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| Guest | How do you cope/combat a bad day? |
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| CHESTO!!! Full Member ![]() Gender: Male Orientation: Bryce-sexual Out Status: A few people Location: South Carolina Age: 23 Posts: 3,774 Join Date: Apr 2011 | Many ways: ~kick people's asses in fighting games ~watch anime/Asian drama ~listen to my classical music, which sometimes leads to writing music ~if it's cold outside, a short walk around the apartment complex usually helps me cool down ~southern-style iced sweet tea
__________________ ![]() "I'm talking 'bout real love." ~Bolin |
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| Guest | I wait it out. Go to sleep, overthink everything, sometimes write really twisted stories (I wrote one that was 1/4 a page in length and consisted of somebody getting their throat sliced). ![]() |
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| Scout Full Member ![]() Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Friends Location: Melbourne Age: 28 Posts: 599 Join Date: Sep 2011 | I listen to my childhood music to bring back some good times. |
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| Well Known Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: 2 close friends Location: Italy Age: 21 Posts: 149 Join Date: Jan 2012 | Not exactly the healthiest - drink.
__________________ "Seriously, it's not supposed to be easy... that's why it feels so fucking good." - AWOLNATION |
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| This space for lease. Full Member ![]() Gender: Male Orientation: I like guys Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Hippie Town, Alberta of the US Age: 32 Posts: 2,889 Join Date: Nov 2008 | A lot of swearing. not the best habbit. I am trying rather unsuccessfully to work on that.
__________________ All the problems of the world could be settled easily if men were only willing to think. The trouble is that men very often resort to all sorts of devices in order not to think, because thinking is such hard work. --Thomas J. Watson |
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| Well Known Regular Member ![]() Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Both of my sisters :) Location: Buenos Aires, Argentina Age: 21 Posts: 193 Join Date: Sep 2011 | For me, the best way to get through a bad day could be by watching a good movie that makes me laugh; or having a long warm shower to ease the tension; or listening to either kylie minogue, gwen stefani, mgmt, crystal castles or phoenix (never listen to sad or depressing music) while maybe singing to it. The key is to relax. |
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| rabblerabblerabble Full Member ![]() Gender: Male Orientation: i think i might be gay :O Out Status: only to you people Location: Los Angeles, Ca Age: 20 Posts: 160 Join Date: Apr 2009 | look up funny memes on the internet ;P i.e. Uber Freshman: Buys...all his recommended books. That one's kinda easy to get haha I also watch Teen Mom and when something bad happens to them i feel better about myself (cruel I know >_>) |
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| Insomniac formerly known as Shades Regular Member ![]() Gender: Male-ish. Often feel agendered. Orientation: The answer to that depends on your defintion. Out Status: Barring some extd. fam., out to anyone who asks :) Location: Montana or Seattle, dependent on time of year. Age: 21 Posts: 1,560 Join Date: Jul 2011 | If it's really bad I remove myself from all stressful situations/activities and try to watch funny movies or tv shows until I've forgotten about whatever is bothering me. Otherwise I just refuse to address the problem and adopt an apathetic, emotionless attitude while trying to do work of some sort. Frankly, I need to figure out a better method of dealing with those days, lol ~ emotions build up so easily and I can only compartmentalize for so long... |
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| EC Addict Full Member ![]() Gender: Male Orientation: Sexual Location: Amsterdam Age: 20 Posts: 1,224 Join Date: Jan 2012 | First, I try to ignore it and pretend nothing is wrong. Then, if that doesn't work, I try to find a distraction. Anything will do, as long as I don't have to think about it. Mostly I watch a movie or surf the internet, or if it's not too late, I go to the jym to work it off. If anything, I need to be alone, creating my own distraction, I really don't want other people around at moments like that. If there are a lot of bad days in a very short time... then lately more often I tend to drink. Probably a bit too much too. |
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| Waiting Full Member ![]() Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Parents, 2 others Location: Saskatchewan Age: 21 Posts: 419 Join Date: Feb 2012 | I just talk to a friend and let them know what was going on, get their sympathy or ideas then move on. In the worst case I just sort sit around, thinking about the day and what I could have done to make it better. |
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| EC Addict Full Member ![]() Gender: Female Orientation: Bisexual Out Status: Most Know; Open About It Location: Long Island Age: 15 Posts: 738 Join Date: Jan 2012 | Blast music so loud I can't hear anything at all. And go on wittyprofiles.com and here. Usually helps me out. |
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| Adept in the Art of Mischief Full Member ![]() Gender: Genderqueer Orientation: There is no gender Out Status: Not out at all Location: Louisiana Posts: 96 Join Date: Jan 2012 | I just listen to "angry" music on as loud as my speakers allow and do art work
__________________ "Maggots, Michael. You're eating maggots. How do they taste?" (v-.-v) <('.'<)---(>^.^)><(^0^<) ![]() ![]() |
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| Guest | whiskey |
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| Love Full Member ![]() Gender: ♂ Orientation: ♂ ♥ ♂ Out Status: Out Location: N.W. Ohio Age: 21 Posts: 2,239 Join Date: Mar 2010 | I'll watch some of my favorite comedian's specials whenever I've had a really crappy day, or drink some wine, and then sleep.
__________________ I'm giving you a night call, to tell you how I feel. I want to drive you through the night, down the hills. I'm gonna tell you something you don't want to hear. I'm gonna show you where it's dark, but have no fear. |
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| Guest | Cry, go to my room and lay in my bed and listen to music, Ill do this for as long as I need to.. |
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| Well Known Full Member ![]() Gender: Female, right? Orientation: Gay Out Status: Anyone who asks, except parents. Location: Salem New York Age: 16 Posts: 231 Join Date: Jan 2012 | I sing a sad song just to turn it around! ![]() Nahh, I just try and ignore it and go for long walks on the railroad tracks and sing to myself, and listen to the river gargle underneath the bridge. ![]() Oooh or at night, watching the stars with a good friend or by myself really helps.
__________________ This is a conversation between A and B, so C your way out before D jumps over E and Fs you up like a G. |
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| EC Addict Full Member ![]() Gender: Male Orientation: Bisexual Out Status: All but family Location: Brisbane, Australia Age: 17 Posts: 1,358 Join Date: Jul 2011 | Bitch session! Well, that's my name for bitching about the things/people making my day wanksville. On the more depressing/hopeless days, I'll spend more time listening to my depressing songs and playing Facebook games, and whine instead of bitch. I've gotten used to bottling up emotion, so bitch sessions are my way of letting that out.
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| Hope will never be silent Full Member ![]() Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Orlando, Florida Age: 22 Posts: 4,264 Join Date: Mar 2010 | If its a pretty horrible day then I just take a nap or play a video game. After having a moment of not thinking about it I can pretty much cope with whatever by thinking about the future and making sure tomorrow isn't a horrible day. Oh, and trashy reality tv shows!! Watching other people make fools of themselves on tv makes me forget about problems pretty fast and I get reminded that I could be doing much more worse.
__________________ "Either/or is the language of bullies" - Kate Bornstein |
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