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What do you fantasize about when you have a crush?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Chickzak, Feb 14, 2012.

  1. Chickzak

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    I'm not sure if this should be in the Support and Advice section - but feel free to move it as you wish mods :slight_smile:

    I wondered because a lot of my crushes are people I could never be with.. so I just daydream about them but sometimes I dont know what exactly I want from them. Does anybody else feel like that? Or do you actually want something physical -or more emotional like a relationship?
     
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    Before I had a girlfriend I used to fantasize not about a specific crush but just about having someone for me, that chose me and that I could share things with, even if it was as simple as holding hands.
     
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    i fantasize about getting intimate with one of my close male friends. Wish he was gay, god thatd be nice. Id love more than a friend relationship, which is wat we have now. Basically, if i were a chick we'd be dating right now.
     
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    Interestingly enough, I generally fantasize about having reassuring conversations where we help each other feel better about ourselves, usually while cuddling and listening to music that facilitates that kind of exchange. Even when I'm not fantasizing about having that kind of conversation with them, though, if I am fantasizing, cuddling is usually involved. :slight_smile:
     
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    I fantasize that I will one day be able to leave the closet enough to show them I have an interest in them.
     
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    Cuddling.
    Usually just cuddling :slight_smile:
     
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    Dancing romantically to a love song and holding each other close. That's if I really really like/love someone. Otherwise I fantasize that someone will love me that I love back.
     
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    With a crush (as opposed to some random person I'm merely visually attracted to), my fantasies are almost all cuddling, romantic conversation, etc.

    Oh, and:

    Yeah, I know the feeling man :dry:. I hate nature for not making me a girl, lol.
     
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    Stuff like embracing and having long conversations. Nothing beyond that. I'm a prude.
     
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    Cuddling and holding that person.
     
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    With my crush I was really just daydreaming ALL the time, imagining how it would be to just be there with him and be there for eachother, cuddling and perhaps even having that first kiss... then I would remember it will never happen :frowning2:
     
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    thanks for the comments, but do you usually know that you wont eveer have a relationship with them but go ahead and dream anyway.. or do you sort of feel like there is a possible you might make it together?
    .. I'm so damn confused!!
     
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    For me I guess deep down I was kind of hoping that a chance will present itself where there would be a possibility for anything more then just a crush, even though all signs were pointing in the other direction, and that kept me holding onto it, but eventually I realized that I had to let it go, though it still crosses my mind sometimes.
     
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    A combination of these 2.
     
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    With girls, sex.

    With guys, being held in their arms or just cuddling.
     
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    I only wish that person to grab me and say "I love you", first move that's it.