are strong in the broken places. But those that will not break it kills. It kills the very good and the very gentle and the very brave impartially." Ernest Hemingway

20th Jan 2012, 09:59 PM	#5
midwestgirl89 EC Addict Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Interested in Women Out Status: Some people Age: 23 Posts: 559 Join Date: Jul 2011	Re: What type of girl are you? I'm not sure tbh. I'm kind of in-between. I like some girly things and some "non-girly" things lol. I like being outside, exercising, rollerblading, and I don't like wearing heels or anything like that. I prefer Converse for sure. I hatttte shopping for clothes, lol. And I couldn't do someone else's makeup or cook properly if my life depended on it. (Sorry lol) I take drum lessons although I suck. I guess that's not a girly girl thing to do. I have long hair and I look more feminine than masculine. I wear dresses if the occasion calls for it. Plus I wear a purse. And I listen to girly music I guess? Musicals, pop, etc. I wear girl clothing. I'm a nerd, I'll just say that. I am me, lol. Idk what kind of girl I am. Just a girl. Haha. I wish I had your good sense with makeup and fashion.

20th Jan 2012, 10:14 PM	#6
Chouchou Warrior Goddess Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Homosexual (asexual?) and mostly homoromantic Out Status: To some friends, but not to family Location: Wisconsin, USA Age: 26 Posts: 1,109 Join Date: Oct 2011	Re: What type of girl are you? Not very feminine at all--very tomboyish, actually. Makeup, dresses, miniskirts, high heels, most accessories and jewelry--I dislike wearing them. I don't like lace, sequins, frills, or ruffles. I'm messy, and usually don't give a crap about how my short hair looks as long as it's not sticking out awkwardly. Excessive pink, hearts, pouty lips, sappy romcoms, giggling over cute guys, mani-pedis, spa treatments, sexy lingerie: nope. Can't. cook to save my life (my DAD is the best cook I know) Give me a t-shirt or polo, a pair of jeans, and a pair of sneakers, and I'm good. I would like to to become a computer geek, and play guitar and drums. I love video games (including racing games like F-Zero GX) and PC games. I want to own a motorcycle. Compassion, empathy, sensitivity, tolerance: I do consider myself to have these traits that are considered to be traditionally feminine, but ought to be encouraged in everyone. I'm also somewhat of a feminist. __________________ "The good neighbor looks beyond the external accidents and discerns those inner qualities that make all men human and, therefore, brothers." -- Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. Last edited by Chouchou; 20th Jan 2012 at 10:27 PM..

20th Jan 2012, 10:20 PM	#7
Charni Banned Full Member Gender: Physically male, mentally everything but male. Orientation: Lesbian Out Status: My girlfriend and 8 others Location: Australia! Age: 16 Posts: 775 Join Date: Nov 2011	Re: What type of girl are you? I posted on your wall.

21st Jan 2012, 01:44 AM	#8
ESevee Lead Vocals for Instant Classic Full Member Gender: MtF Orientation: Lesbian Out Status: A few people Location: Wisconsin Age: 20 Posts: 241 Join Date: Jan 2012	Re: What type of girl are you? Girly girl __________________ Today is the day that I go big.

21st Jan 2012, 03:53 AM	#9
sokk EC Addict Regular Member Gender: Female Orientation: Bisexual Out Status: The closet is my friend Location: Norway Age: 24 Posts: 312 Join Date: Dec 2009	Re: What type of girl are you? I'm not a girly girl, but I'm not a tomboy either.. I'm not a butch lesbian for sure, I do wear make up, I do care about what I wear, I have long hair etc. I mostly fall for femmes lesbians. BUT I have some "male traits".. like I can't stand chick flicks and mostly just watch action or thriller, I don't dress up that often, but I do it on big occasions of course, but at home for example.. you can see me walking around in sweats, I don't have to look good all the time, if that makes sense :P I also have more guy friends than girl friends, I guess I'm leaning more to the femme side, but with some boyish traits.. lol. That said.. NOBODY in this city really cares about what they wear, because it rains 250 days a year.. the fashion here is rubber boots and rain coat. People here are more laid back.. people care more about staying dry than about looking good, and that's how it should be imo. __________________ John: "Oh please.. can we not do this this time?" Sherlock: "Do what?" John: "You.. being all mysterious with your cheekbones and turning your coat collar up so you look cool." Sherlock: "I don't do that." John: "Yes, you do."

