I think they know!

Sameee here!... I stated to notice some of my closest friends bringing up the gay topic very often and as you say they giggle and stuff and i'm on the same situation as you .. ahhhh


lol

 

haha good idea... same here.. because like i've had like kind of reputation of having gf's and stuff so i dont think they can belive me been gay. still that thrwos them off but they never ask directly ... you know what i mean?

 

Maybe its because of your new hairstyle ppreston.

 

That's understandable.
I'd prefer people find out from me, not through rumors or speculation.

 

i know people talk about it. a LOT of people know me at my school (not to sound vain or anything) and gay rumors get back to me all the time.

its whatever. they'll all find out they were right after graduation. even those girls that i hooked up with :lol:

 

I know that at least at my school, probably a quarter of the people are suspected of being gay, and they have rumors going. It is really pretty stupid, not to mention inaccurate and rude. So just ignore them. Although having a girlfriend would probably do some damage to those rumors, don't do that just because of the rumors.

 

Bad idea. Don't get a girlfriend if you know you are gay.:eusa_naug Trust me...

 

yeah. that could be even more awkward if you ask me.^^^^

and also is it really fair to play with a girls feelings if you know youre gay, but just pretending youre not...
seems a little unfair for the girl, especially if she develops feelings for you.

 

If you get a girlfriend and know you're gay. you could break someone's heart and have them hating you for a long time. big no no!

 

there's a chance they know, and there's a chance they don't. there's a chance they've been talkin about it behind yer back. and then there's the chance that yer slightly paranoid from being in the closet. uhm, as for any advice...i don't think i got any for this one brah. i'm sorry :icon_sad:

 

There has always been rumors about me...since like 8th grade...But I really don't pay attention to them. Our school LOVES to gossip, and there is a rumor about everyone.

But sometimes I do get the impression that some of my friends do know, but then I think I'm just paranoid...

 

Yeah, definitely don't get a girlfriend....I went through hell 'cause I made that mistake. She said I was basically an insensitive pig because I didn't give her what she needed. I broke her heart because I couldn't give her what she was looking for. And she wasn't looking for much at all. Being gay isn't easy by any means, especially if you haven't come out, but it's a good idea to avoid hurting other people so that you can stay in the closet. It'll just result in drama. Plus you don't want to get involved with a relationship that doesn't mean anything and have something truly awful happen.

 

I can't believe you 3 people didn't pick up that BlasttheCloset is a female. :|

 

Pfft. I never got that. The only person who knew was my brother, and that was because he cleaned up my internet history for ages - we used to share a computer.

 

Im a noob you were talking about ppreston. >_> Move along nothing to see here.