Was your first time with someone special and if not do u regret it? ---------- Post added 17th Feb 2012 at 10:45 PM ---------- Sorry for the typo, "SOMEONE" not smoneone
I regret it. I regret all my "sexual" experiences. Neither were special and neither thought I was special. (no, it wasn't a threesome lol).
My first time was a hook up with a friend I knew for a few years. I don't believe in regrets. Everything I've done has made me who I am. Sure, not all my decisions were perfect but I did what I thought was best at the time so how can I regret doing my best?
My first time was with a girl that I still care a good deal about even though we dont work as a couple so no regrets there. However when it comes to exploring my attraction to guys I have only had drunk fooling around sessions a couple of times and I regret that but am thankful it didnt get too far.
It's perfectly possible for your first time to be with someone special and to still regret it. To be honest, in many ways I have fonder memories of my third time (which was a hook-up) than of my first two times (both of which were with the same person, whom I loved).
My first time with a guy was not at all special. It was a random guy from a club and lasted all of 10 minutes. I didn't really think anything of it so I suppose I don't regret it. My first time with a girl is an interesting one because it 'could have been' special. As in, I'd met her a couple of times before and we hooked up at a party. After that it seemed like there was potential for things to go further, until she told me she'd got back with an ex-girlfriend and defriended me from facebook. This was only a couple of weeks ago and I still miss her a bit. But I definitely don't regret it.
looking back now that I have experience it wasn't very good as far as skill level obviously but at the time we were both into it and it was amazing
Someone special and I regret it. It was my best friend who could have cared less about me in a romantic sense. I wouldn't call it a hook-up because it happened a lot more than just once... And it was "someone special" because I really cared about & loved her. I agree with Mogget, there should probably be a "someone special but regret it" category too. Or "friends with benefits" or some other categories that people might fit into.
Yes it was with someone special and I do so not regret it. Alright, it was awkward and very careful and we were both nervous like hell, but hey, it was our first time. It's better now.
My first time was with a guy I was in a long-term relationship with. I guess I don't regret the sex, since it was meaningful, but I kind of wish I'd skipped that relationship and all the associated drama.