21st Jan 2012, 04:46 AM	#10
FleetFish I was following the I Full Member Gender: Whatever Orientation: Bisexual Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Ponyville Posts: 150 Join Date: Dec 2011	Re: What type of girl are you? At least, that is how I am in my head. Also how I try to be. Not sure if that is the impression other people get, though! __________________ Saw a white dog chase its tail And a pair of hearts carved into a stone I saw kindness and an angel Crying, "Take me back home, take me back home"

21st Jan 2012, 04:47 AM	#11
BroadwayDreamer Member Regular Member Gender: Female Orientation: Lip Stick Lesbian Out Status: All but family Location: Lousianna Posts: 70 Join Date: Jan 2012	Re: What type of girl are you? Crooning summed myself up. ---------- Post added 21st Jan 2012 at 06:48 AM ---------- Rooni, sorry, my Kindle sucks. __________________ "The only straight I am is straight up bitch." -Santana Lopez

21st Jan 2012, 04:56 AM	#12
Fugs EC's Local Furry Full Member Gender: Female, trans M-F (Wishes she was a kitty) Orientation: Straight Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Bowling Green, OH Age: 18 Posts: 407 Join Date: Sep 2011	Re: What type of girl are you? I'm a gamer girl :3 __________________ We love youes! Please accept a hug from us so that we can give <( ^ω^)> (≧∇≦)/ (^O^)／ (^。^) (づ｡◕‿‿◕｡)づ ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ ಠ_ರೃ your face the smile that everyone around you wants to see!

21st Jan 2012, 09:58 AM	#13
thedreamwatch Maximum Ridiculosity Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Kinsey 5. So, pretty gay. Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Wisconsin Age: 22 Posts: 1,274 Join Date: Jan 2011	Re: What type of girl are you? Well, I spend most of my time with the guys, love "dick flicks" (action movies, thrillers, often containing gratuitous violence, explosions and boobs), and I really wear mostly guy clothes, but I have kind of a girly haircut. I am the lesbro. But I do do some "girly" things. When I'm nervous, I change my clothes a hundred times. I LOVE trying on fancy dresses, even if I'm not going to buy or wear them. __________________ "I came out laughing, I came out screaming, I came out dancing..." - T&S

21st Jan 2012, 10:20 AM	#14
xXPsychedelicXx ... and the lesbians. Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Blue, pink and purple. Out Status: A few people. Age: 16 Posts: 174 Join Date: Oct 2011	Re: What type of girl are you? Meh. Not sure. I suppose I look quite feminine. I wear dresses sometimes, and I love trying on high heels. Actually WEARING the high heels out in public is a totally different story though. I hate it. I feel so self-conscious. I love wearing "boyfriend" shirts, jeans and sneakers. Or shorts and a cool T-shirt. I don't like wearing make-up. I have medium length hair, but I'm dying to cut it short. I don't like sports at all. I'm a reading and writing kinda gal. :P But give me a horror film or action movie any day. Chick flicks make me wanna pull my hair out. I'm a mix of both, I guess. Haha! But I definitely wouldn't describe myself as "girly". __________________ ... We'll write a song that turns out the lights.

27th Jan 2012, 07:33 AM	#15
shfh Well Known Full Member Gender: female ... maybe Orientation: Lesbit Out Status: really, you can't tell? Location: Canada Age: 23 Posts: 204 Join Date: Jan 2012	Re: What type of girl are you? I think I'm the awkward stage between closeted and out. I was feminine by "necessity" so people wouldn't find out...but I don't want to be. But I like having curves and stuff and not the baggy loose boy clothes. Right now: long hair, occasional dresses, heels and makeup. I hate wearing dresses, heels or makeup cause I feel uncomfortable and out of place. I want looser jeans, tshirt and comfortable shoes, but all I have tight jeans and frilly boob hugging shirts. I've always wanted a shorter hair cut (until some boys in elementry said I looked like a boy)... but still gathering up my courage. I love sports! ... I guess I'm still just figuring it out ...

