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greatfulyslow · 28th Jan 2012, 05:21 PM

This maybe a weird question but what turns you on or is something that you find attractive in someone else?
I go weak in the knees for a woman who has an accent!

It makes me wanna say marry me now so you can speak to me everyday!

Jessica816 · 28th Jan 2012, 05:27 PM

I absolutely love a woman with an British accent! But I for some reason also love when a woman, any woman to wear jeans!

thinkpink · 28th Jan 2012, 05:35 PM

I love a woman in a suit! <3

IanGallagher · 28th Jan 2012, 05:36 PM

Blonde hair, blue eyes. Foreign. A spanish girl. A italian or british girl or guy. Someone my age.

Last night I saw a chick that looked like Emma Roberts who I may have a chance with - she was hot!

Chouchou · 28th Jan 2012, 05:44 PM

Women who are like Rachel Maddow in their intelligence and wit as well as their sartorial choices. I like women who have a child's curiosity about the world, as well as the thoughtfulness and maturity of people who've had many life experiences. I like taller, athletic women, and redheads with blue or green eyes and freckles.

Sunsetting · 28th Jan 2012, 05:46 PM

eyes and confidence

Random Dent · 28th Jan 2012, 05:54 PM

I love when a woman wears a tie.

Eyes, smile, personality...

Raug · 28th Jan 2012, 06:02 PM

When someone sings well I melt. Absolutely. Melt.

kiersten · 28th Jan 2012, 06:10 PM

Thick, black rimmed glasses on a girl are so super-attractive to me! I LOVE that look on a woman! Also, a girl who can really make a pair of ripped jeans & a baggy tee work for her do it for me everytime as well!

thinkpink · 28th Jan 2012, 06:15 PM

This is funny, loads of people are saying they like British accents but I'm British and I like American ones!

Chouchou · 28th Jan 2012, 06:20 PM

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Originally Posted by thinkpink

This is funny, loads of people are saying they like British accents but I'm British and I like American ones!

It's something different, since you hear British accents all the time, but we hear American accents all the time.

Speaking of accents, I find English and Scottish accents pretty appealing. Women who can speak multiple languages fluently are also appealing.

greatfulyslow · 28th Jan 2012, 06:21 PM

thinkpink so Hot!

duriru · 28th Jan 2012, 06:21 PM

I'm a face person. I also like nice teeth. But most importantly, he has to be smart, tolerant and have an overall nice personality. Countless times have I met a guy I thought was attractive, but then he opens his mouth, and says something stupid or ignorant. And the attraction immediately disappears.

Logan · 28th Jan 2012, 06:28 PM

I like a man who can party, but knows when to stop. Also, Latin and Asian men are SO hot!!!

robclem21 · 28th Jan 2012, 08:15 PM

Soft hair that I can run my fingers through! Nice eyes and a well dressed guy really helps his case too

xXLoneWolfXx · 28th Jan 2012, 08:24 PM

well... there is this soft spot on the back of my head.... nuff said.

Alexandria · 28th Jan 2012, 09:07 PM

A woman that wants me for me....

**Owen** · 28th Jan 2012, 09:19 PM

I'm attracted to bigger guys, and there's nothing hotter than when a big guy wears a form-fitting white dress shirt, along with belted pants. It accentuates and brings out his curves in an amazing way. Also, I go weak in the knees when a guy raises his eyebrows.

Also, the four most appealing words in the English language: "I listen to metal."

thecat06 · 28th Jan 2012, 09:34 PM

I usually am attracted to flat-chested women with short haircuts.
If we are talking about men... well I have no idea. I usually just feel an unexpected attraction.

jargon · 28th Jan 2012, 09:41 PM

Long, stretched out torsos on guys are my thing. I've always preferred curvier girls though, when I'm into that.

Also accents, tho not the standard British ones, those get a bit old, sorry Brits! Perhaps "unusual manners of speaking" is a better way to put it - it doesn't have to sound foreign necessarily, just unique.

28th Jan 2012, 05:21 PM	#1
greatfulyslow Member Regular Member Gender: Female Orientation: Bisexual Out Status: A few people Location: USA Age: 27 Posts: 52 Join Date: Aug 2011	What turns you on! This maybe a weird question but what turns you on or is something that you find attractive in someone else? I go weak in the knees for a woman who has an accent! It makes me wanna say marry me now so you can speak to me everyday!

28th Jan 2012, 05:27 PM	#2
Jessica816 EC Addict Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Bi-romantic lesbian? Still working on it Out Status: Out loud and so very proud Location: Kansas city, Mo Age: 23 Posts: 255 Join Date: Nov 2011	Re: What turns you on! I absolutely love a woman with an British accent! But I for some reason also love when a woman, any woman to wear jeans! __________________ "Every gay and lesbian person who has been lucky enough to survive the turmoil of growing up is a survivor. Survivors always have an obligation to those who will face the same challenges."

28th Jan 2012, 05:35 PM	#3
thinkpink Member Regular Member Gender: Female Orientation: Lesbian Out Status: Out to everyone Posts: 69 Join Date: Oct 2011	Re: What turns you on! I love a woman in a suit! <3 __________________ "If God had wished me otherwise, He would have created me otherwise" - Johann von Goethe

28th Jan 2012, 05:36 PM	#4
IanGallagher The fluctuator Regular Member Gender: Male Orientation: Mutant and proud Out Status: All except work and extended family. Location: I fly as much as Superman Age: 24 Posts: 619 Join Date: Apr 2011	Re: What turns you on! Blonde hair, blue eyes. Foreign. A spanish girl. A italian or british girl or guy. Someone my age. Last night I saw a chick that looked like Emma Roberts who I may have a chance with - she was hot! Last edited by IanGallagher; 28th Jan 2012 at 05:45 PM..

