Gays - Need opinions!!!

To be honest, I'm not sure I'd be into guys with pierced ears.

 

In general I would say the earring has to fit your style and the seize has to fit the scaling of your head, so I can't pretty much say if it fits you personally. What you describe seems to be decent enough to be only a small change and most likely will look good
Primarily you shouldn't get pearced if you do not want it for yourself but just to give clues to other people. I strongly recommend not to get one of this huge rings expanding your earlap (just in case you wanted to get one of these later) because they don't heal anymore.
My favourite "earrings" are industrials, I think they look pretty cool.

Hope it will live up to your expectations

DOOM

 

Not to dodge the question, but why can't women comment? Are you planning on living in some sort of gay men's commune? And while I'm at it, what's with the "you gays"?

Anyways, I don't think you should worry so much about what other people think of it. If you want to get it done, get it done and enjoy it. I don't think it's going to be some kind of obvious signpost for your sexuality though. It may have been at one point but I think that time is passed.

 

Piercings in general are a bit of a turn off for me personally, but I don't mind studs really. Anything bigger though, probably not.

 

To be honest I really don't like guys with piercings, even in the ears.

 

To be honest, it varies on every guy lol. While a cubic stud would be flashy and a little gay, I'm sorry but to me its extremely tacky. Either get a real diamond stud, or don't' get it at all. That's my feeling. Or get a small hoop.

 

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No piercing completely heals. If you get one it won't become 'invisible' again, even just a regular earring/stud leaves a mark. But I must agree that a streched lobe will be more visible all the time, leaves a little hole instead of a tiny spot. Although I think streched lobes are awesome and totally hot.

But yeah, dear OP.
First of all, I think you should have one only if you want to have one, not because other people's/other gay guys' opinion.

Like I said, I love streched lobes, but I'm not a fan of studs/earrings. Especially the bling bling zirconia. But in the end it's about what you like and what you want. And although it will leave a little mark, just a stud isn't as permanent as a streched plug, so if it turns out you don't really like it/your friend dislikes it you can always take it out again

EDIT: only saw the right/left thing after posting but I disagree with that. I know gay guys with their left ear pierced and a straight guy with a 1" streched right ear... in my opinion it says nothing

 

In my opinion, piercings either don't really make a difference to someone's attractiveness, or they make them look worse than they would without. They never have a positive effect on me, only neutral or negative.

I've never looked at someone and thought "He'd look good with piercings", but I've looked at plenty and thought "He'd look better without piercings."

Of course you should do what you want though, not what you think other people like.

 

No. In fact, aside from ear piercings on women, I don't like piercings full stop. They don't suit and in some circumstances, are ugly.

 

I assume it could have something to do with where you live and "local traditions" (i don't know if there's a real word for that haha).

By the way, I also prefer two pierced ears (studs, streched, anything) instead of just left or right, but I'm a huge symmetry fan so not really reliable.

 

Yep that's quite right.I'm getting mine done in Bristol tommorow but probally not ready to get it done in the right ear parents would freak