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27th Jan 2012, 07:53 AM	#16
DhammaGamer EC Addict Full Member Gender: MtF Orientation: Queer <3 Out Status: The closet is falling apart around me!!! Location: Michigan Age: 25 Posts: 372 Join Date: Sep 2011	Re: What type of girl are you? I'm obsessed with grooming myself and wearing fashionable clothes and makeup. I haven't purchased a pair of heels yet, but can't wait to. I swoon over shoes just a little bit more than I swoon over men. I am generally pretty girly when it comes to my fashion and general demeanor. I'm also very intelligent and have always been kind of a nerd and a gamer. I study buddhism and psychology and love to write short stories and poetry. Most of that stuff I think is mostly gender neutral. I like nature as well and enjoy camping and hiking. I hate fishing and hunting though, that shit is cruel. I generally hate chick flicks, but I don't like the whole action thing either. I prefer comedies, epics, dramas, and musicals ... and superhero movies lol I mostly listen to cute indie rockers sing about their ex-girlfriends, itt makes me hot (jk) lol I'd say I'm kind of girly girl for sure, but theres a tough side too. Don't mess with me alrite?!

27th Jan 2012, 08:58 AM	#17
thecat06 EC's Biggest LNJF and SNL fan!! Full Member Gender: Let's say Pangender! Orientation: Let's say gay!! Out Status: Out to parents, campus, and 75 friends on facebook Location: Central and Northern Ohio Age: 19 Posts: 2,503 Join Date: Jun 2011	Re: What type of girl are you? I'm pretty tomboyish. I mostly wear guys clothes. I love action movies and I love to watch sports. I am also majoring in a field that is still mostly male. __________________ So many years have passed, since I proclaimed my independence, my mission, my aim, and my vision, so secure, content to live each day like it's my last, it's wonderful to know, that I could be, something more than what I dreamed, far beyond what I could see -Dream Theater

27th Jan 2012, 02:29 PM	#18
Maddy Free Hugs EC Admin Gender: - Orientation: Into girls Location: Melbourne, Australia Age: 21 Posts: 7,704 Join Date: Mar 2008	Re: What type of girl are you? I've started considering myself gender-neutral or agender. I present somewhere between feminine and masculine, I guess. I really want to be able to present as more androgynous, but my face and body are decidedly female. I never wear makeup and wear a unisex style of clothes, although I do have a female haircut. __________________ how strange it is to be anything at all [Victor] 2:09 pm: and then halloween happened and I was outside in a skirt.

27th Jan 2012, 02:45 PM	#19
maverick let watchers become warriors Full Member Gender: You tell me. Orientation: Hey good lookin'. wink Out Status: It's pretty obvious. Location: Alabama cue banjos Age: 26 Posts: 2,118 Join Date: Nov 2010	Re: What type of girl are you? The kind that's a boy. Motorcycle-ridin', Call-of-Duty-headshot-yelpin', ballcap-rockin', chivalry-soapboxin', tattoo-sportin', dragon-slayin' save-the-princess fellow. Who happens to have been born biologically female and is slowly but surely getting over it. But seriously though, Seth Green with tits. That's me. __________________ Shelter me oh genius words, just give me strength / to pen these things, and give me peace to well her wings / and oh, oh carry on, all you minstrels of the world, we will catch our lady's ear, we will win for us the girl.

27th Jan 2012, 06:44 PM	#20
waitingfordawn Well Known Regular Member Gender: Female Orientation: Queer Out Status: to friends and anyone that asks. Except family. Location: Montreal Age: 19 Posts: 140 Join Date: Jan 2012	Re: What type of girl are you? I look femme, I just don't have the attitude of a femme quite yet. :P I'm a girly girl--I love make-up and clothes and SHOES, my God, I have a terrible love affair with shoes. I like "girly" shit and enjoy things like chick flicks and video games in equal measure, though I hate gendered terms like "chick flicks." It just reinforces how if a movie (or anything, really) is about/for men it is said to be universally appealing and a movie that is about/for women is supposed to appeal women only. Hmph. I guess when I say I don't have the attitude of a femme it's because I don't present as such consciously--I have a lot of femme qualities in my personality, but I don't choose to identify as femme quite yet. I would say about my personality that I am confident and assertive and a bitch, but that's just me, it's always been me, it's not a conscious presentation of my gender. It's always been how I am. Like, I am a "bitch" in the way that a man would be "aggressive," I suppose; I have consciously reclaimed that word to show the dichotomy between men and women's personality traits and how they're perceived. If I'm confident and opinionated and won't back down or let anyone step all over me I am a bitch, but if I was a man that would be normal and expected of me. Same with if I was a slut, I would be vilified since I am a woman, but for men, that would be normal and expected. So. I have a femme attitude even if I don't consciously identify as such (yet). Last edited by waitingfordawn; 27th Jan 2012 at 06:46 PM..