28th Jan 2012, 05:44 PM	#5
Chouchou Warrior Goddess Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Homosexual (asexual?) and mostly homoromantic Out Status: To some friends, but not to family Location: Wisconsin, USA Age: 26 Posts: 1,109 Join Date: Oct 2011	Re: What turns you on! Women who are like Rachel Maddow in their intelligence and wit as well as their sartorial choices. I like women who have a child's curiosity about the world, as well as the thoughtfulness and maturity of people who've had many life experiences. I like taller, athletic women, and redheads with blue or green eyes and freckles. __________________ "The good neighbor looks beyond the external accidents and discerns those inner qualities that make all men human and, therefore, brothers." -- Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.

28th Jan 2012, 05:46 PM	#6
Sunsetting Banned Regular Member Gender: Male Orientation: bi, straight, gay Out Status: to some family and friends Location: New York Age: 42 Posts: 950 Join Date: Dec 2011	Re: What turns you on! eyes and confidence

28th Jan 2012, 05:54 PM	#7
Random Dent Liebe ist für alle da! Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: La la la ladies Out Status: I don't care who knows Location: California Age: 27 Posts: 1,692 Join Date: Feb 2011	Re: What turns you on! I love when a woman wears a tie. Eyes, smile, personality... __________________ No government has the right to tell its citizens when or whom to love. The only queer people are those who don't love anybody Rita Mae Brown

28th Jan 2012, 06:02 PM	#8
Raug Silent in secret Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Pansexual Out Status: Retreating to my walk in... Location: Mid-Michigan USA Age: 15 Posts: 225 Join Date: Dec 2011	Re: What turns you on! When someone sings well I melt. Absolutely. Melt. __________________ I am the patriarch

28th Jan 2012, 06:10 PM	#9
kiersten KierstenChromium, Mistress Of Metal Full Member Gender: Transgender - MtF Orientation: Lesbian Out Status: Out to 127 people & my parents & 1 cousin so far Location: Sarnia, ON Posts: 1,331 Join Date: Jun 2011	Re: What turns you on! Thick, black rimmed glasses on a girl are so super-attractive to me! I LOVE that look on a woman! Also, a girl who can really make a pair of ripped jeans & a baggy tee work for her do it for me everytime as well! __________________ Penny: What's Sheldon's deal? Leonard: What do you mean "deal"? Penny : You know, like, what's his deal? Is it girls? Guys? Sock puppets? Leonard: Honestly, we've been operating under the assumption that he has no deal.

28th Jan 2012, 06:15 PM	#10
thinkpink Member Regular Member Gender: Female Orientation: Lesbian Out Status: Out to everyone Posts: 69 Join Date: Oct 2011	Re: What turns you on! This is funny, loads of people are saying they like British accents but I'm British and I like American ones! __________________ "If God had wished me otherwise, He would have created me otherwise" - Johann von Goethe

28th Jan 2012, 06:21 PM	#12
greatfulyslow Member Regular Member Gender: Female Orientation: Bisexual Out Status: A few people Location: USA Age: 27 Posts: 52 Join Date: Aug 2011	Re: What turns you on! thinkpink so Hot!

28th Jan 2012, 06:21 PM	#13
duriru Captain-Commander of the Gotei 13 Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Not out at all Location: Honduras Age: 18 Posts: 985 Join Date: Dec 2011	Re: What turns you on! I'm a face person. I also like nice teeth. But most importantly, he has to be smart, tolerant and have an overall nice personality. Countless times have I met a guy I thought was attractive, but then he opens his mouth, and says something stupid or ignorant. And the attraction immediately disappears.

28th Jan 2012, 06:28 PM	#14
Logan Newbie Regular Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Everyone knows, majority of family doesn't approve Location: Knoxville, TN Posts: 6 Join Date: Jan 2012	Re: What turns you on! I like a man who can party, but knows when to stop. Also, Latin and Asian men are SO hot!!! __________________ "Sacred cows make the tastiest hamburger." - Abbie Hoffman

28th Jan 2012, 08:15 PM	#15
robclem21 Here to chat and make friends Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Sisters and anyone else who wants to know Location: Toronto, Ontario Age: 21 Posts: 88 Join Date: Oct 2011	Re: What turns you on! Soft hair that I can run my fingers through! Nice eyes and a well dressed guy really helps his case too __________________ "You know you're in love when you can't fall asleep because reality is finally better than your dreams." - Dr. Seuss

28th Jan 2012, 08:24 PM	#16
xXLoneWolfXx Kittens Brother Full Member Gender: dude Orientation: I eat rainbows for breakfast! Out Status: I prefer to sleep in a bed. Location: bristol, VA Age: 15 Posts: 686 Join Date: Jul 2011	Re: What turns you on! well... there is this soft spot on the back of my head.... nuff said. __________________ If music be the food of love, play on. -William Shakespeare

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28th Jan 2012, 09:07 PM	#17
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28th Jan 2012, 09:34 PM	#19
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28th Jan 2012, 09:41 PM	#20
jargon Well Known Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Bisexual Out Status: A few people Location: New England Age: 21 Posts: 173 Join Date: Nov 2011	Re: What turns you on! Long, stretched out torsos on guys are my thing. I've always preferred curvier girls though, when I'm into that. Also accents, tho not the standard British ones, those get a bit old, sorry Brits! Perhaps "unusual manners of speaking" is a better way to put it - it doesn't have to sound foreign necessarily, just unique.